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One thing that has helped me a lot with this area of my life is to give up the idea of trying to controlling the outcome. Stop thinking about getting a number or how she is the hottest girl in the club, class, etc. All you need to focus on is the idea that you want to get to know HER more.
I've been there where all I focused on was getting a number or being like my buddy that's pulling girls left and right. That just puts you in a mindset where your not being yourself, she wants to get to know you not some character.
Try this out when you see a chick you want to talk to think about what you would want to know about her and start a convo about that. Could be as simple as her hair (don't keep it their the whole time of course). But really focus on getting to know her, honestly the more info you can pick up about her in the conversation the better.Comment
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Confidence is paramount. It's sorta a fake-it-til-ya-make-it situation. Girls respond overwhelmingly to confidence. Even if you're not naturally confident, if you act like you are, eventually you'll start to believe it yourself.
You could be a 5/10, but if you believe in yourself, and you put that energy outward, women will respond. Make eye contact, smile, and just roll with it. It's much easier said than done, I know.
Again, just try and work on yourself. Work on your confidence, believe in yourself, and you will definitely see a difference.Comment
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Fast Times at Ridgemont HighMike Damone: I mean don't just walk in. You move across the room. And you don't talk to her. You use your face. You use your body. You use everything. That's what I do. I mean I just send out this vibe and I have personally found that women do respond. I mean, something happens.
Mark Ratner: Well, naturally something happens. I mean, you put the vibe out to 30 million chicks, something is gonna happen.
Mike Damone: That's the idea, Rat. That's the attitude.
Mark Ratner: The attitude?
Mike Damone: Yeah! The attitude dictates that you don't care whether she comes, stays, lays, or prays. I mean whatever happens, your toes are still tappin'. Now when you got that, then you have the attitude.Comment
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Also if doesn't work out, you could always "Go Rainbow".GT: Event Horizon 0Comment
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Just go up and talk to them. I promise they won't bite your head off or get pissed you approached them. They may be disinterested, but who gives a damn? Move on to the next one.
Get a friend you can go to the bars with. Use the "Have you met Ted?" line. I tell everyone who asks me for advice on this topic about this particular line. It NEVER fails.
All you do is find 2 girls that you and your friend want to talk to. Whichever one your friend wants to talk to, you go up to her and say, "hey, have you met {insert friends name}?". 99% of the time, she'll say no and introduce herself to your friend. Then you introduce yourself to her friend.
Meeting girls is simple. Finding one who isn't crazy is the hard part.Twitter
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Just go up and talk to them. I promise they won't bite your head off or get pissed you approached them. They may be disinterested, but who gives a damn? Move on to the next one.
Get a friend you can go to the bars with. Use the "Have you met Ted?" line. I tell everyone who asks me for advice on this topic about this particular line. It NEVER fails.
All you do is find 2 girls that you and your friend want to talk to. Whichever one your friend wants to talk to, you go up to her and say, "hey, have you met {insert friends name}?". 99% of the time, she'll say no and introduce herself to your friend. Then you introduce yourself to her friend.
Meeting girls is simple. Finding one who isn't crazy is the hard part.
Very true. I ended up marrying the one who wasn't crazy. I did have to weed out and go through a bunch of crazies in order to find the right one.
There's some great advice in here. Rejection is tough but once you get confident enough in yourself you'll be much better off. Good luck."You got it man. I don't watch hockey." SidVish"I thought LeBron James was just going to be another addition to help me score."
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