Found My Son's Condoms

[Dirty Turtles]

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I'd just discuss it with him like an adult. You'll probably get a better result out of an adult conversation than anything else. It'll be awkward for both of you I'm sure.

[RockinDaMike]

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My parents also were straight up with me. They knew if teenagers wanted to do it, they were going to do it and find a way. I really appreciated it because my dad trusted me and had a real talk about having safe sex.

I didn't have to hide anything from my mom and dad which was awesome. He knew I would go out drinking and doing stuff that teenagers would do. He didn't encourage it but if I went out, he would always say that to call him if I needed to be picked up or to stay the night. Just don't go over board.

He's pretty close to being adult and leaving home to go to college right? I say educate him and trust he will make the right decisions. It will go far with him because those talks with my dad still resonate with me today.

[JerzeyReign]

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I also believe your son's story. Sounds like he just needed some practice time. I think its time to sit down and have 'the grown man' talk with him if you haven't already. He's at that age where if you're not having *** you aren't cool stage. Soon curiosity turns into a desire.

Do schools in your area do the Teen Pregnancy class? I know when I was growing up (27 now) we had these realistic looking toy babies that we had to take everywhere with us for a week. That thing cried at all times during the night, really messing up your groove when you have to sit there with a key in its back for hours at a time. It really discouraged me from kids. I was already active at that point though but I practiced safely from that point forward. If your son isn't active yet it could prevent him from wanting to have *** at all for awhile.

By the way, great choice on the pillow cases!

[daflyboys]

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Evan;

Were you ever 16?
C'mon.
Natural order of things.



M.K.
Knight165

You sound like you're admonishing him and that as a parent, he only has one recourse to follow with this. He gets to raise his son how he chooses. Just because you CAN have sex at 16 doesn't automatically imply that you HAVE TO have sex at 16. Would you be saying the same thing if he was talking about his daughter? There are many complications that people overlook for the immediate and the future. Are you really promoting to him as a dad to let his son take the "natural course" and risk the chance of getting yet another teenage girl pregnant in this country/world? Perhaps he wants to teach his son something more important here than recreating a scene from one's favorite porno. Think it through.

However you do this, you don't want to start up something with the girl's mother since it is possible that the condoms were meant for someone else. Really needs to be thoroughly talked out.

[SuperBowlNachos]

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I'm like 99% sure he is just using them by himself out of curiosity. Better to know how to use them by yourself then try to fiddle around with it when the time comes. If he was using them with her he probably would have just tossed them out the window on the way home.

[cjonesfan921]

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Protection is overrated.

[slickdtc]

Oh man Evan, I do not envy you. However, sounds like he's being safe. That's about as good as you can ask for. There just aren't many people who make it out of HS as virgins.

Thinking back, my girl and I didn't start having sex until we were going out for 6-7 months. There's plenty of other stuff to do. Lol. But we felt sex was a responsibility to be taken seriously, and we wanted to make sure it was right for us and not just do it to do it. Still, I was prepared. I was "packing" for a good 2-3 months before, just in case the right time came unexpectedly.

Have the talk, let him know you don't quite approve (or should I say, encourage) but you do understand. Don't call the girl's parents... That's cruel. They may be young & dumb but they can still be responsible too. It could be a lot worse!

[BlueNGold]

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Wait a minute - he "played with them" but put them back in his pillow case? So just what exactly was he doing with them, trying to make balloon animals or something?

[ole_miss53]

Just tell him to make sure he is going balls deep inside her sugar walls!

[BlueNGold]

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Just tell him to make sure he is going balls deep inside her sugar walls!

[ScoobySnax]

@Olemiss Come on, man. SMDH.

[SidVish]

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Bottom line, you're not going to be able to stop him from what he's going to do... Whether you go to her parents or not, IF that is what they're doing, they will find a way, no matter what steps you take.

It's a harsh reality, but we were all that young once... And it's true.

I would trust that what he is telling you is the truth, though. And if it's not? He's being safe, which is all you can ask for because you can't control his actions at this point. Be proud that you raised a responsible man. I'm not saying accept it (if he's not being straight with you), but what else can you do?

[OSUFan_88]

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Just tell him to make sure he is going balls deep inside her sugar walls!

[BlueNGold]

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Quick question about the "sugar walls" thing - what if he's diabetic?