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  • Holt81
    Rookie
    • May 2009
    • 105

    #1

    Met this girl at the mall, got a question

    I was with a friend at the mall and we had stopped into the Adidas store to look at shoes as I was going to get something if I saw anything I liked. Looked around, didn't see much, and as we were headed towards the front of the door, I saw the champions league ball on a stand and picked it up and started telling my friend about it, as I was doing this, the girl working there behind the counter started talking to me about it.

    She told me she played with the ball before with a friend, so I walked over and asked some more soccer related stuff, how long she played, positions, etc. I joked around with her a bit as well. Told her I coach 8 and 9 year olds in soccer.

    I spent probably about 10 mins talking to her in there. I asked how old she was, she's 22, I'm 25. When I looked at the front entrance my friend was gone so I told her I had to leave and I shook her hand, and she said, "I'm in here all the time, so stop in and chat with me."

    What exactly is that implying? Typically, store employees will talk with you and just say, "Have a nice day/night". Not to come back and chat with them. And there's plenty of other people she can chat with in the mall, why me?

    I'm just the average schmoe in terms of looks. I can hold a conversation very well and I know how to speak with people. She is above way average in terms of looks, a girl who I would never think of approaching.

    I had asked a friend of mine and she said, "She implies that she likes you and wants you to come back and ask her out."

    My own personal feeling about it is, she said that to see if I am interested by coming back.

    Whats everyone else's take on it?
  • GAMEC0CK2002
    Stayin Alive
    • Aug 2002
    • 10384

    #2
    Re: Met this girl at the mall, got a question

    IMO, take it for what it is and go back and talk to her again. She may be interested but no way to know until you go back.


    Some girls are overly nice and just like having male friends.

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    • Nathan_OS
      MVP
      • Jun 2011
      • 4463

      #3
      Are you interested in her? Is she attractive?
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      • Tash1388
        Rookie
        • May 2011
        • 43

        #4
        Go back she is on it


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        • Gotmadskillzson
          Live your life
          • Apr 2008
          • 23432

          #5
          Re: Met this girl at the mall, got a question

          she said, "I'm in here all the time, so stop in and chat with me."

          Honestly I think you might be reading too much into it. She works at a store, in a mall. That sounds like nothing but the typical standard retail talk.

          But if you like her, go for it.

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          • BestServedCold
            Banned
            • Jul 2010
            • 673

            #6
            Re: Met this girl at the mall, got a question

            I'm going to hurl some cliques at you

            You miss every shot you don't take

            and

            when it's all said and done you regret the things that you didn't do as opposed to the ones that you did.


            So go back to the mall and ask her out. Even if she says no, does it really matter? And if she says yes...

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            • Holt81
              Rookie
              • May 2009
              • 105

              #7
              Re: Met this girl at the mall, got a question

              Yes, she is highly attractive. We were talking about sports at first, then she went on how she just moved back here, what she was doing, told her I was going out to get some dinner with a friend, she gave me some places to go try.

              I'm def going to go back. Obviously I'm giving it till Saturday as I'm not gonna run back there and look desperate.

              I don't know about retail talk, people were coming in the store and she wasn't even focusing on them, as she kept talking to me.

              When I do go back, I'm not gonna stand in the mall outside the store looking in like a weirdo to see if she's there, I'm gonna go in and look at stuff, not go looking for her in there.

              Either she or me will strike up a conversation and further into it, I'm gonna ask her what she's doing next week, if she'd like to have a bite out with me. It doesn't hurt to ask.

              Overall, the vast majority of people I've asked about this, have said she may be interested in me by telling me to come back in.

              I'll find out when I go back if she's working the day I go there, then I'd give an update on how it went.

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              • Whitesox
                Closet pyromaniac
                • Mar 2009
                • 5287

                #8
                Re: Met this girl at the mall, got a question

                Originally posted by BestServedCold
                I'm going to hurl some cliques at you
                Don't throw the jocks at me!

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                • Nathan_OS
                  MVP
                  • Jun 2011
                  • 4463

                  #9
                  Originally posted by Holt81
                  Yes, she is highly attractive. We were talking about sports at first, then she went on how she just moved back here, what she was doing, told her I was going out to get some dinner with a friend, she gave me some places to go try.

                  I'm def going to go back. Obviously I'm giving it till Saturday as I'm not gonna run back there and look desperate.

                  I don't know about retail talk, people were coming in the store and she wasn't even focusing on them, as she kept talking to me.

                  When I do go back, I'm not gonna stand in the mall outside the store looking in like a weirdo to see if she's there, I'm gonna go in and look at stuff, not go looking for her in there.

                  Either she or me will strike up a conversation and further into it, I'm gonna ask her what she's doing next week, if she'd like to have a bite out with me. It doesn't hurt to ask.

                  Overall, the vast majority of people I've asked about this, have said she may be interested in me by telling me to come back in.

                  I'll find out when I go back if she's working the day I go there, then I'd give an update on how it went.
                  Lol when you go back, don't act like you don't care. Lol be normal
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                  • areobee401
                    Hall Of Fame
                    • Apr 2006
                    • 16771

                    #10
                    Re: Met this girl at the mall, got a question

                    Go back and ask her out. Worst thing that can happen is she says no. Even if she says yes and things don't work out. At least least get a chance to use her employee discount.
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                    • Gotmadskillzson
                      Live your life
                      • Apr 2008
                      • 23432

                      #11
                      Re: Met this girl at the mall, got a question

                      Yeah when you do go back in there, act exactly the same way you were the last time. A lot of men mess up by changing the way they were the 1st time they met a chick.

                      Don't try to be sly, don't try to be cool, don't to try run game and don't try to play hard to get either.

                      Be the same way you were the 1st time, because it was the way you were when she 1st met you is what she liked about you.

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                      • Nathan_OS
                        MVP
                        • Jun 2011
                        • 4463

                        #12
                        Lol.. ^^Jerk
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                        • slickdtc
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                          • Aug 2004
                          • 17125

                          #13
                          Re: Met this girl at the mall, got a question

                          Sounds like interest, at least. Gotmadskillzson seems to have it right. Next time you're in the mall, even if you really did go just for this moment, stop in and say hi and go from there. Who knows what could happen?
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                          • SuperBowlNachos
                            All Star
                            • Jul 2004
                            • 10218

                            #14
                            Re: Met this girl at the mall, got a question

                            When I worked in a store like that we got $2 commission on shirts and $1 on cleaner. So if you buy something, buy a shirt and some shoe cleaner.

                            and it never hurts to try. The worst thing that can happen is it was so awkward you can't go shop at the store anymore

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                            • Bellsprout
                              Hard Times.
                              • Oct 2009
                              • 25652

                              #15
                              Re: Met this girl at the mall, got a question

                              Met you at the mall
                              Didn’t know how far I would fall
                              My friends said I was a fool (You’re a fool) (Shut up)
                              Cause you were older and got kicked out of school (You’re so rad)
                              Together we were gonna travel the globe
                              From Alberta to Ontario


                              But now I’m building
                              Sandcastles in the sand (sandcastles in the sand)
                              Thought I could fly when you held my hand (thought I could fly)
                              (Now) Eternity turns to black and white
                              It was the greatest week and a half
                              Of my life
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