Interesting ordeal at the gym tonight...

[Money99]

Re: Interesting ordeal at the gym tonight...

She's still married. End of story.

Agreed. For all you know that woman was lying through her teeth to get some 'extras' on the side.

Stay away. She has two kids and a husband still. Don't be an a'hole.

And I agree with Gamecock also when he said you'd be a real man if you told her "Good luck with your marriage".
You don't have to be rude, but for all you know, you could be breaking up a happy home.
That husband might be madly in love with her and not even know she was out trying to pick up college boys.

[TheShizNo1]

Re: Interesting ordeal at the gym tonight...

Agreed. For all you know that woman was lying through her teeth to get some 'extras' on the side.

Stay away. She has two kids and a husband still. Don't be an a'hole.

And I agree with Gamecock also when he said you'd be a real man if you told her "Good luck with your marriage".
You don't have to be rude, but for all you know, you could be breaking up a happy home.
That husband might be madly in love with her and not even know she was out trying to pick up college boys.

Update?!?!?

[allBthere]

Re: Interesting ordeal at the gym tonight...

Man, you got love cougars. I don't recommend for young guys to hook up with older women, but more power to you.

I've nailed a few cougs. I'm 29 now, but when I was 20,22 and some other age I pounded a few older women. Ranging from 34 to 40. (they may have lied too)

If they work out and have an awesome body, hells yes tap that ***. Just respect marriages - that's all. Don't fall in love either because there is no future with the two of you. You can get some crazy sex out of it though.

edit; never meet her kids, so dont go over if they are there. There's always hotel's or your place. There is no reason for you to meet her family - and yes if she's still married, it might be best to stay away and prevent a tire iron from crashing into your skull.

[USF11]

Re: Interesting ordeal at the gym tonight...

Ah another male/female relationship thread...I'm starting to love these. I think we can all say we helped Odogg out, and I'm really happy for the guy.

This is a simple case of Stella trying to get her groove back. I say that because she choose YOU in this instance. She interrupted your workout and started the conversation, you simply enabled her to talk. You played your part, all you did was listen and provided petty compliments that validated her new role as a cougar.

Is she into you? Aside from your youth, I doubt it. She's not treating you subjectively. You're a 21 year old, and she's 48. She's not looking for a man, she's looking to have fun with a young buck. Can you **** the snot outta her? Of course, and by all means. Keep this as a jump-off. (For the urban impaired, a jump-off is a girl who is available anytime for sexual gratification)

You're dealing with confidence issues so ****ing her will only help with your self-esteem. Another bonus is she'll enable you to step your game up. I doubt older women do this consciously, but they have an impact on your fashion, your communication with other females and even your sex life. Older women have more awareness when it comes to what a man actually looks like and they will show you the way. This woman will tell you what looks good with your body type, what cologne you should wear and how you should fix your hair. Prime example, look what Aston Kutcher use to look like before he met Demi Moore. He went from being an Abercrombie and fitch, trucker hat wearing douche bag into Mr. GQ over night. You have to leverage her wisdom, she knows more about being a man then you do.

Plus, she's also dealing with confidence issues, and by ****ing you allows her to get back into the game and make her feel like a young women again. She's technically still married, but that shouldn't stop you. (I can already hear the bible thumpers bashing me) A women will not leave a man without having another guy to fall in line. It's just women psychology, don't try to understand it, just keep hitting it.

It's a win/win situation, as long as you don't fall for her.

I've been in this situation before, all I'm going to say is have fun. This will only help your confidence, but do not treat her like a g/f. Do not buy her flowers or write her any emo poems. Just hook up, have good conversation that enables her to talk about life (stay away from anything that mentions her ex) and have sex. That's it. Don't play Aston Kutcher and don't let her introduce you to her kids or her friends. Allow her to tell you what women want..she's been one for 48 years. Use her to your advantage my man and reap all the benefits.

Nivek if you ever come to chicago we need to have a beer.

[UA210]

Re: Interesting ordeal at the gym tonight...

If you want to get laid, go for it. Just be prepared to deal with the consequences.







And trust me, there are always consequences.

Not if you rush out of her house when you're done. Oh, and never return to the gym after that.

[Nivek]

Re: Interesting ordeal at the gym tonight...

Nivek if you ever come to chicago we need to have a beer.

I might be in Chi-town after my euro trip at the end August. I might have to take you up on that.