How's this for a Holiday? Family in-law strife...

[TarHeelMan]

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So nude pics eh

I saw the pic on the low. My sister in law had sent it to my wife when it went down. I still think to this day that my wife was trying to trap a brotha. She was like, "yeah, Becky sent me the picture", and I was like "oh word? " Then I waited till she was asleep and I took her phone and texted it to my phone. Then I erased it.

[Koolie G]

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I saw the pic on the low. My sister in law had sent it to my wife when it went down. I still think to this day that my wife was trying to trap a brotha. She was like, "yeah, Becky sent me the picture", and I was like "oh word? " Then I waited till she was asleep and I took her phone and texted it to my phone. Then I erased it.

I don't know TarHeel, but I love TarHeel.

"Oh word?" I about fell over after reading that. Hilarious.

[TarHeelMan]

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I don't know TarHeel, but I love TarHeel.

"Oh word?" I about fell over after reading that. Hilarious.

Back atcha, bro.

Now my wife "has" to go to FL to help her sister deal with this nonsense. She doesn't really wanna go, but hearing her sister bawling uncontrollably on the phone all day is about wearing her thin. She keeps asking her to come, and has even paid for her flight. I halfway wanna go just to watch on the sidelines like my man Situation

[Hova57]

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So Tar after you peeped the pic of her did you look at her differently.

Man you don't need to be down there you would get into trouble, cause the whole scenario is funny and you would be crackin up and your wife would be givin you the look the whole time.

[TarHeelMan]

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So Tar after you peeped the pic of her did you look at her differently.

Man you don't need to be down there you would get into trouble, cause the whole scenario is funny and you would be crackin up and your wife would be givin you the look the whole time.

Well, at that point she had already been doing some scandalous stuff, so the pic didn't do anything but confirm that she was capable of some really grimy stuff. Smashing her own in-law was not something I thought her to be capable of, though. That's some next-level grimy stuff.

When my wife told me the news I had to fight the urge to laugh with every fiber of strength I had. The inside of my lip still has marks where I was biting down on it trying to keep from laughing.

[ProfessaPackMan]

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My ***** TarHeel is a fool

@ "Oh Word?"

[ImTellinTim]

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I love this thread. Please keep going! Whenever you see the Hamburger Pimp, you know it's about to be good.

[legendkiller5]

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I saw the pic on the low. My sister in law had sent it to my wife when it went down. I still think to this day that my wife was trying to trap a brotha. She was like, "yeah, Becky sent me the picture", and I was like "oh word? " Then I waited till she was asleep and I took her phone and texted it to my phone. Then I erased it.

[TarHeelMan]

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All I can say is that all this drama has made me very, very, VERY happy that we live away from them. At first my wife wasn't too happy about not being near them like it was when we were in NY, but after awhile she came to understand that distance is not a bad thing, especially with this bunch.

We even started out with some problems when we first got married because of the fact that her family was always around. If we decided we wanted to go out to eat or just hit the mall or something, and somebody found out, we'd have three or four people just wanting to tag along. It got to the point where I'd have to surprise her with a dinner date or something, just to eliminate the possibility that someone would find out and want to come. And once I started showing my screwface when the doorbell would ring, it was a wrap.

Even as we speak, my wife's aunt is on the phone with her trying to figure out what's going on because nobody will return her phone calls. My wife is telling her that she's in no position to speak on anything, and that her sister or her mother will get up with her. This is what happens when you get a bunch of people who can't live without being near each other. SMH

[BlueNGold]

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Yeah.....so I''m not even gonna lie. I'm just posting in here so that I'm subscribed to this thread of hilarious-ness.

This is awesome.

"Oh word?"

[GAMEC0CK2002]

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Life long lesson. You don't just marry the person, you also get the craziness and drama from the family.

[OSUFan_88]

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I feel that this site has been missing on TarHeel's women talk for quite some time.

Anyway, to the point of this thread...well...

[NDAlum]

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Life long lesson. You don't just marry the person, you also get the craziness and drama from the family.

I am finding that out...

feelsbadman

[TarHeelMan]

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There has been so much dumb stuff that I've peeped from the sidelines with my wife's family that I'm almost immune to it. I've had to remove myself from it because, usually, when my wife tells me, my reaction is as follows:



And of course, that leads to problems. So we've come to an understanding. She knows that most of the time I find her family issues to be nonsensical and inconsequential. I will pay the appropriate concern and regard when the situation merits it. Otherwise, unless you want to be upset by my reaction, don't tell me about the latest gossip or beef someone has.

There was this one time that her sister had beef with her boyfriend. They broke up, and she went to pieces cause it seemed like dude really didn't want her back. Everyone thought it was some minor disagreement that they had that he was blowing out of proportion. But he worked not far from me, and he wanted to vent one day about their situation. So we meet up at a bar and he tells me how old girl was upset about him wanting to go hang out with his cousin one night, and flipped out on him in the street, cursing him out and calling him an unkind word for "Dominican". So all this time, she's in my house with my wife, her mother, her aunt, her cousins, bawling her eyes out over this situation when the whole time, IT WAS HER FAULT. So I get back to the crib, and she knows that I've been hanging out with dude. And she's weeping, saying "What can I do?" So I look at her with the ice grill and go, "Simple. Keep ya mouth shut..."

The problem, as I see it, and I've often told her, is the lack of a strong male presence. Her mother is divorced, her aunt is divorced, her mother's cousins are divorced. So it's just a bunch of women around gossiping and talking slick about each other. At least with a male presence, there would be someone to shut that down. And since they're bitter over their relationships, they carry that "men ain't spit" mentality. In that situation with my wife's sister in the previous paragraph, all they were doing was telling her "it's OK", "you'll find someone new" without addressing the real cause of the issue. It wasn't until I spoke on it that the issue really got addressed.

[Hova57]

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Once a woman is pissed at a man it trickles through the family and every man is wrong and since it sounds like your wife is the only one able to hold a man. I'm sure you are being watched like a hawk. I can only imagine what they tell your wife. I've been around that grouping of women before its not a good situation. Its never there fault, its the man and all men are up to no good and dogs.

Yea i have to agree about family drama ,my wifes family has issues too, its amazing how before your married the family looks like a good place. Then you get married then you realize how trife it really is.