Wife left me for another man

[rockchisler]

Re: Wife left me for another man

Sorry to hear that my dude, keep ya head up

[longshadow11]

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Just found out wife and boyfriend have rented a house and expect to live there with my kids. This whole thing just got ugly. Thank the Lord my 15 year old says she is no way living with them. She is livid. We have a nice house and her mom is trying to move her to a worse house with a man who is not her father.

I am not going to stand for this. No way in hell are my daughters going to live with my wife and her boyfriend. Man, I'm starting to hate this woman. What an immoral, selfish, cold-hearted witch.

[Speedy]

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Gary I feel for you. I am married and would be devastated if this happened. The only thing I can say is keep your head up for yourself and your children and God will take care of you. He has a plan for you.<O</O

Exactly; all things work together for good...

Either this situation can make you a better man or a bitter man.

[AlexBrady]

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Thoughts and prayers are with you longshadow.

[nemesis04]

Re: Wife left me for another man

Just found out wife and boyfriend have rented a house and expect to live there with my kids. This whole thing just got ugly. Thank the Lord my 15 year old says she is no way living with them. She is livid. We have a nice house and her mom is trying to move her to a worse house with a man who is not her father.

I am not going to stand for this. No way in hell are my daughters going to live with my wife and her boyfriend. Man, I'm starting to hate this woman. What an immoral, selfish, cold-hearted witch.

I really hope you are getting a lawyer because it's go time!

[frostbyte06]

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Man, I don't know you personally, but as a fellow believer I want you to know that I am sending up prayers (and will continue to do so). I'm praying a specific prayer, that God gives you the strength to survive this situation, but we already know that he won't give more than you can bear. I'm also praying that he gives you the strength to accept whatever the outcome to this situation will be. As I mentioned I don't know you, but as a fellow believer I realize that knowing that others are praying for you on your behalf can be very uplifting. Sorry for your situation.

[DickDalewood]

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Just found out wife and boyfriend have rented a house and expect to live there with my kids. This whole thing just got ugly. Thank the Lord my 15 year old says she is no way living with them. She is livid. We have a nice house and her mom is trying to move her to a worse house with a man who is not her father.

I am not going to stand for this. No way in hell are my daughters going to live with my wife and her boyfriend. Man, I'm starting to hate this woman. What an immoral, selfish, cold-hearted witch.

Get a lawyer my friend. You have the upper hand. It's time to put the nice formalities aside and do what's best for yourself and your kids. I'd fight for full custody, as clearly your soon to be ex-wife is no role model for them to be around.

Get this to court man, please. You have to take control of this situation immediately.

[Phobia]

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Just found out wife and boyfriend have rented a house and expect to live there with my kids. This whole thing just got ugly. Thank the Lord my 15 year old says she is no way living with them. She is livid. We have a nice house and her mom is trying to move her to a worse house with a man who is not her father.

I am not going to stand for this. No way in hell are my daughters going to live with my wife and her boyfriend. Man, I'm starting to hate this woman. What an immoral, selfish, cold-hearted witch.

Gary, Just wanna say man. This kind of stuff truly hurts to hear. Women can be ruthless, best thing you can do is stay a "good man". If you continue to be a good father to your kids, a good man to your country and a good son to the lord. Everything will work out in your favor in the end. It might not always seem promising and will seem like you are in the darkest of dark. But stay strong and keep faith and it will all get better.

Take care man, hope things start improving.
Phobia

[SPTO]

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Just found out wife and boyfriend have rented a house and expect to live there with my kids. This whole thing just got ugly. Thank the Lord my 15 year old says she is no way living with them. She is livid. We have a nice house and her mom is trying to move her to a worse house with a man who is not her father.

I am not going to stand for this. No way in hell are my daughters going to live with my wife and her boyfriend. Man, I'm starting to hate this woman. What an immoral, selfish, cold-hearted witch.

Gary as much as you were hesitant before I think it's time to proceed with litigation. If your "wife" is already doing this then odds are she and her boy toy has already contacted a lawyer themselves. I pray it doesn't get too messy but damnit looks like you're gonna have to fight for your children in court.

God speed my friend.

[Phobia]

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Gary as much as you were hesitant before I think it's time to proceed with litigation. If your "wife" is already doing this then odds are she and her boy toy has already contacted a lawyer themselves. I pray it doesn't get too messy but damnit looks like you're gonna have to fight for your children in court.

God speed my friend.

Plus like SPTO has said, even if she has not. You guys will never be a happy married couple again. She has destroyed your trust and your respect of her. It hurts, but it is over. Time to start the healing process and the best way to do that is do what is best for your kids. Take her to court and get custody of your daughters.

[Pared]

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I would agree talking to a lawyer is a must. Your children's custody is at stake, more than anything else... Do it to insure your kids stay with you.

Even if she was 100% in the wrong, unfortunately our society tends to side with the mother.

[longshadow11]

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I just received a phone call that the other man, who is a teacher, had an affair with a cheerleader a few years ago. People are trying to get through to my wife to tell her what he is. Of course, I'm thinking she ain't no prize considering she's willing to live with this guy and have my kids there. It's hard to explain how this makes me feel. It's as if she has had a lobotomy. The woman I knew for over 18 years is no longer alive.

[stewaat]

Re: Wife left me for another man

Mid-life crisis?

Either way I echo the "get a lawyer" statements. She chose the path she wants to go and it's over man. Getting pissed & angry isn't going to do anything productive for you at this point.

Move forward and do everything you can for your daughters.

Just my suggestion

[nemesis04]

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I just received a phone call that the other man, who is a teacher, had an affair with a cheerleader a few years ago. People are trying to get through to my wife to tell her what he is. Of course, I'm thinking she ain't no prize considering she's willing to live with this guy and have my kids there. It's hard to explain how this makes me feel. It's as if she has had a lobotomy. The woman I knew for over 18 years is no longer alive.

Start keeping a journal with dates and what was said and who said it. Documentation is key and will help you keep the facts straight. The woman you knew is gone let her worry about the cheerleader. Stay the course, your ultimate goal is to make sure your daughters are properly taken care of.

[Greatlookinhair]

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Im sorry to her about this. After 18 years? wow.... I hate hearing stories like this. I hope things get better man.