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  • LowerWolf
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    • Jun 2006
    • 12268

    #46
    Re: My cat might not make it through the night...

    Man, that sucks. Really sucks. When she pulled through the first time, I hoped the worst was over.

    My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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    • bigbob
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      • Sep 2007
      • 10471

      #47
      Re: My cat might not make it through the night...

      Sorry to hear man. It's definitely a hard time.
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      • Brandon13
        All Star
        • Oct 2005
        • 8915

        #48
        Re: My cat might not make it through the night...

        Sorry man, that's terrible.

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        • Phobia
          Hall Of Fame
          • Jan 2008
          • 11623

          #49
          Re: My cat might not make it through the night...

          Damn Hero, sorry to hear this news. Didn't expect to read that, this morning

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          • jeremym480
            Speak it into existence
            • Oct 2008
            • 18198

            #50
            Re: My cat might not make it through the night...

            Sorry, to hear this H&V. At least you got to spend those last few weeks spoiling her... for that you should be very thankful.



            In the past year and a half we lost two of your dogs. My 7 year old pug and my wife's 13 year old pit, both dogs we had when we met. My pug had cancer and her dog had congestive heart failure. We had to put both of them down because they were suffering, but I still hated to make that decision. Even though at the time I felt in my heart that it was the right thing to do, sometimes I still have doubts in my head... like what if it was just a really bad day/week, could have have done more, etc. As difficult as it is I think that a silver lining is that she got to go out on her on time and you didn't have to have that decision on your conscious.

            It's super tough now, but part of having a great pet is letting them go because they're only here for such a short time. Like the old saying goes "it's be to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all". That's especially rings true with pets. My thoughts are with you.
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            • aukevin
              War Eagle, Go Braves!
              • Dec 2002
              • 14700

              #51
              Re: My cat might not make it through the night...

              So sorry about your cat. Take comfort in your memories and the past few days of making the cat's last days so spoiled.

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              • mgoblue
                Go Wings!
                • Jul 2002
                • 25477

                #52
                Re: My cat might not make it through the night...

                I'm so sorry H&V....at least you had some time with her before it happened....

                Just give it some time...I was really sad for a few days, and it slowly started tapering off...things would make me tear up randomly, but it'll get better.

                Just remember that she's not in pain anymore, and she's in a happy place now. You gave her a good life, and she made your lives better.

                I know it's tough, it was hard on us too. I still set out a cat treat every night for ours when I'm giving the others treats lol...kinda like pouring one out for my homie lol
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                • nemesis04
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                  • Feb 2004
                  • 13530

                  #53
                  Re: My cat might not make it through the night...

                  My condolences to you and your fiancé for your loss. It sounded so promising that she pulled through it. At least you had some extra special time with her. Stay strong!
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                  • Smallville102001
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                    • Mar 2015
                    • 6542

                    #54
                    Re: My cat might not make it through the night...

                    Man sorry to hear that really sucks. It is hard to lose a pet. I used to have a dog form the time I was 6-19 years old so I grew up with him and even now going on 7 years I still miss that dog so much and would love to have another dog but I cant afforded to make it on my own and still need to get out on my own so now way can I afforded a dog.

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                    • PVarck31
                      Moderator
                      • Jan 2003
                      • 16869

                      #55
                      Re: My cat might not make it through the night...

                      Jeez man I'm really sorry to hear this. As a cat and dog lover I know how hard this is. One of our dogs has had multiple health issues and its been hard dealing with those so I'm always on edge about his health.

                      We had 2 kittens die on us last year that we took in from outside because they were sick. Its gutwrenching to say the least. Try to remember all the good times and celebrate her life.

                      You have my sympathy, Heros.

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                      • bigfnjoe96
                        Hall Of Fame
                        • Feb 2004
                        • 11410

                        #56
                        Re: My cat might not make it through the night...

                        Condolences to you and the family HV

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                        • Heroesandvillains
                          MVP
                          • May 2009
                          • 5974

                          #57
                          Re: My cat might not make it through the night...

                          Wow. I really appreciate all of the support here, everyone. OS is the best.

                          It's been really tough going, but we're gradually doing better. The worst is when I think I see her or hear her meowing and then remember that it can't be her because she's gone. We miss her so much.

                          I told my fiancé I'd do whatever she needed to heal. It took her all of three seconds to suggest the possibility of getting another cat.

                          Which is ok by me. I'd personally prefer to grieve a little bit longer but we both hate the idea of our dog being totally alone when we're both gone to work (I currently own a business so I'm gone most of the time while the fiancé works like 20 hours per week, so she's generally home).

                          Otherwise, we've been spending some time together and sharing our photos and videos of our cat to eachother. I usually hate "ruining a moment" by pulling out the cellphone (which is why I don't have as many as she does) but I have to say it's been nice looking back on all the memories we had as a family.

                          Thanks for the support everyone. It really has helped during this difficult time.

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                          • mgoblue
                            Go Wings!
                            • Jul 2002
                            • 25477

                            #58
                            Re: My cat might not make it through the night...

                            Originally posted by Heroesandvillains
                            Wow. I really appreciate all of the support here, everyone. OS is the best.

                            It's been really tough going, but we're gradually doing better. The worst is when I think I see her or hear her meowing and then remember that it can't be her because she's gone. We miss her so much.

                            I told my fiancé I'd do whatever she needed to heal. It took her all of three seconds to suggest the possibility of getting another cat.

                            Which is ok by me. I'd personally prefer to grieve a little bit longer but we both hate the idea of our dog being totally alone when we're both gone to work (I currently own a business so I'm gone most of the time while the fiancé works like 20 hours per week, so she's generally home).

                            Otherwise, we've been spending some time together and sharing our photos and videos of our cat to eachother. I usually hate "ruining a moment" by pulling out the cellphone (which is why I don't have as many as she does) but I have to say it's been nice looking back on all the memories we had as a family.

                            Thanks for the support everyone. It really has helped during this difficult time.
                            Another cat is always tempting lol....but for us we have 2 older dogs and 2 younger cats, so figured 2 cats was good for now...Plus with the baby we don't want to have to train a kitten, but we like getting kittens so we can avoid some bad habits older pets have.
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                            • bigeastbumrush
                              My Momma's Son
                              • Feb 2003
                              • 19245

                              #59
                              Re: My cat might not make it through the night...

                              Sorry Heroes.

                              Cats are the greatest.

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                              • slickdtc
                                Grayscale
                                • Aug 2004
                                • 17125

                                #60
                                Re: My cat might not make it through the night...

                                Yeah as much as getting a new kitten/cat is like replacing your former cat, it is a good way of healing. Definitely give yourself some time and respect that process, though. The new pet won't be what your old cat was, but it'll find new ways into your heart with brand new personality and quirks.
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