Off Topic 2014

[Lieutenant Dan]

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We'll guys I've posted about my relationship a couple times in here, and now it is over after two years. What are some things you guys suggest doing to pass the time or anything like that? This was my first long term relationship. I'm not sure what to do haha


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Well a few things that worked for me in those times:

-Spend some time with family
-Hang out with your friends a little more, lean on em some.
-I liked to take a lot of walks in my favorite park
-Start a journal or a blog and 'write out' some of the feelings out of your system.
-Watch comedy movies (NOT rom-coms) and action films. Avoid films she loved.
-Avoid going to places that have strong ties to your relationship.
-Read 'The Hobbit'

Good luck! It gets better but takes some time.

[psychraider32]

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We'll guys I've posted about my relationship a couple times in here, and now it is over after two years. What are some things you guys suggest doing to pass the time or anything like that? This was my first long term relationship. I'm not sure what to do haha


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Hit the gym..create a new you.

[Chrisksaint]

Off Topic 2014

We'll guys I've posted about my relationship a couple times in here, and now it is over after two years. What are some things you guys suggest doing to pass the time or anything like that? This was my first long term relationship. I'm not sure what to do haha


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Alcohol seems like the logical first step. But not the depressed drinking variety, the I'm gonna get drunk and do anything fun variety


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[ubernoob]

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Video games, and lots of them.

[areobee401]

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Friends with her on Facebook? Delete her.

Follow her on Twitter? Delete her.

She texts or calls you? Don't respond.

DO NOT sit around feeling sorry for yourself. Go out and meet new people.

And some here may not agree, but sleep with someone new as soon as possible. You'd be surprised what some new can do to help you get over someone.

[Bellsprout]

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Post the gender of the child she's pregnant with on her Facebook.

[TripleCrown9]

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Post the gender of the child she's pregnant with on her Facebook.

That only works if she's pregnant by another girl's fiancee.

[Lieutenant Dan]

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Friends with her on Facebook? Delete her.

Follow her on Twitter? Delete her.

She texts or calls you? Don't respond.

DO NOT sit around feeling sorry for yourself. Go out and meet new people.

And some here may not agree, but sleep with someone new as soon as possible. You'd be surprised what some new can do to help you get over someone.

I agree with......MOST of that.

Rebound sex did not work out well for me because the girl fell for me very quickly and then I had a whole new set of problems.

[slickdtc]

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I would give it a month to see if things can go back to how they were, if that's an option you want to explore or is even a possibility.

I could've ran out and banged any piece of *** when my fiancé and I broke up. Instead, I showed progress towards becoming a better man for myself (became a shift manager at work, purchased my first car) which in turn made moot some of the points of us breaking up.

Just as I was close to the end of holding on to the idea of us together, she came around. They have to take time to prove something themselves too. That they can survive without you, that what they did was right (in their head ).

My plan if things didn't end up as they did was to remain single for a while unless I stumbled in to something. I was 21 when we broke up and we had dated since I was 16. So I spent my best youthful years in a relationship. Not that I regretted it or ever do regret it. But I was gonna fly solo for a while so I could forget about having to look after another person.

What I did in the month we were broken up? Hung out with my friends a lot more. They were cool and didn't ask many questions. In fact, I kept a lot of my thoughts and feelings bottled up, only pouring them out on here or to select few people. My brothers, my Dad, my closest of friends. I was hurting, and it showed even though I put on my best mask. I was in limbo, she was all I ever knew as I was to her, and the thought of another guy with her reaaaaallllly freaked me out. Me playing the field was intriguing but I wasn't ready to do that just yet. We were both each others first, so there were a lot of questions and stuff about moving on in terms of being with another woman. It made it difficult to cleanly cut her off because she broke up with me via text (she apologized for that, as I felt that was probably the worst thing she did) and kissed some other guy who was stealing her before my very eyes. No sex or cheating otherwise, so I still had all my feelings for her. Not sure how your situation is but if there is ever another man, it's over in my eyes. Credit to these women, they know how to do enough but not too much that they can't come back! Lol

Mainly, I entrenched myself in music. Discovered new stuff, rediscovered old stuff, got into a social music site. I was able to get the myriad of emotions I had out in the form of music; fast, aggressive songs for anger, slow, emotional songs for sadness. My catalog is made up of a lot of songs for breakups and heartbreaks, I just never had to use them for that purpose before.

So that would be my advice to you. If you're sure it's over, go out and have fun. Hang out with your friends. Listen to music to put into words and sounds what you may be feeling. See who else is out there and have fun with it, engaging in a new love in that happens. Work a lot. You've got only yourself to live for now. TALK to people you truly trust about it. Posting on a message board or social media site only works for so long. You need to get it off your chest.

Good luck to you bud! May it all work out for the best.

[Watson]

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Watson what is the song LSU played after their touchdown to go up 21-7? It's not the fight song.

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[seasprite]

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Friends with her on Facebook? Delete her.

Follow her on Twitter? Delete her.

She texts or calls you? Don't respond.

DO NOT sit around feeling sorry for yourself. Go out and meet new people.

And some here may not agree, but sleep with someone new as soon as possible. You'd be surprised what some new can do to help you get over someone.

You're like a beautiful mind

[SuperBowlNachos]

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We'll guys I've posted about my relationship a couple times in here, and now it is over after two years. What are some things you guys suggest doing to pass the time or anything like that? This was my first long term relationship. I'm not sure what to do haha


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Anyone try online dating sites?

[Dog]

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I still hope bad things happen to my ex girlfriend after all the **** she put me through.

But id say the best strategy is to go ghost with her. Do not give her the slightest idea that you even exist. It'll be best for both of you


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[thefakeJTS]

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I will elaborate the situation a little bit more when I get home from work but thanks for all of the advice you guys. It means a lot!

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[JazzMan]

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How to get over your ex-girlfriend:

- Other women. You may not like it, but she's trying to get with other dudes by now. The best way to forget someone is by replacing them.

- Do things with your friends. This is where I went wrong. I was a shut-in after my breakup a few months ago. Don't do that. It makes it worse.

- If you don't have friends, go make some.

- Find a new hobby. Try drawing. Learn how to play guitar. Hell, you can start knitting.

- Buy a Playstation 4.

- Buy every season of a television show and watch them in a week. Worked for me. Twice.

If all else fails, just go out and get plastered and try and get on anything that moves.