Really stressed out right now.....

[ScoobySnax]

Keep pushing man. Daylight is around the corner.


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[Lieutenant Dan]

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well I'm suppose to finally move out tomorrow as she is also, me in the morning and her at night, just feeling a little bummed today, as I have been trying to block out a lot of things, hopefully when I get in my new place I can forget a lot of this and finally get my life back.


I have been painting all day week after work and I'm mentally and physically exhausted.


I know all of this is for the better, just still a bit down..

Moving out will help. Keep your contact with her to zero or as LOW as possible after you do, too. Engage in activities you enjoy doing and try to stay kinda busy for awhile.

[RoyalBoyle78]

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Moving out will help. Keep your contact with her to zero or as LOW as possible after you do, too. Engage in activities you enjoy doing and try to stay kinda busy for awhile.

we have a son, so contact will still be there, but I have my son right now, that's the only thing that sux, there will be contact, only about my son though.

[RoyalBoyle78]

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so finally moved out and am in my new apartment right now, feeling a bit better, thanks guys. Still a little bummed that I wasted all those years on this no good,,,,well you know what I mean.

[Vikes1]

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Sorry to hear about the very difficult time your going through, FF.

But glad to see that your reaching out to others for support and encouragement. The worse thing imo to do is, to try to hold it all inside.

Best of luck moving forward, FF.

[Flightwhite24]

so finally moved out and am in my new apartment right now, feeling a bit better, thanks guys. Still a little bummed that I wasted all those years on this no good,,,,well you know what I mean.

Good to see you going forward FF. Just continue to hang in there. Pulling for you


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[Segagendude]

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I kinda know what you're going through....

I was married before, and found out she cheated on me while I was serving my country, in our marital bed to boot. I was 24, she was 23, married for two years.In my case, I was glad we had no children.

After the divorce, I vowed to never marry again. But then I met my current wife, and we've been married since 2000, together since 1997.

Things will turn around for ya. I wish I could remember the member's name, but awhile back, somebody posted here a similar situation that ended with him getting remarried to a wonderful woman after a messy divorce.

*edit* here's the thread: http://www.operationsports.com/forum...other-man.html

Good luck..

[RoyalBoyle78]

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Thanks guys, I really mean that.

[RoyalBoyle78]

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well still dealing with this crap, its getting better I guess.. Anyway had court yesterday, the judge kept everything the way it was set on the 7th of this month.

I had a lawyer and she went to court with no lawyer, and she told me she didnt fill out the paper for one last week, I said that's your problem. The judge was pretty ticked off at here.

I still have the temp custody and we have to go back to court on the 6th of august... Yeah, August!!!! Anyway at least nothing changed, I still have my son at night and stays with me until she picks him up in the morning from me.


Plus this stupid woman never even moved out of my apartment yet..She told me she was leaving in two weeks at the beginning of the month but some of her plans got delayed. Anyway she is moving out tomorrow.

Still a little bummed, but feeling a Little better. I don't know why I don't feel a lot better, they way I got burned I should not feel anything over this idiot! While she walks around like nothing.

[Lieutenant Dan]

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Still a little bummed, but feeling a Little better. I don't know why I don't feel a lot better, they way I got burned I should not feel anything over this idiot! While she walks around like nothing.

Takes awhile when you've invested so much emotionally. Your heart doesn't have a 'feel better now' switch in this case, more like a volume knob that get's turned down gradually.

You're doing fine, hang in there, keep breathing, one day at a time.

[RoyalBoyle78]

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Takes awhile when you've invested so much emotionally. Your heart doesn't have a 'feel better now' switch in this case, more like a volume knob that get's turned down gradually.

You're doing fine, hang in there, keep breathing, one day at a time.

thanks man.

[Lieutenant Dan]

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[RoyalBoyle78]

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LMAO, LIKE IT!!!