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 Re: Need help on not being offensive to someone who has the hots for you...
 
 Ok, this is your WARNING... I am about to quote a bunch of this... it may be a long, hard read- but with a few strokes (of the keyboard) we'll get to a happy ending. 
 
 First off, Enigma , I had no idea you were hot. PM your number at once, or your banned.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 NO. When dealing with those whom can be described as "flamboyant" we do not use sports metaphors. Even if you said "switch-hitter", they don't know it originates from a game where a guy toes a rubber from the top of the mound and then pushes with his legs to throw a screwball at a guy who might be a spray hitter who will then swing his wood bat at the ball from in front of a guy wearing major protection who is crouching.
 
 Yeah, it's easy to come across as a douche if you're not careful how use what he's pulling.
 
 As Latin to Catholics, Gaga to Gays.You have to put it in words that he will understand. I'll help, just invite him over to your place for a little Glee with some lemontini's. Then, once he's comfortable sing this to him:
 
 Rah-rah-ah-ah-ah-ah!
 Roma-roma-mamaa!
 Ga-ga-ooh-la-la!
 I don't want your bad romance
 
 /gaga
 
 He'll understand
 
 No, not yet. He hasn't added me. I don't even know his name.
 
 Yes, Nem... do not let him change your rubber tires, or do anything that might involve a jack , crowbar, or tapping a hole.I almost got 10 people banned in the off-topic for a similar situation!!!!
 
 LOL
 
 I'd ignore him and not post anything that somebody could run with on OS
 
 BTW my guy wasn't flamboyent and his texts to me couldn't be posted on OS...
 
 Your situation was better!
 
 And my guy denied by gay
 
 You handled it well
 
 This is actually way more complicated that it needs to be. But yes, it is important to seem classy and progressive , as opposed to be classy and progressive.Go with something like
 
 "Ha ha thanks.
 
 Let me just be direct with you though, because I know how much it sucks to like someone and wonder where you stand with them.
 
 I am ok with being friends guy to guy and while I respect your sexual orientation, I myself do not share the same preference, so would prefer if we could just stay friends.
 
 I know you probably didn't mean to hit on my, but it doesn't really make me comfortable, so I just wanted to make it clear that I would prefer if you didn't tell me how awesome my glorious body is :P"
 
 
 Ok, here's why you take this route
 
 1) Your girl friends WILL hear about this, so you want to
 
 A) Put him down easy
 B) Not sound like a jerk
 C) Make yourself seem somewhat classy and progressive.
 
 And I don't really have a 2 or 3, so I'll end this with a period.
 
 
 Shock Top sounds like something he wants you to wear while you're... never mind.
 
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 Re: Need help on not being offensive to someone who has the hots for you...
 
 That had to be intentional.
 He didn't. Or he didn't yet.
 
 And how do you know which role he'll play?Last edited by mKoz26; 10-12-2011, 02:18 PM.Bears | Bulls | Cubs | Illinois | #Team3Some
 
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 Re: Need help on not being offensive to someone who has the hots for you...
 
 PHRASING!
 
 
 Holy Hot Damn was this the greatest line ever uttered on this glorious website.As Latin to Catholics, Gaga to Gays.Too Old To Game Club
 
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 Re: Need help on not being offensive to someone who has the hots for you...
 
 From the OS TOS:
 
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 There are to be NO racial, political, religious, drug related or sexual talk or attacks at Operation Sports. We have a multitude of posters here, and not everyone shares the same views on life as you. To minimize issues between posters, none of these topics will be tolerated on the boards.Comment

 
		
	 
		
	 
		
	 
							
						 
							
						 
		
	
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