Yeah just go back there be yourself and ask her out. The worst that could happen is she turns you down.
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Re: Met this girl at the mall, got a question
Yeah just go back there be yourself and ask her out. The worst that could happen is she turns you down.Member of the Official OS Bills Backers Club
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Things that would be worse:
-Her abusive husband that he doesn't know about overhears and subsequently bludgeons him to death with the aforementioned soccer ball.
-She's a member of a Mexican drug cartel that's recruiting new members, and by engaging her in conversation again you unwittingly join them with no way out of your new unintentional obligation. First Assignment: Throw these heads off an overpass.
-Herpes. Eww.
-Her abusive wife that he doesn't know about overhears and subsequently bludgeons him to death with the aforementioned soccer ball.
-Turns out she's actually a dude.
All of those, unequivocally worse.Member: OS Uni Snob Association | Twitter: @MyNameIsJesseG | #WT4M | #WatchTheWorldBurn
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Mike Damone: I can see it all now, this is gonna be just like last summer. You fell in love with that girl at the Fotomat, you bought forty dollars worth of f#$%in' film, and you never even talked to her. You don't even own a camera.Chalepa Ta Kala.....Comment
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Re: Met this girl at the mall, got a question
Yes, she is highly attractive. We were talking about sports at first, then she went on how she just moved back here, what she was doing, told her I was going out to get some dinner with a friend, she gave me some places to go try.
I'm def going to go back. Obviously I'm giving it till Saturday as I'm not gonna run back there and look desperate.
I don't know about retail talk, people were coming in the store and she wasn't even focusing on them, as she kept talking to me.
When I do go back, I'm not gonna stand in the mall outside the store looking in like a weirdo to see if she's there, I'm gonna go in and look at stuff, not go looking for her in there.
Either she or me will strike up a conversation and further into it, I'm gonna ask her what she's doing next week, if she'd like to have a bite out with me. It doesn't hurt to ask.
Overall, the vast majority of people I've asked about this, have said she may be interested in me by telling me to come back in.
I'll find out when I go back if she's working the day I go there, then I'd give an update on how it went.Comment
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Thanks for all the feedback fellas, I really appreciate it. I'm really wondering if she was surprised by how I acted. What I mean is that, there are many guys in their 20's that don't know how to act like gentleman. And I think the handshake also played a part, showing you are being a gentleman.
There's absolutely no way I'm blowing this chance. If this were years ago, I would have been too shy to follow up. Now that I'm 25, I don't clam up as to what to say.
And you people are right, if I didn't take the chance, it would bother me for quite a bit, the question of...what if?
Some funny replies in here as well lol. Speaking of hit and run, when my friend and me were driving out from the mall he told I shouldn't wait at all and just go back in and ask for her number to tap it. Absolutely not lol. I do not want to make her feel uncomfortable of meeting me the first time and only talking to her for 10 mins and asking for her number.
Shall see how it goes.Comment
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Lol not to sound like a jerk, but I don't think she will even remember you the next time she saw you.
Shoulda kinda got the digits then and there my man.Comment
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Kingkilla brings up an excellent point. I'm sure she will remember you but you should've gotten the digits then and there.
Trust me, I know from experience how not acting out quickly can hurt you. Hopefully, it won't matter in this situation. If it does, don't fold. Always learn from it and notice the signs sooner.
Ask for the number on first meeting.
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When you take her back to the crib, make sure you have this playing when you make the entrance through the door.
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