Officially Divorced/Ex Already Remarried

[Scottdau]

Re: Officially Divorced/Ex Already Remarried

That's exactly my point. I really see myself as a happily married man in the future, but right now I see marriage as a liability for someone my age. I hope that changes in the future, but I find that most young married couples are miserable.

I can't count how many girls I see going ape**** in bars and clubs only to find out they need to go home to their husbands. I'm not talking about a typical girls night out, I'm talking about girls gone wild type of ish.

That is because they probably should have not gotten married. But once you do you have to make it work. Which is where people really struggle doing. Once you get married those wild night outs should stop, but a lot of young people don't want them to stop.

[Nivek]

Re: Officially Divorced/Ex Already Remarried

If you think that is what marriage is all about then don't get married. The bottom line is marriage is so much more. Once you find that special someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with, then you will understand what marriage means. It is basically you and her against the world, so to speak. You are partner and you have each other backs. That is what is great about marriage. But to not be confused, it will not easy be a fire inside for this person, especially when they get you mad, but at the end of day. I would have it no other way. Marriage is great. I rather be married, then hitting every thing under the sun. Plus once you find that special person, you don't have to worry about STD. There is more then just a tax break. If you can't see that yet, then you are doing the right thing about not getting married. Marriage is work, plain and simple, but it is work that is well worth it.

Good answer - that's exactly what I'm looking for in a partner in crime.

[Scottdau]

Re: Officially Divorced/Ex Already Remarried

Good answer - that's exactly what I'm looking for in a partner in crime.

It really is true. I don't have all the answers when it comes to marriage. I have only been married for 15 years. But I have read a lot of books on it and have saved a lot of marriage, but it is so much easier telling others what to do to have a solid marriage, than it is to tell my self that. I have a solid marriage, but I have a great wife that puts up with my crap.