Yet another relationship thread...

[JBH3]

Appreciate the feedback. I recognize by now that this is all apart of some immature game to keep me in the picture.

In fact, I'm heading to the shop after work and my friend who works at the gym wants to give me the scoop on his latest findings.

See...thats the ish I was tryna avoid. Which I explained to her could be a likely scenario. But nooo...I'm just paranoid she says.

I cant be the only one who saw this coming.


BTW, the reason behind me being so worried about the circle of friends is because she claimed to not have liked many of them anyway. Gave me grief about it most of the time. There is only 1...ONE female friend she was cool with and that was my buddies wife which she also claimed to just be cordial with. Selfish or not, I can clearly see the BS from miles away.

In all honesty if you see her being fake w/ your friends in maybe some attempt to gather info or try and stay in your life then you owe it to those who you consider your friends to tell them they are being played. Ultimately they will need to come to that conclusion themselves, but if they are oblivious to this and had no idea she was always telling you that she doesn't like your friends then you owe it to them.

...and the thing about her calling about the gym is just weird, broke up people don't care about that stuff, she's trying to manipulate something.

[FlyingFinn]

Re: Yet another relationship thread...

Man up bro.. Got divorced last year and we were together for 15 years. After the papers were final, not a word from her to me or me to her.

If you want out, you have to be out....

[Brandon13]

Just stop allowing her to have this ****ing power over you. I get it, emotions complicate it all and simple solutions seem more complex than they really are, but as long as you continue to concern yourself with her you're simply not going to move on.

You're making an active decision to move on/give in with whatever you decide to do. Right now, you're ceding control over to her. If you decide, "**** it, I'm done," it will be over and you will move on. But you cannot be half-in on it because, in actuality, half-in just means you're ceding control and not moving on.

[Melbournelad]

Re: Yet another relationship thread...

I'm sorry to have to bump a thread that hasn't been posted in for months, but you said this is the same girl that you posted about in that infamous thread from 6 1/2 years ago (which i just read). The girl who was 17 while you were 27 lol. I'm curious did her parents find out about the age? And how'd they react?

[ScoobySnax]

Must be a slow day at the job to be running thread analytics. Lol.

[Graphik]

Re: Yet another relationship thread...

I'm sorry to have to bump a thread that hasn't been posted in for months, but you said this is the same girl that you posted about in that infamous thread from 6 1/2 years ago (which i just read). The girl who was 17 while you were 27 lol. I'm curious did her parents find out about the age? And how'd they react?

Wow, I look and find this thread bumped. Her folks found out like a year or 2 into the relationship. Her moms always suspected it but you know women dont really trip over those type of things, as long as I wasn't disrespectful towards her she was cool. Her pops on the other hand, I cant really remember how he took it but after so long of being together, he never came at my head about it.

Everything is still good between us tho. Even after this thread lol.