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  • TripleCrown9
    Keep the Faith
    • May 2010
    • 23721

    #16
    Re: Help me help myself

    Originally posted by areobee401
    What everyone else has already said.

    Haha I like that. And I like that you went into the Rage thread thinking they were stupid, and now you use them for advice.

    All this advice is great fellas. I've heard about repeating your strong points to yourself. I'll try that.
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    • Jano
      You Dead Wrong
      • May 2004
      • 3161

      #17
      Re: Help me help myself

      One thing that has helped me a lot with this area of my life is to give up the idea of trying to controlling the outcome. Stop thinking about getting a number or how she is the hottest girl in the club, class, etc. All you need to focus on is the idea that you want to get to know HER more.

      I've been there where all I focused on was getting a number or being like my buddy that's pulling girls left and right. That just puts you in a mindset where your not being yourself, she wants to get to know you not some character.

      Try this out when you see a chick you want to talk to think about what you would want to know about her and start a convo about that. Could be as simple as her hair (don't keep it their the whole time of course). But really focus on getting to know her, honestly the more info you can pick up about her in the conversation the better.

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      • TheMatrix31
        RF
        • Jul 2002
        • 52930

        #18
        Re: Help me help myself

        "I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and gosh darn it...people like me!"

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        • NYG_Meth
          The OS Artist Guy
          • May 2003
          • 3920

          #19
          Re: Help me help myself

          Confidence is paramount. It's sorta a fake-it-til-ya-make-it situation. Girls respond overwhelmingly to confidence. Even if you're not naturally confident, if you act like you are, eventually you'll start to believe it yourself.

          You could be a 5/10, but if you believe in yourself, and you put that energy outward, women will respond. Make eye contact, smile, and just roll with it. It's much easier said than done, I know.

          Again, just try and work on yourself. Work on your confidence, believe in yourself, and you will definitely see a difference.
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          • Section_25
            Pro
            • Sep 2009
            • 717

            #20
            Re: Help me help myself

            Mike Damone: I mean don't just walk in. You move across the room. And you don't talk to her. You use your face. You use your body. You use everything. That's what I do. I mean I just send out this vibe and I have personally found that women do respond. I mean, something happens.
            Mark Ratner: Well, naturally something happens. I mean, you put the vibe out to 30 million chicks, something is gonna happen.
            Mike Damone: That's the idea, Rat. That's the attitude.
            Mark Ratner: The attitude?
            Mike Damone: Yeah! The attitude dictates that you don't care whether she comes, stays, lays, or prays. I mean whatever happens, your toes are still tappin'. Now when you got that, then you have the attitude.
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            • DocHolliday
              Farewell and 'ado
              • Oct 2002
              • 4698

              #21
              Re: Help me help myself

              Also if doesn't work out, you could always "Go Rainbow".
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              • TripleCrown9
                Keep the Faith
                • May 2010
                • 23721

                #22
                Re: Help me help myself

                Originally posted by DocHolliday
                Also if doesn't work out, you could always "Go Rainbow".
                I'm glad you're so helpful. Why are you even posting in here?
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                • Husker_OS
                  Champs
                  • Jun 2003
                  • 21459

                  #23
                  Re: Help me help myself

                  Just go up and talk to them. I promise they won't bite your head off or get pissed you approached them. They may be disinterested, but who gives a damn? Move on to the next one.


                  Get a friend you can go to the bars with. Use the "Have you met Ted?" line. I tell everyone who asks me for advice on this topic about this particular line. It NEVER fails.

                  All you do is find 2 girls that you and your friend want to talk to. Whichever one your friend wants to talk to, you go up to her and say, "hey, have you met {insert friends name}?". 99% of the time, she'll say no and introduce herself to your friend. Then you introduce yourself to her friend.


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                  • cubsfan203
                    All Star
                    • Jun 2004
                    • 6689

                    #24
                    Re: Help me help myself

                    Originally posted by DocHolliday
                    Sounds like you might be SOL.
                    Originally posted by DocHolliday
                    Also if doesn't work out, you could always "Go Rainbow".
                    Where the hell is the dislike button?
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                    • TheMatrix31
                      RF
                      • Jul 2002
                      • 52930

                      #25
                      Re: Help me help myself

                      Leave it alone, people.

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                      • Equinox831
                        We're Going Farming
                        • Sep 2009
                        • 2489

                        #26
                        Re: Help me help myself

                        Originally posted by TheMatrix31
                        Leave it alone, people.
                        I was about to tear that guy to shreds, but I digress...
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                        • SidVish
                          2010,13,15,16 CHAMPS!
                          • Apr 2003
                          • 11743

                          #27
                          Re: Help me help myself

                          Originally posted by Husker_OS
                          Just go up and talk to them. I promise they won't bite your head off or get pissed you approached them. They may be disinterested, but who gives a damn? Move on to the next one.


                          Get a friend you can go to the bars with. Use the "Have you met Ted?" line. I tell everyone who asks me for advice on this topic about this particular line. It NEVER fails.

                          All you do is find 2 girls that you and your friend want to talk to. Whichever one your friend wants to talk to, you go up to her and say, "hey, have you met {insert friends name}?". 99% of the time, she'll say no and introduce herself to your friend. Then you introduce yourself to her friend.


                          Meeting girls is simple. Finding one who isn't crazy is the hard part.


                          Very true. I ended up marrying the one who wasn't crazy. I did have to weed out and go through a bunch of crazies in order to find the right one.

                          There's some great advice in here. Rejection is tough but once you get confident enough in yourself you'll be much better off. Good luck.
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                          • Watson
                            Burrow Club
                            • Jul 2008
                            • 27013

                            #28
                            Re: Help me help myself

                            Smile. Seriously. I wish I knew why, but girls are far more likely to talk, and be interested in a guy who smiles when he talks
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                            • NYG_Meth
                              The OS Artist Guy
                              • May 2003
                              • 3920

                              #29
                              Re: Help me help myself

                              Originally posted by WatsonTiger
                              Smile. Seriously. I wish I knew why, but girls are far more likely to talk, and be interested in a guy who smiles when he talks
                              Truth right here
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                              • Jr.
                                Playgirl Coverboy
                                • Feb 2003
                                • 19171

                                #30
                                Re: Help me help myself

                                Originally posted by NYG_Meth
                                Truth right here
                                For real, it's basic social psychology. If you're smiling around a group of others that are similing, the odds are, the girl will smile too. It's amazing how simple psychology can be once you understand it
                                Last edited by Jr.; 07-30-2011, 09:00 PM.
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