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  • RJTurneR
    MVP
    • Aug 2010
    • 2183

    #31
    Re: So my dad died today........

    Thoughts & prayers go out to you and your family all the way from here in the United Kingdom my friend. Don't put yourself down for something that isn't yours or anyone's fault. Instead, make him proud and do whatever you do to the best of your ability. You deserve a spot in my signature buddy.

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    • JBH3
      Marvel's Finest
      • Jan 2007
      • 13506

      #32
      Re: So my dad died today........

      Don't beat yourself up man. Keep your head up, and cherish the fondest of memories with your father.
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      • countryboy
        Growing pains
        • Sep 2003
        • 52731

        #33
        Re: So my dad died today........

        Sorry for you loss. Prayers and condolences for you and your family.
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        • DickDalewood
          All Star
          • Aug 2010
          • 6263

          #34
          Re: So my dad died today........

          I'm sorry to hear that GC

          But please don't blame yourself man... there was no way for you to know what was going to happen. Stay strong buddy.

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          • jetercanoturn2
            Banned
            • Apr 2007
            • 2881

            #35
            Re: So my dad died today........

            Man I'm so sorry man, Don't beat yourself up though, I lost my dad to a stroke, it has destroyed my life, I feel like I could have done something too. But in reality I couldn't, it was out of your control, Remember the great times yall had, life isnt fair, and it sucks. Take it easy man, my condolences to you and your family.

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            • HealyMonster
              Titans Era has begun.
              • Aug 2002
              • 5992

              #36
              Re: So my dad died today........

              Sorry about your loss bud. Like others have said, you have nothing to feel sorry about. Im certain that if there was something you could have done, you would have done it. I lost my mother when she was 40 and I was 18, and to say the least, the last time I saw her was as the train was pulling away as I went to my first duty assignment in the army. 2 weeks later I was back in NJ and she was gone. There are a million things I wish I could have said or done but the truth is life isnt like that, this is why we cherish the time we do have with our loved ones. Keep your head up man and once again, im sorry for your loss.

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              • Husker_OS
                Champs
                • Jun 2003
                • 21459

                #37
                Re: So my dad died today........

                Just read this, my thoughts are with you GC. Losing a loved one is tough and there's not really anything you can say to make it better. The OS community has you in their thoughts and prayers though.
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                • Kobalt
                  All Star
                  • May 2010
                  • 9674

                  #38
                  Re: So my dad died today........

                  Sorry to hear that man, just keep your head up. Don't blame yourself.

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                  • Speedy
                    #Ace
                    • Apr 2008
                    • 16143

                    #39
                    Re: So my dad died today........

                    If you don't mind me asking, Game...how old was your dad?

                    Also, just like grace said...you can't blame yourself for what honestly was fate. If it is one's time to pass on it cannot be prolonged or stopped, the appointment time must be met -- I know what I'm talking about. I'll be praying for you; I know it will take time but eventually sorrow will turn to fondness/laughter when you think of your father and the good times you and the family had together.
                    Originally posted by Gibson88
                    Anyone who asked for an ETA is not being Master of their Domain.
                    It's hard though...especially when I got my neighbor playing their franchise across the street...maybe I will occupy myself with Glamore Magazine.

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                    • Nivek
                      H*ll *f F*m*
                      • Jul 2002
                      • 7999

                      #40
                      Re: So my dad died today........

                      RIP and sorry for your loss
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                      • vernond
                        MVP
                        • Feb 2008
                        • 1272

                        #41
                        Re: So my dad died today........

                        I'm sorry to hear about your loss.

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                        • rockchisler
                          All Star
                          • Oct 2002
                          • 8290

                          #42
                          Re: So my dad died today........

                          My condolences...and "dont feel like crap" its not your fault..
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                          • GAMEC0CK2002
                            Stayin Alive
                            • Aug 2002
                            • 10384

                            #43
                            Re: So my dad died today........

                            Originally posted by Speedy
                            If you don't mind me asking, Game...how old was your dad?

                            Also, just like grace said...you can't blame yourself for what honestly was fate. If it is one's time to pass on it cannot be prolonged or stopped, the appointment time must be met -- I know what I'm talking about. I'll be praying for you; I know it will take time but eventually sorrow will turn to fondness/laughter when you think of your father and the good times you and the family had together.
                            Thanks for encouraging words. He was 59... would have been 60 on November 3rd. He was diabetic and had a weakened heart, but was doing much better. Was still a shock and I'm still hurting. It's getting a little better each day though.



                            As to not double post, thanks everybody. I don't do the social networking so this is the only online family I got. Love you guys. This means more to me than you'll ever know.

                            Me, my mom and my brother have a lot to do before the funeral.

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                            • Speedy
                              #Ace
                              • Apr 2008
                              • 16143

                              #44
                              Re: So my dad died today........

                              Originally posted by GAMEC0CK2002
                              Thanks for encouraging words. He was 59... would have been 60 on November 3rd. He was diabetic and had a weakened heart, but was doing much better. Was still a shock and I'm still hurting. It's getting a little better each day though.
                              I wasn't sure how old you were and if there was younger siblings (younger than 18 yrs old). In any event, it's still too young...It's extremely disheartening and painful to think about the times I could've professed my love or wish I had one last chance to give my loved one a simple hug.

                              It's why I always go by the thought that I or my loved one could die in the next second - getting upset/bitter at someone is not worth it. Also, I want to tell my loved ones continually how much I love them because it may be the last time I see them.
                              Originally posted by Gibson88
                              Anyone who asked for an ETA is not being Master of their Domain.
                              It's hard though...especially when I got my neighbor playing their franchise across the street...maybe I will occupy myself with Glamore Magazine.

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                              • GAMEC0CK2002
                                Stayin Alive
                                • Aug 2002
                                • 10384

                                #45
                                Re: So my dad died today........

                                Originally posted by Speedy
                                I wasn't sure how old you were and if there was younger siblings (younger than 18 yrs old). In any event, it's still too young...It's extremely disheartening and painful to think about the times I could've professed my love or wish I had one last chance to give my loved one a simple hug.

                                It's why I always go by the thought that I or my loved one could die in the next second - getting upset/bitter at someone is not worth it. Also, I want to tell my loved ones continually how much I love them because it may be the last time I see them.
                                Yep. You never know. Gotta cherish the times you spend together.

                                I'm the oldest (30) and have one younger brother that is 24. The school admin told me to take as much time as I need. Think I'm going back on Friday.

                                I almost lost it again when she said the kids played for my dad on Friday night. They won homecoming 35-20.

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