Freaking females

[jmill703]

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Most college girls are only good for one thing... You should try to hit it as soon as possible. Forget about going out on dates. Just try to get them to come up to your dorm room to "watch a movie" , try to seal the deal. After you get done don't call, text, or facebook her. Let her seek you out. And let her seek out a relationship.

[JBH3]

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Not saying he shouldn't move on, just saying it's easy for people to type that on a message board when we can't gauge the true level of interest and all that he has for this particular girl.

Whatever the true level of interest for the OP, the girl in question here has shown little intiative to want to hook up. Whereas the OP has taken the intiative on more than one occasion. Now he's frustrated...this is not a good beginning to a relationship. Frustrated w/ a person you're not even officially dating yet...

[GaryT531]

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Bottom line dude is if she's still texting you, she's at least still somewhat interested. If she's texting you first sometimes, then that's definitely a plus. It's up to you to figure out a way to get something going.

Are you 21? If so your school probably has a bar that is popular on Thursday's. Invite her out. Tell her to bring her friends, and you bring your friends. That should work.

The only thing that I can think of is maybe she thinks that you have fallen into "the friend zone" If you're hanging out, and connecting, you have to go in for a kiss if it's there. If you havn't, she might not feel like you're into her like that. Just don't quit yet man. You'll know when it's time to abort this mission.

[GaryT531]

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Most college girls are only good for one thing... You should try to hit it as soon as possible. Forget about going out on dates. Just try to get them to come up to your dorm room to "watch a movie" , try to seal the deal. After you get done don't call, text, or facebook her. Let her seek you out. And let her seek out a relationship.

I agree, this is the way to do it in college. Or try to hook up after a party. But not if you're looking for a relationship.

[ODogg]

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To the OP - What are you looking for here with this girl? A relationship or just a roll in the hay?

[ScoobySnax]

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To the OP - What are you looking for here with this girl? A relationship or just a roll in the hay?

Hadn't heard that reference in a long time lol

[Rawdeal28]

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First problem:

Idle chatter. Try to stay away from it. If you aren't making plans, no need to sit on the phone and/or text a female for extended periods of time. You appear to NOT be busy and women like challenges. Always being available to her isn't a challenge. So they CAN lose interest quickly.

As I am reading, I think that is the entire issue here. Too much talking and not enough face to face. It should be up to you to just make plans because females are often time clueless when it comes to making plans. Just take charge.

Give it up. Let her work her way back in. She canceled a date. She has to pay.

this is the advice u need to follow. thats them macklessons right there.

[Po Pimp]

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It's college......don't ever take college chicks serious. It seems quite obvious she has another guy she trying to holla at and when he isn't around, she tries to hang out with you. Why do you think she always ends phone calls within 4 minutes ??? because the dude she is with just flushed the toliet and about to get out the bathroom.

This whole post is truth.

She may very well like u, but at the same time, she doesn't wanna get rid of this other dude because he's giving her "special attention" and she doesn't know what u bring to the table yet, and don't wanna mess up things with this other cat. She's trying to play u son.

My only advice would be to cut her off and see if she actually tries to get up with u. If she actually does initiate doing something more, proceed with caution...meaning, go out with her and make your move...but don't be a sucka for love afterwards. If she persists with these meaningless texts and phone calls, let her meditate to the dial tone or act like ur too busy.

[Lava]

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Well, all the good advice has pretty much been given. The only thing left to say is good luck, and I'm sure you'll get a different chick or this one will come around sooner or later.

[USF11]

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If your not rounding second after a week, your just a friend.

[marshallfever]

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So she called me yesterday while i was watching television. Wasn't sure what to say so i didn't pick up, but i called her back about 10 mins later with no answer.

I went to sleep a little after and woke up to a text from her saying: "Reason why i called earlier was to say hello. I feel as thought I haven't reached out to you in a while" and a bit more........


Hummm

[wsu_gb23]

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she's just looking for attention. As soon as you show any interest she is turned off, but as soon as you ignore her she likes you again. It's all a big game. If she really likes you and you ask her to a movie or something, she will oblige. I say move on, or find her drunk at a party or something where both of you don't care what happens. Good luck.

[sb24]

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Well what was the bit more.... That just seems like she is touching base with friends.

[marshallfever]

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Well what was the bit more.... That just seems like she is touching base with friends.

Nothing more but hoping i had a good night

[CMH]

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Games. Too many. I'm a bitter man when it comes to these things so I'm a bit emotionally biased, but don't deal with that nonsense.

Random text just to say hello? That's games. She just wants to see if you'll answer back as soon as possible. Think about what guys do when they are trying to keep a booty call close. They hit up the girl every now and then just to remind her he's still around. That's what she's doing here. She wants you to keep her in mind so you'll jump out of your shoes for her when she's ready.

The point is: if she wanted to do something she would have left a message saying so or mentioned it in the text. She's not making an effort to be around you, so don't make the effort to be around her. Even if you give up and go hard after her, I promise you you'll end up regretting it because the relationship will always be like that. You, making an effort. Her, sitting back. That's not a relationship.