Relationship Advice

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I know this is just a break, but I don't want some guy to steal her heart and leave me in the dust...

Break schmake. She's already been swept off her feet by Evan. You have no chance.

Spoiler

Word is, he rescued her from the clutches of her evil, wicked stepmother... or something.

[JazzMan]

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Alright, well I'm going to a community college for 2 years that's in the same city that I already live in, so the long distance thing isn't an issue.

I don't know, I'm just trying to keep my mind off of it. Worked this morning, just got off work and I'll probably go golf a round or 2 with my brother.

Another thing, last night I (foolishly) told her what she meant to me, and she said that I was too sweet and that's what she loves about me. So I'm thinking she actually does just want some space and isn't banging some other dude like others have speculated.

But really, these comments are great and are helping me a ton. I'll update this as everything progresses.

[Phobia]

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My advice would be don't worry about a "relationship" till the back end of your college career. From here till then just have some fun, bring several home, and enjoy being young dumb and full of BLEEEP!!!

Trust me enjoy it while you have it cause once you settle down and get through these exciting times you are in a long road of 40+ years (hopefully) of redundant adult hood.

[Bmore Irish]

I haven't read what anyone else has said, but you're at a different point in your life than I am so I'll try and fit this accordingly. If you're about to be heading to college or whatever, then this is probably a good thing. Live it up and enjoy yourself.

If you're real into her then it might be hard to not think about her and what she's doin, which is why you meet another girl(s) and experience something new.

Now from my personal perspective: there's no such thing as a "break". If she wants a break then that's fine, but I wouldn't be waiting around for her. You can be nice and say "hey maybe we'll get together again down the road," but it's no guarantee, and for now it's on to the next one. But that's just me. Being single can be fun anyways.

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[Bmore]

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The worst thing you can do is wait around for this girl. Odds are she finds someone else and you've wasted 1-2 years of your life waiting for her.

Move on and enjoy life. You're still young and will meet plenty of girls in college.

[55]

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In all seriousness:

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Alright, well I'm going to a community college for 2 years that's in the same city that I already live in, so the long distance thing isn't an issue.

I don't know, I'm just trying to keep my mind off of it. Worked this morning, just got off work and I'll probably go golf a round or 2 with my brother.

Another thing, last night I (foolishly) told her what she meant to me, and she said that I was too sweet and that's what she loves about me. So I'm thinking she actually does just want some space and isn't banging some other dude like others have speculated.

But really, these comments are great and are helping me a ton. I'll update this as everything progresses.

Yep, kill all contact for now and call it good.

Golfing sounds great... Cling to your family and your boys and let time work it's magic.

There's a decent chance she wakes up or maybe she has moved on. Either way, you're going to be OK, brother.

[FlyingFinn]

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Before reading that your college was in the same town, a part of me thought she was doing this for you so you could have the full college experience without worrying about a HS girlfriend back home. My girlfriend went off to college while I was still in high school and I wish we would have split before she left because by X-mas we were done and I had wasted a few good months of my senior year.

[JazzMan]

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Well guys, it's been a few weeks now... Thinking I'm going to break things off. There's another chick that's into me right now, and it'd just kill me if I were to cheat on this girl. I'm thinking I ask her tomorrow if she wants to be with me or not, and if she doesn't, then I'm out. I've got better things to do than sit around being miserable.

[J-Clutch1]

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Good for you, JazzMan. You're making the right decision.

[dickey1331]

That's good to hear man

[longshadow11]

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Females can make you miserable if you let them. Especially if she's 17, then she is probably fickle and has no idea what she wants. When I was 18 I was crazy about a girl who wasn't ready to be with just me. In fact, I have been dumped many times. It seems like the end of the world when you are young, but at 18, you have a TON of living to do and many girls to meet and have fun with.

Find happiness within yourself and don't let any female determine how happy you feel. I got in that rut for years. It's hard to do, but once you find your strength and realize you don't need a girl, that's when they will come after you. Whatever you do, being a puppy for her to kick around is the worst thing you can do. If she doesn't respect you, then you are a goner after she toys with you for a while. She may not mean to toy with you, as many girls are nice and don't want to hurt a guy's feelings, but the lingering deal of keeping you hanging on because she doesn't want to make you feel bad can diminish you in her eyes and in your own. Be strong, if she isn't into you right now, move on.

Remember, if she's something great, and you were able to be with her for several months, then YOU must be pretty great yourself. And lots of other girls will think so too!

[JazzMan]

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Asked her whether she wanted to be with me or not, she said, "Right now... no, I don't want anything right now." So we broke up.

College life has started, my friends.

[SidVish]

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Asked her whether she wanted to be with me or not, she said, "Right now... no, I don't want anything right now." So we broke up.

College life has started, my friends.

Perfect. Enjoy it. College life is awesome!

[slickdtc]

Asked her whether she wanted to be with me or not, she said, "Right now... no, I don't want anything right now." So we broke up.

College life has started, my friends.

Well at least she was honest. And you cut to the chase and let everyone know where they stand. I think, even if it hurts, it'll leave you with some sense of closure for now.

Enjoy yourself now bud!

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