Does she like me? (Help My Brother Out)
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Re: Does she like me? (Help My Brother Out)
Alright so check this out guys. My wife and I went to some yard sales and I brought a long my younger brother to help with any furniture we get. Well, we just happened to go to that girl's house that we are talking about in this thread. He chatted with her for a minute and my wife and I said hey.
So he wants to ask her out now and he wants advice from me. I told me I'm not the person to ask. Back when I was a sophomore in HS, my wife asked me out and we've been going strong ever since. So, he wants to know how to ask a girl out. I told him just to ask, but maybe I'm wrong lol?
Anyways he says thanks for the answers you guys have given so far.
Don't say: "Hey, do you wanna hang out sometime?" Or "Hey, wanna go do something sometime?" Don't be vague about time and intention.
Get straight to the point. "Hey, what are you doing this weekend?...Nothing?...Let's go out [insert place/activity] Saturday."
Maybe he wants to rephrase it to a yes/no question if he doesn't know how to inflect responsibly. I don't even ask yes/no questions anymore. I just tell the woman what we are doing and then yes/no questions are more about options/comfort."It may well be that we spectators, who are not divinely gifted as athletes, are the only ones able to truly see, articulate and animate the experience of the gift we are denied. And that those who receive and act out the gift of athletic genius must, perforce, be blind and dumb about it -- and not because blindness and dumbness are the price of the gift, but because they are its essence." - David Foster Wallace
"You'll not find more penny-wise/pound-foolish behavior than in Major League Baseball." - Rob NeyerComment
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Re: Does she like me? (Help My Brother Out)
Word. Just ask her out. If she acts shady after being all nice and enjoyable to be around, odds are that she wasn't worth time anyways.Comment
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Re: Does she like me? (Help My Brother Out)
Pages 2 and 3 of this thread made me laugh out loud.
I agree with everyone else. I remember being in school and not having the courage to ask a few girls out and I regretted it afterwards..You have to just suck it up and ask. I crashed, burned, and learned my lesson the hard way, during my freshman and sophmore years of Highschool.
Personal experience ? hahaLast edited by AUChase; 08-28-2012, 02:35 PM.Comment
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If you don't get the fear of possible rejection out the way while your in high school then it's only going to get worse/harder after high school.
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Re: Does she like me? (Help My Brother Out)
A couple others have already said it. Just ask her out.
Don't say: "Hey, do you wanna hang out sometime?" Or "Hey, wanna go do something sometime?" Don't be vague about time and intention.
Get straight to the point. "Hey, what are you doing this weekend?...Nothing?...Let's go out [insert place/activity] Saturday."
Maybe he wants to rephrase it to a yes/no question if he doesn't know how to inflect responsibly. I don't even ask yes/no questions anymore. I just tell the woman what we are doing and then yes/no questions are more about options/comfort.
Sitting around won't get the job done, you're just going to have to just put all your chips in the middle and play your cards.
As far as an update goes, he said he's trying to hint a little more before he goes for it. Just so he feels better about it (high fiving in the hallways, trying to talk to her more than he normally does, asking what she's doing after school every day just to talk to her more). Which I think is good, but I told him don't play too long, because you might blow your chances..
I really appreciate you guys helping him out as I can tell he's really into this girl. He's a pretty heavy gamer, and he hasn't gamed in the past week because this girl is on his mind. Wish him luck and I'll keep you guys updated.Comment
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Re: Does she like me? (Help My Brother Out)
As far as an update goes, he said he's trying to hint a little more before he goes for it. Just so he feels better about it (high fiving in the hallways, trying to talk to her more than he normally does, asking what she's doing after school every day just to talk to her more). Which I think is good, but I told him don't play too long, because you might blow your chances..
Just go THM on her azz and ask her out. Period.
High Fiving?
Must be a "generational thing" or just the really BAD idea I suspect it is.
Really? High Fiving?
She's a girl.
That being said, good luck!
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This strategy could make the kid look desperate, creepy or just plain weird.
Just go THM on her azz and ask her out. Period.
High Fiving?
Must be a "generational thing" or just the really BAD idea I suspect it is.
Really? High Fiving?
She's a girl.
That being said, good luck!
My younger cousin went out on a date with this girl he knew.
After the date, she didn't shake his hand or hug him. She gave him a high five.
Neither of us understood it. Maybe it is a generational thing.
Sent from my mobile device."It may well be that we spectators, who are not divinely gifted as athletes, are the only ones able to truly see, articulate and animate the experience of the gift we are denied. And that those who receive and act out the gift of athletic genius must, perforce, be blind and dumb about it -- and not because blindness and dumbness are the price of the gift, but because they are its essence." - David Foster Wallace
"You'll not find more penny-wise/pound-foolish behavior than in Major League Baseball." - Rob NeyerComment
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I think it is a generational thing. But it definitely borders on the Zone of Friendliness. High five here or there is okay, but soon enough she'll be slapping your butt and saying, "Good hustle"NHL - Philadelphia Flyers
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Originally posted by Money99And how does one levy a check that will result in only a slight concussion? Do they set their shoulder-pads to 'stun'?Comment
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High fiving? WTF? If a date were to end like that I'd have to slap a bitch.
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