its ok when a woman does it (rant)

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There are so many double standards in society that it makes me sick..

If a woman cheats, its because her man didn't treat her right and he is totally to blame for her cheating. However, when a man cheats, its because he is a dog, a player, a jerk, etc..

It's ok for women to be insecure, unhappy with the way they look, and complain about their weight and men are expected to deal with their woman being this way, but if a man is insecure then he is considered to be a loser that no woman should want.

If a woman is rude to her man , its ok because she is just naturally "moody" or she is PMS'ing..if a guy is rude to his woman, then he is considered to be a jerk.

If a woman plays games in a relationship, then its because its supposedly "how women are" or they are just testing a guy to see if he is a real man (or some other bs excuse), but then they complain that all men are immature

With women, it's like nothing they ever do is wrong. On another note, I am so sick of dating women that all they do is complain about their weight and when you try to complement them to make them feel attractive, they laugh at you and tell you are crazy or blind. haha I am attracted to big women so i guess this is what i get...

Alot of women complain they can't find a nice guy, but when they do, they dump him because he is "too" nice , then they wonder why they end up with some a'hole that beats them and treats them like crap. Then they are so quick to say there are no good men out there...

there's more double standards in relationships, that i could probably come up with but these are all i can think of right now...Life is so fair and since women have no issues that makes relationships terribly easy....i guess thats why men seem so thrilled when they get married and divorce never happens. *rolls eyes*

whatever.....you can't make women happy.

Haha... How old are you? I don't ask to be rude, but your views are pretty off.

In every situation I've seen, the woman who cheated was instantly written off as two words. One begins with "W" and the other begins with "S." When a guy has cheated, especially in my circle of friends, he was just "doing his thing." So yeah, in my experience, your comments on your first point are WAY off. I'd say I've seen the exact opposite as far as that goes. If a woman gets around, she gets called names. If a guy does, he is just another dude that pulls a lot of ***. There's not a whole lot of negative said about him.

Point two... Not my experience. Men can be insecure too, and if they have a woman and she's worth anything, she won't make him feel like a "loser" because of it. Confidence does go a long way with guys, but let's not get too exaggerated here.

I was going to go through every point but I won't. It happens on both sides. With women, sometimes it happens more, sure. But there are double standards everywhere you look. Women are not the only culprits in it.

No offense, but I think you need some more years and wisdom under your belt.

[pw_1016]

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Haha... How old are you? I don't ask to be rude, but your views are pretty off.

In every situation I've seen, the woman who cheated was instantly written off as two words. One begins with "W" and the other begins with "S." When a guy has cheated, especially in my circle of friends, he was just "doing his thing." So yeah, in my experience, your comments on your first point are WAY off. I'd say I've seen the exact opposite as far as that goes. If a woman gets around, she gets called names. If a guy does, he is just another dude that pulls a lot of ***. There's not a whole lot of negative said about him.

Point two... Not my experience. Men can be insecure too, and if they have a woman and she's worth anything, she won't make him feel like a "loser" because of it. Confidence does go a long way with guys, but let's not get too exaggerated here.

I was going to go through every point but I won't. It happens on both sides. With women, sometimes it happens more, sure. But there are double standards everywhere you look. Women are not the only culprits in it.

No offense, but I think you need some more years and wisdom under your belt.

I am 28...i have only been with a handful (probably not even that many) of women my whole life but this has been my experience. Yes, I understand there are double standards everywhere you go but I have even heard alot of men older than myself say that women never really own up to things they do.

[Trevytrev11]

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I can't tell you how many times I've been told that "too nice" crap. What am I supposed to do, it's who I am. It's like, am I supposed to not be myself? What is "too nice" anyway?

I think there is a fine line of being nice and being clingy or smothering and I think girls often use "too nice" as an excuse for the latter.

It's one thing to be a gentleman and another too be so concered about the other person that you just completely smother them and annoy them. In these cases, I think guys think they are doing the right thing, but in reality, the girls don't like it...it's just too much.

If you are asking a girl 10 times if she is OK with the restaurant you picked or the movie you are going to see or if she is too cold or if she is having a good time...I think being too concerned to the point you are not enjoying yourself or being yourself is where the problems start.

Not saying this about anyone specific, but I have family and friends that have been given this line and when I see them interact, it's easy to see why.

[Gotmadskillzson]

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I dont know if this video has been posted...
But this is a great example of double standards in society.
This makes me sick.

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If that was 8th grade boys and a 5th grade girl, oh how different this story would be. It would have been all over Foxnews, CNN, MSNBC, Nancy Grace, etc.

[mKoz26]

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If that was 8th grade boys and a 5th grade girl, oh how different this story would be. It would have been all over Foxnews, CNN, MSNBC, Nancy Grace, etc.

Yep, and you can bet those kids would be registered sex-offenders for the rest of their lives if male.

They'd probably pull for rape charges.

[CWSapp757]

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Wow @ that video. Totally not cool. Those girls seriously need to be punished. At least a couple weeks in Juvie or something. Unfortunately, you know this kid is going to be ridiculed and made fun of by so many other kids.

[Beantown]

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Yup, if those genders were reversed those three males would've been charged with something, but this mother doesn't even want to press charges and she expects the girls' parents to do something?

****ing ridiculous.

[Husker_OS]

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I will say this, while men get the better end of the stick in double standards..


1. The nice guy thing is pretty dead on. My g/f seems to like a balance of me being an ***hole and me being the nice guy. Being one or the other simply doesn't work. Gotta be an ***hole too.

[ryan36]

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Damn ToS.

sent from cooltown

When the **** did you pick up the Phillies and Ravens?

[Dog]

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[Brandwin]

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Let me open a can of worms here...

Another double standard I hate is the fact woman can get away with hitting men, but if a man hits a woman, he is scum. Now, while I agree that a man should never hit a woman, I also think a woman should never hit a man. I don't think people should hit each other out of anger period.

I hate the fact that women get a pass on hitting men because they are mad, but let a man react and swing back and he is a POS. I don't agree with it at all.

Women that hit men are cowards. They know in socicty a man is not supposed to hit a woman, so they use that and will hit a man, but when he turns around and pops them back, they want to play the victim.

[Brandwin]

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Yup, if those genders were reversed those three males would've been charged with something, but this mother doesn't even want to press charges and she expects the girls' parents to do something?

****ing ridiculous.

Wow, that video is horrible. I agree, if the roles were reversed and these were 8th grade boys on 5th grade girls, he would be registered as a sex offender and would be branded the rest of his life.


Just look at the female teachers would sleep with students compared to male teachers who sleep with female students. The male teacher always seems get it worse.

EDIT:
LOL@ at the boys mom not pressing charges and wanting the girls parents to hand out a punishment. WTF?

[Graphik]

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I will say this, while men get the better end of the stick in double standards..


1. The nice guy thing is pretty dead on. My g/f seems to like a balance of me being an ***hole and me being the nice guy. Being one or the other simply doesn't work. Gotta be an ***hole too.

Exactly. You have to be a mix of both in order to keep a woman interested nowadays. Spend to much time being nice and kissing ***, then she will walk all over you. Become a raging a-hole at all times, then your girl will yearn for somebody who is nice.

Its crazy but us men want the same in a sense. We want a woman to be nice, have her bossy-bitch moments, be a freak at the right times, be a lady at the right times and do it all while looking good for us or our minds may start to wander.

I think both parties have it rough, its just that men are expected more in a relationship.

[Graphik]

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Let me open a can of worms here...

Another double standard I hate is the fact woman can get away with hitting men, but if a man hits a woman, he is scum. Now, while I agree that a man should never hit a woman, I also think a woman should never hit a man. I don't think people should hit each other out of anger period.

I hate the fact that women get a pass on hitting men because they are mad, but let a man react and swing back and he is a POS. I don't agree with it at all.

Women that hit men are cowards. They know in socicty a man is not supposed to hit a woman, so they use that and will hit a man, but when he turns around and pops them back, they want to play the victim.

I dont like it etheir but the fact of the matter is men have the advantage when it comes to a fight with a woman. I dont care if the girl is much bigger, a mans tolerence to pain and our power are much higher than your average females.

I know women like to jaw off at the mouth and act tough but I dont let that talk get to me no matter how many times I've been called out my name. Never let a woman get you so angry where you wanna hit her. Now choking is different.....

[Brandwin]

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I. Never let a woman get you so angry where you wanna hit her. Now choking is different.....

Choking out of anger or choking for fun?