Time To Come Clean! What's Your Biggest Flaw?

[ScoobySnax]

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I am an extremely sensitive person. If someone mocks how I talk (whether they are joking or not) , I get pretty upset.

I have been told I am not very enthusiastic and I often talk like it. I try to be more high energy and enthusiastic when I talk but sometimes it sounds sooooo fake, lol. I have often been told I sound timid.

It takes alot for me to speak my mind about something. By the time I speak up, I am so upset when I talk that I can hardly breathe. REALLY tryin to work on this one.

I dont have very high self esteem. (LOL I had someone tell me---"why do you have low self esteem? You're not fat!"). It has to do with my childhood, where my dad always told me that in order to be happy in life that I have to fit in with everyone else. He still tells me that as an adult.

I have ALOT of trouble trying to block out negative thoughts about the problems in my life and they often ruin good days.

This is eerily similar to how I am.

[pw_1016]

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If my dad said that to me, "We would goto blows".

I have been told I just need to tell my dad "**** you"..i have wanted to soooooo many times, believe me.

@ScoobySnax-

It is nice to know there are people out there who are very similar to I. Most people try to make me feel weird for the way I am.

[ProjectRipCity]

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I'm an extremely paranoid person. I will be skitzophrenic

[AnArtofWar]

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I don't know. I guess it is either my poor work ethic, my pessimism/poor self esteem or my shyness. Although my shyness just is with new people. I am fine when I get to know a person even a tiny bit.

[jmood88]

Re: Time To Come Clean! What's Your Biggest Flaw?

Procrastination

Jealousy

There are too many times where people will be talking to me and I just zone out, which happens in classes and is the reason why I'm horrible at remembering people's names when I first meet them.

I get obsessed with things/people for a little bit and then I just stop caring anymore, like with my last girlfriend I wanted to be around her like 24/7 and then at some point I just got tired of her and didn't want anything to do with her.

[Marino]

Re: Time To Come Clean! What's Your Biggest Flaw?

Procrastination

Jealousy

There are too many times where people will be talking to me and I just zone out, which happens in classes and is the reason why I'm horrible at remembering people's names when I first meet them.

I get obsessed with things/people for a little bit and then I just stop caring anymore, like with my last girlfriend I wanted to be around her like 24/7 and then at some point I just got tired of her and didn't want anything to do with her.

I see me and you are very similar.

[USF11]

Re: Time To Come Clean! What's Your Biggest Flaw?

Procrastination

Jealousy

There are too many times where people will be talking to me and I just zone out, which happens in classes and is the reason why I'm horrible at remembering people's names when I first meet them.

I get obsessed with things/people for a little bit and then I just stop caring anymore, like with my last girlfriend I wanted to be around her like 24/7 and then at some point I just got tired of her and didn't want anything to do with her.

I also treat women like video games. They have a 40-100Hr self-life.

[Chip Douglass]

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Paranoid as hell.

Passive-aggressive.

Easily distracted (ADHD).

Somewhat unassertive.

Emotionally shy.

Can come off as arrogant at times.

Somewhat jealous.

Did I list too many negatives? There are plenty of positives as well...

[ImTellinTim]

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I procrastinate.

People say I can come off as arrogant or think I'm better than them, but it's honestly not what I'm thinking.

Like jmood, I zone out sometimes when someone is talking to me. It's rude and something I'm always working on.

I'm unorganized (espcially at work), but it's something I've really improved on in the past year.

I overanalyze certain situations, sometimes to the point where I just end up doing nothing about it.

I am socially shy in certain situations, especially if I only know one or two people in a situation. I actually do better when I'm on my own.

I tend to have jealousy issues, espcially when it comes to women I'm with.

[jmood88]

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I forgot to add that I really don't have as high a self esteem as people think I do. I'm not depressed or hate myself or anything but people think that I think I'm the greatest at everything when that's not even close to being true.

[CWood2]

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I'm incredibly selfish about my time.

I'm pretty motivated, doing real well with the career and have always "had it together." So I work hard, and when I have free time, I want to spend it on my hobbies to decompress from the stress of work. Watching sports, playing PS3, playing sports, or just kicking back to watch a movie or an ROH DVD (of late) all inhibit my ability to think more about other people and how I can find fulfillment in serventude. Perfect example that sums it up. If I have an hour in a given day, my first thought is "sweet, now I can get in a game on The Show" or something along those lines. Every single time, without fail. And once I go there mentally, if you ask me to get out in the yard to help out or run an errand, I'll do the right thing but do it with the worst attitude.

Important to note ... not married, still living at home saving up for a place of my own, with a gorgeous and amazing girlfriend of a year and a half. No kids, so I feel as if that would change me immediately. But I could do more to help my parents around the house. I could be a better brother. And I could make my girlfriend feel more special even though I really do go out of my way to spoil her and show love through actions rather than words. She probably suffers the least because I can't get enough of her, but for the people that I could help more like friends or family ... I could honestly be a better human being if I valued myself a little less. And the irony is that I'm very generous with money, which the more I think about it, confirms that I'm compensating for my biggest flaw.

[ODogg]

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I was thinking about this thread last night and I think probably my biggest flaw is i'm insecure about what people think about me. Like right now I have a girlfriend (for the first time in a long time) and although she says everything is great and calls me, seems to enjoy me, I keep wondering why she's interested in me and that she's lying and really does not like me. It's completely irrational because why would this woman be pretending to be interested in me and spending time with me if she doesn't like me?? But I still can't help but think she really doesn't like me and is just doing it for some other reason.

I guess that would also mean i'm suspicious of people's motives too huh? Wow...this thread is depressing, LOL

[Jasong7777]

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I was thinking about this thread last night and I think probably my biggest flaw is i'm insecure about what people think about me.

THIS

[cardsfan2222]

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My biggest flaw is procrastination. I meant to post this sooner, but I kept putting it off.

I also have trouble living in the moment. I went with my wife to San Diego a couple of weeks ago, and the whole time I was there I was thinking about how the trip was almost over, and I would have to go back to work soon, etc. I couldn't just enjoy being there without worrying about going back.

Lack of motivation has been creeping up alot in my job lately. I've had a minor thing on my list to do at work all week, and I keep putting it off because I just don't want to do it. I guess this ties in to number 1.

[BooShay]

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Im a procrastinator and I get really shy in groups of 5 or more