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  • ScoobySnax
    #faceuary2014
    • Mar 2009
    • 7624

    #16
    Re: Really stressed out right now.....

    I've been there before as well and I am much better off now. It will take time to move past it, but you will man. Enjoy the Super Bowl today and take care.
    Originally posted by J. Cole
    Fool me one time that's shame on you. Fool me twice can't put the blame on you. Fool me three times, **** the peace sign, load the chopper let it rain on you.
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    • GAMEC0CK2002
      Stayin Alive
      • Aug 2002
      • 10384

      #17
      Re: Really stressed out right now.....

      Hang in there FF. I split with my gf of 5 years back in July. No cheating on either side, just grew apart. Always hurts when a long term relationship doesn't work out. It gets easier, but it takes time.

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      • jeremym480
        Speak it into existence
        • Oct 2008
        • 18198

        #18
        Re: Really stressed out right now.....

        Originally posted by GAMEC0CK2002
        Hang in there FF. I split with my gf of 5 years back in July. No cheating on either side, just grew apart. Always hurts when a long term relationship doesn't work out. It gets easier, but it takes time.
        This. I know it sucks now, but it sounds like you'll be better off in the long run.
        I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts.
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        • Weeks
          L Corleone
          • Aug 2009
          • 2990

          #19
          Re: Really stressed out right now.....

          I have a feeling this Giants win is a sign for good things to come in the future
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          • brett the jet favre
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            • Nov 2009
            • 1938

            #20
            Re: Really stressed out right now.....

            Damn bro, im sorry, keep your head up, and everything will turn out right.
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            • AUChase
              Hall Of Fame
              • Jul 2008
              • 19403

              #21
              Re: Really stressed out right now.....

              I'm not the best with relationship advice, but it sounds like you'll be better off in the long run, if she's willing to throw it away just like that.

              I'm really sorry to hear about it and hope things get easier/better with time.

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              • Dog
                aka jnes12/JNes__
                • Aug 2008
                • 11846

                #22
                Re: Really stressed out right now.....

                More proof that a woman's goal in life is to completely destroy a man's heart
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                • ScoobySnax
                  #faceuary2014
                  • Mar 2009
                  • 7624

                  #23
                  Hopefully Eli hoisting the Lombardi brought you a little comfort man.


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                  Originally posted by J. Cole
                  Fool me one time that's shame on you. Fool me twice can't put the blame on you. Fool me three times, **** the peace sign, load the chopper let it rain on you.
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                  • 12
                    Banned
                    • Feb 2010
                    • 4458

                    #24
                    Re: Really stressed out right now.....

                    Originally posted by Footballforever
                    Thanks so much guys....

                    On have been so sick throwing up for days now, I just can eat... I'm in such a bad place right now...I'm stressing so much while this girl walks around like nothing. I should feel the sane thing she does, but I don't know why I cant

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                    Watch Swingers. This movie is an absolute MUST watch for a guy in your shoes.

                    You'll be alright, man. Hang in there. Its been said a million times already but time is your best friend. You have a son that will help you get through this and it sounds like you have a great family as well. Now is the time to do the things that you enjoy. Like savoring your team's Super Bowl win!

                    You'll struggle and fight through this, but you'll come through it all a better man. Guaranteed.

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                    • RoyalBoyle78
                      Aka."Footballforever"
                      • May 2003
                      • 23918

                      #25
                      Re: Really stressed out right now.....

                      guys, I'm taking this thing really hard, I'm having bad anxiety!!!

                      I keep thinking about everything while this Wman thinks of nothing but herself...I never used to be like this I used to be stong, I'm so week minded right now, I hate this so much!!!!


                      I feel like my mind is in a dark cloud, I'm beating myself up way to much but cant seem to control it at this point.

                      She came home with boxes last night for her things to pack soon, that just killed me.. Guys I dont know, I feel like crap.
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                      • slickdtc
                        Grayscale
                        • Aug 2004
                        • 17125

                        #26
                        Re: Really stressed out right now.....

                        Man, reading that.. took me back to when I was going through problems with my girl.

                        I can totally feel the knot in your chest, throat, stomach. You always want to have a plan, but your world is a cluster**** right now.

                        The only recipe for relief is time and confiding in those closest to you. I tried to keep everything in, but once I posted about it here and more importantly, talked to family and friends about what was going on, I was able to begin the healing process. It's tough to find the right person who'll listen to you and won't run their mouth as you don't want to disparage your girl (well, I didn't... you might want to) but you're so hurt that you can't help but say negative things and things you may regret if you reconcile.

                        It's so much easier said then done. I had always been in the seat of giving advice, but taking it is near impossible.

                        So I'll just leave you with a good luck. Feel free to get it off your chest, it's completely normal and healthy.
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                        • RoyalBoyle78
                          Aka."Footballforever"
                          • May 2003
                          • 23918

                          #27
                          Re: Really stressed out right now.....

                          Originally posted by slickdtc
                          Man, reading that.. took me back to when I was going through problems with my girl.

                          I can totally feel the knot in your chest, throat, stomach. You always want to have a plan, but your world is a cluster**** right now.

                          The only recipe for relief is time and confiding in those closest to you. I tried to keep everything in, but once I posted about it here and more importantly, talked to family and friends about what was going on, I was able to begin the healing process. It's tough to find the right person who'll listen to you and won't run their mouth as you don't want to disparage your girl (well, I didn't... you might want to) but you're so hurt that you can't help but say negative things and things you may regret if you reconcile.

                          It's so much easier said then done. I had always been in the seat of giving advice, but taking it is near impossible.

                          So I'll just leave you with a good luck. Feel free to get it off your chest, it's completely normal and healthy.
                          thanks.....Its just I knew this day would come, just didn't think she would be the one to leave thought it would be me first...I just keep beating myself up while she is walking around, eating/sleeping/and going about her life like I never existed, I should be doing the same, but cant find how to do that right now...

                          I know this is the best for me, but just can't do anything to make myself feel better right now.
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                          • DickDalewood
                            All Star
                            • Aug 2010
                            • 6263

                            #28
                            Re: Really stressed out right now.....

                            Originally posted by Dog
                            More proof that a woman's goal in life is to completely destroy a man's heart
                            That's just ridiculous.



                            I agree with Apostle though... a Swingers viewing is a must in this situation.

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                            • Brandwin
                              Hall Of Fame
                              • Jul 2002
                              • 30621

                              #29
                              Re: Really stressed out right now.....

                              Sorry to hear about this FF. Right now it's going to hurt, but over time you will do better. You seemed to know she wasn't Mrs Right either, so even though it happened the way it did, it's probably best in the long run.

                              It's going to suck because you grew close to the children she had before you guys got together, plus now having to spend time away from your bilogical son. I hope it all works out for you.

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                              • RoyalBoyle78
                                Aka."Footballforever"
                                • May 2003
                                • 23918

                                #30
                                Re: Really stressed out right now.....

                                Originally posted by DookieMowf
                                Sorry to hear about this FF. Right now it's going to hurt, but over time you will do better. You seemed to know she wasn't Mrs Right either, so even though it happened the way it did, it's probably best in the long run.

                                It's going to suck because you grew close to the children she had before you guys got together, plus now having to spend time away from your bilogical son. I hope it all works out for you.
                                I have court tomorrow..so we will see if my son goes or stays. she has a lot of issues right now, for one thing she is in Rehab, and she had her other two kids removed from my house because she dropped off at there dads 3 years ago and told him to take for the summer without him saying so, she was guilt on abandoned changes. So hopefully those two issues fall in my favor.


                                This girl has been no good for me for such a long time, I just need to keep telling myself that, but its still hard for me.
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