How's this for a Holiday? Family in-law strife...

[TarHeelMan]

My brother in law (wife's sister's husband) just admitted he smashed out my sister-in-law (wife's brother's wife).

I've been trying to process it all weekend, and can't come up with anything. It is grimy on so many levels it ain't even funny. I can't front, I was trying not to laugh about it when I first heard about it, cause I'm so used to nonsensical drama from my wife's family, but nothing like this.

There was some drama before when she "accidentally" sent nude pics to his cell, but that was explained away as her trying to send the pics to some other cat. So dude got off free then. She basically took the heat for him. This was almost two years ago. So now it came to light, and the way that it came to light is so convoluted that it adds to the drama. I know my wife's brother's wife from way back, because my man used to deal with her older sister. So now she was speaking on the dirt she was doing down in FL and my man found out and put my brother in law up on game.

Even as I type this I can't help but feel confused. Part of me is like and , but part of me, a small part, is like , like I wasn't even surprised that it went down, considering who we dealing with. <!-- / message --><!-- BEGIN TEMPLATE: ad_showthread_firstpost_sig --><!-- END TEMPLATE: ad_showthread_firstpost_sig -->

[ryan36]

Re: How's this for a Holiday? Family in-law strife...

Jerry! jerry! Jerry! jerry!

[TarHeelMan]

Re: How's this for a Holiday? Family in-law strife...

Jerry! jerry! Jerry! jerry!

LOL, I posted this on another forum that I hang out at, and this was the exact same response. Even as my wife was telling me about all this stuff going on, I was envisioning Jerry Springer, Maury Povich all rolled into one.

[SPTO]

Re: How's this for a Holiday? Family in-law strife...

Your wife's family sounds like the basis for some new cable show.

Pure craziness man.

[snepp]

Re: How's this for a Holiday? Family in-law strife...

I'd just shrug my shoulders and say "whatever."

[sb24]

Re: How's this for a Holiday? Family in-law strife...

There was some drama before when she "accidentally" sent nude pics to his cell, but that was explained away as her trying to send the pics to some other cat. So dude got off free then. She basically took the heat for him. This was almost two years ago.
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Im confused (surprise), when did she get married? Shouldnt the husband have been upset with her sending out nude pics? Crazy stuff.

[DueceDiggla]

Re: How's this for a Holiday? Family in-law strife...

How does she look?


Did you ever get the feeling something was going on between the two of them?

Are the two couples getting divorced now?

How did they get caught?

[GAMEC0CK2002]

Re: How's this for a Holiday? Family in-law strife...

craziness. i wouldn't touch it with a 10 ft. pole and just sit back to watch the upcoming fireworks.

grown people have to deal with the consequences of their actions. that doesn't mean you can't get a few chuckles out of it.

[Flightwhite24]

Re: How's this for a Holiday? Family in-law strife...

WTF?? Now that I have had a second to digest it

[NDAlum]

Re: How's this for a Holiday? Family in-law strife...

And in the case of a divorce she'll get her way...

[ImTellinTim]

Re: How's this for a Holiday? Family in-law strife...

Man, this makes my dad's brother and sister refusing to be in the same room like child's play. Like others have said, just sit back and enjoy the show. Be Switzerland whenever any involved parties try to talk to you about it.

[Gotmadskillzson]

Re: How's this for a Holiday? Family in-law strife...

Sounds like a Tyler Perry movie..........

[ElroyJetson]

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WTF?? Now that I have had a second to digest it

As do I, I was stuck on the wifes brothers wife part for a minute

[Buckeyes_Doc]

Re: How's this for a Holiday? Family in-law strife...

So nude pics eh

[TarHeelMan]

Re: How's this for a Holiday? Family in-law strife...

Im confused (surprise), when did she get married? Shouldnt the husband have been upset with her sending out nude pics? Crazy stuff.

They have been married 15 years. They have a history of problems in the marriage with infidelity. He cheated once, then she cheated two or three times on him. By the time this issue with the nude pic came about, she had already established a history of doing dirt. He had almost become immune to it. His main beef was with the other brother in law; he had just been up to their house to drop off my wife's mother, and was sitting back and drinking Coronas with this dude. All the while this stuff had been going on.

How does she look?

She's a decent looking broad. She's tall, pretty thick. I've known her from the time she was a scrawny 11 year old, so that might color my perception of her.

Did you ever get the feeling something was going on between the two of them?

We live in NC, and the rest of my wife's family is in FL. I prefer it that way. Like I said, they're good for stuff like this, so that's why we came here instead of going down to FL. So I didn't have any idea of what may or may not have been going on between them. I will say, though, that neither my wife or her sister really trusted her that much, given her propensity for getting with other dudes. She even told my wife once that she had a crush on me when she was younger. Why she decided that was something my wife should know is beyond me...

Are the two couples getting divorced now?

My wife's brother is definitely putting things in motion for a divorce. He took her off his insurance, and told her to get the place that she currently works part time to hire her on full time, so she can get her money up and get herself her own place. Not sure what's gonna happen with the two kids they have, custody-wise. As far as my wife's sister, my wife is of the opinion that she's gonna stick it out with her husband. She waffles on this by the hour. They also have a little daughter involved. The kids being in the middle of this is what really makes it screwed up.

How did they get caught?

OK, how can I explain this without it getting confusing. My wife's brother, his wife is the sister of my homeboy's wife... She had called their crib in NY and was talking about the dirt she had been doing, and my homeboy overheard it when he went to make a phone call. He knew about the situation in the past with the nude photo, and that it had been explained away as her trying to send it to some other dude. But now he had confirmation with the details. So he got on the horn to my wife's brother and told him what was really good. After that, my brother in law called up my other brother in law and from there everything popped off...