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  • deaduck
    MVP
    • Mar 2009
    • 2389

    #31
    Re: Something I'm not sure that bothers me...

    I can never get why guys seem all caught up in knowing a girls number.

    The pre relationship Dr's check up has got you about as covered as you can get nowadays. Getting all deep in each others past is just setting up future landmines...the reality is if you like a chick, then you need to understand that the road she took to get there is a big part of it.

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    • VDusen04
      Hall Of Fame
      • Aug 2003
      • 13034

      #32
      Re: Something I'm not sure that bothers me...

      Originally posted by Gotmadskillzson
      Well I should say, depending where you live, finding a woman with no kids is slim. Because when I grew up in Chicago, 72% of senior girls graduating in the chicago public school system had at least one kid.

      And hell by the time girls hit 21 in Chicago anyway, I would say 1 out of 5 chicks had a child by 21.

      Now I doubt his chick actually had full sex with 47.....because I know a lot of women consider oral only as sex too. Because I know when I was in high school, a good number of girls did oral but that was as far as they went and never went all the way.
      Yeah I figured this would be a big "depending on where you grew up" thing and I know maybe you're just throwing out random numbers but man, that is a completely different atmosphere than where I grew up (and where I am now). When I was a sophomore there was a girl two years older than me that was pregnant and eventually had a kid and that was it. No one else at my middle sized school had children.

      I do remember meeting women with kids while I was at college, but it seemed to always be the women who have 18 years olds and were coming back to college to alter their career (or get a career, period).

      Just crazy how things can vary so much from one place to another.

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      • legendkiller5
        The Lord of #Hashtags
        • Jun 2008
        • 7731

        #33
        Re: Something I'm not sure that bothers me...

        Originally posted by deaduck
        I can never get why guys seem all caught up in knowing a girls number.
        47 guys in what, 6,7 years of sex?!

        What?

        No. Hell no. And whoever said it's rare to find a girl in her early 20's with no kids, man, I don't know where you find these women.

        Personally, I wouldn't even get with a girl that's in the double digits. Like someone already said, if you even have to post a thread about this, ehh...yeah.

        But, if you think you can handle it, do what you do. Obviously, she must be bad and/or have a great personality and whatnot if you have strong feelings for her with her baggage.
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        • Gotmadskillzson
          Live your life
          • Apr 2008
          • 23442

          #34
          Re: Something I'm not sure that bothers me...

          Yeah it is kind of like a different world sometimes......Go somewhere like NYC, Chicago, LA, Detroit, Dallas, Houston, Miami.....girls are 100 times more "loose" at a very young age, like 12 and 13 type of age. Compare that to somewhere like Maine, Vermont, Idaho.....where people on average just go with 1 or 2 people throughout high school.

          Hell in high school in chicago I was dating a different chick every month.....sometimes every 2 weeks. Now I am older, living in Vermont now....I see these high school and college girls.....they dress like sluts, show a ton of skin, talk a big game......

          But in reality they not "loose" and pretty much had the same boyfriend throughout high school.

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          • ProjectRipCity
            Banned
            • Aug 2008
            • 2395

            #35
            Re: Something I'm not sure that bothers me...

            For a medical standpoint I'm 99.999% repeating that she does not have an STD. She said 40 something...So I just added the 7 I guess. Either way if it's in the 40's it's not good news. I don't have issues getting women...I could move on. It's like...One of those things though. I don't pity her if that's what you think. When I talk to her she has this weird awareness on what's going around her...She's really smart socially. Most guys run. I've never been in a situation like this...That to me is a turn on. It's like most guys don't accept.

            I don't think I've seen anyone get so upset about their past as much as she does. Something "bad" happened to her when she was 16. It was video taped...The guy ended up going to prison for 7 years. After that she started to get into drugs...Or at least that's what she said. She showed me pictures of him...I looked him up and he is in fact in jail for that "bad" thing. She has been extremely honest even though she's extremely bent out of shape about it...More than I could say than a lot of the people I've dated.

            It takes balls to admit to all her past problems. I'd like to see a typical chick do that...Yes there are exceptions. I have mixed feeling about it...So I guess I have to continue this until I know what the verdict is.

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            • kehlis
              Moderator
              • Jul 2008
              • 27738

              #36
              Re: Something I'm not sure that bothers me...

              Out of curiosity, what is "that bad thing"?

              I know there are differences in the severity of crimes that put people in prison, but based on the context of the conversation, I couldn't figure out what you are referring to.


              If you aren't comfortable posting it, I understand but I am just curious.

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              • ProjectRipCity
                Banned
                • Aug 2008
                • 2395

                #37
                Re: Something I'm not sure that bothers me...

                Originally posted by kehlis
                Out of curiosity, what is "that bad thing"?

                I know there are differences in the severity of crimes that put people in prison, but based on the context of the conversation, I couldn't figure out what you are referring to.


                If you aren't comfortable posting it, I understand but I am just curious.
                I don't wanna get an infraction. Rape

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                • Gotmadskillzson
                  Live your life
                  • Apr 2008
                  • 23442

                  #38
                  Re: Something I'm not sure that bothers me...

                  That is pretty much what I figured it was considering he got 7 years. I must say those type of things can really mess up a girl's head.

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                  • ehh
                    Hall Of Fame
                    • Mar 2003
                    • 28962

                    #39
                    Re: Something I'm not sure that bothers me...

                    Do this many people actually discuss numbers like this in a relationship? I have never had a girl ask me how many chicks I've slept with and I better not - they won't get an answer if they ask.

                    The past is the past, I don't care what girls did in their past as long as they don't have an STD and are loyal. I obviously don't want to date a village bicycle but I will never ask a girl about her numbers. By and large it's pretty easy to tell if she is/was a slut just by spending time with her.

                    The last girl I dated told me she was a virgin until she was 21 and has never had a one-night stand, of course this was basically baiting me revealing the same information (which I didn't). This didn't result in a very positive reaction from my now ex.
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                    • legendkiller5
                      The Lord of #Hashtags
                      • Jun 2008
                      • 7731

                      #40
                      Re: Something I'm not sure that bothers me...

                      Originally posted by Gotmadskillzson
                      Yeah it is kind of like a different world sometimes......Go somewhere like NYC, Chicago, LA, Detroit, Dallas, Houston, Miami.....girls are 100 times more "loose" at a very young age, like 12 and 13 type of age. Compare that to somewhere like Maine, Vermont, Idaho.....where people on average just go with 1 or 2 people throughout high school.

                      Hell in high school in chicago I was dating a different chick every month.....sometimes every 2 weeks. Now I am older, living in Vermont now....I see these high school and college girls.....they dress like sluts, show a ton of skin, talk a big game......

                      But in reality they not "loose" and pretty much had the same boyfriend throughout high school.
                      You're right, man, I've lived in Dallas, KC and I currently live just outside of Houston, and you're on point with all you said. It's sad, because that's what's 'hot'.

                      But still, I don't know too many girls that have kids in their early 20's, even though I've noticed a good deal of my FB friends are preggo....

                      But 47. JMJ, that's too much.
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                      • Hassan Darkside
                        We Here
                        • Sep 2003
                        • 7561

                        #41
                        Re: Something I'm not sure that bothers me...

                        Curious about a few things if you don't mind...

                        How long have you been seeing her? What put you on to her? When did you find out her past, before or after you started dating her?
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                        • Husker_OS
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                          • Jun 2003
                          • 21459

                          #42
                          Re: Something I'm not sure that bothers me...

                          There's nothing wrong with asking/knowing the person you're dating's number.
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                          • Gotmadskillzson
                            Live your life
                            • Apr 2008
                            • 23442

                            #43
                            Re: Something I'm not sure that bothers me...

                            Obviously she must look like Halle Berry..... or Olivia Munn......or some other type of hotness...

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                            • Gotmadskillzson
                              Live your life
                              • Apr 2008
                              • 23442

                              #44
                              Re: Something I'm not sure that bothers me...

                              Originally posted by Husker_OS
                              There's nothing wrong with asking/knowing the person you're dating's number.
                              I guess......but that is grounds for getting slapped and or dumped right then and there.

                              I suppose it is all in how you go about asking it......

                              Excuse me, just wondering.....what number am I ?

                              Wonder if chicks got a sticker on the back car window saying 40 served

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                              • BlueNGold
                                Hall Of Fame
                                • Aug 2009
                                • 21817

                                #45
                                Re: Something I'm not sure that bothers me...

                                Originally posted by ehh
                                Do this many people actually discuss numbers like this in a relationship? I have never had a girl ask me how many chicks I've slept with and I better not - they won't get an answer if they ask.

                                The past is the past, I don't care what girls did in their past as long as they don't have an STD and are loyal. I obviously don't want to date a village bicycle but I will never ask a girl about her numbers. By and large it's pretty easy to tell if she is/was a slut just by spending time with her.

                                The last girl I dated told me she was a virgin until she was 21 and has never had a one-night stand, of course this was basically baiting me revealing the same information (which I didn't). This didn't result in a very positive reaction from my now ex.
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