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  • countryboy
    Growing pains
    • Sep 2003
    • 52852

    #46
    Re: 2016: Starting off with me getting divorced

    Originally posted by CAMPBLACKMAMBA24
    Don't feel that way CB. There is no amount nor mountain I would not climb for my children. It's unfortunate but we have to do what we have to do. Listen to your attorney and follow his advice which it seems you have done up to this point.

    God bless you with this my friend.


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    I didn't mean it to sound like I don't want to pay this to see my son. I would do anything to be with him 24/7. I would go through hell and back for my son.

    The thing is that the other side, wife and her attorney, are coming up with ways to make me have to pay out of pocket it seems.
    I can't shave with my eyes closed, meaning each day I have to look at myself in the mirror and respect who I see.

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    • Flightwhite24
      Hall Of Fame
      • Jul 2005
      • 12095

      #47
      2016: Starting off with me getting divorced

      Originally posted by countryboy
      I didn't mean it to sound like I don't want to pay this to see my son. I would do anything to be with him 24/7. I would go through hell and back for my son.



      The thing is that the other side, wife and her attorney, are coming up with ways to make me have to pay out of pocket it seems.

      CB I know man you don't have to explain. My divorce sounds very similar to yours. Took about 6 months of me taking a beating but I kept my cool, listened to my attorney and just tried to be a true man and soon the tables started to turn.

      The fact that your son is so young may be a challenge. My kids where 10/11 so the mediator felt they could have a say in who they wanted to live with.

      Praying that you find some peace and resolution soon because the children need both parents equally.




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      • Ghost Of The Year
        T Bone
        • Mar 2014
        • 6421

        #48
        Re: 2016: Starting off with me getting divorced

        When everything is settled in court & you are granted rights a father, I'd look into taking the ex to civil court for reimbursement, if thats even at all possible.
        Talk about things nobody cares.

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        • countryboy
          Growing pains
          • Sep 2003
          • 52852

          #49
          Re: 2016: Starting off with me getting divorced

          Originally posted by Ghost Of The Year
          When everything is settled in court & you are granted rights a father, I'd look into taking the ex to civil court for reimbursement, if thats even at all possible.
          I don't know if its possible, but I will not go down that road.
          I can't shave with my eyes closed, meaning each day I have to look at myself in the mirror and respect who I see.

          I miss the old days of Operation Sports :(


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          • Clarke99
            Banned
            • Feb 2012
            • 462

            #50
            Re: 2016: Starting off with me getting divorced

            Well CB I dont know you personally, but have seen you on here (and I think the old MLB 2K boards) since 06-07 (I was under one other name once) You seem like a great guy, I have some mental illness (ADHD & OCD Tendencies) as someone who suffers in and out of depression from this and not being able to hold down steady work I feel for you.

            This is just an inkling and I only say this to perhaps maybe MAYBE find a silver lining into why she may have left. Chances are she took care of you to a certain extent and in the process feelings changed, however was unable to leave you in the state you may have been in prior. Now that things had seemed to be great, she felt it was the time to end things. Women are all nuts IMO, but this couldve been her train of thought and maybe why you now feel blindsided.
            I say this because it had happened in my life before, that being said I dont quite understand at least why she wouldnt want you ever in your sons life if thats whats going on. that is just rediculous. You clearly arent a threat, and from what we can all see are a great person. Just remember change can also be seen as new oppertunity and almost always leads to a better life in the end. A mental illness will never define you and I wish you all the best.

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            • countryboy
              Growing pains
              • Sep 2003
              • 52852

              #51
              Re: 2016: Starting off with me getting divorced

              Signed the papers. Divorced finalized.

              Not sure how to feel. Roller coaster of emotions at this point.
              I can't shave with my eyes closed, meaning each day I have to look at myself in the mirror and respect who I see.

              I miss the old days of Operation Sports :(


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              • Bullit
                Bacon is Better
                • Aug 2009
                • 5004

                #52
                Re: 2016: Starting off with me getting divorced

                Wow that was quick, here in Virginia you have to be separated for 6 months before you can get divorced.

                Hope you are holding up ok, here if you need anything.
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                • countryboy
                  Growing pains
                  • Sep 2003
                  • 52852

                  #53
                  Re: 2016: Starting off with me getting divorced

                  Originally posted by Bullit
                  Wow that was quick, here in Virginia you have to be separated for 6 months before you can get divorced.

                  Hope you are holding up ok, here if you need anything.
                  We've been legally separated for about two months. We have to be separated for two months for courts to legally finalize. I have signed the papers agreeing to settlement out of court with my ex-wife. She legally filed the papers at the end of December and I didn't receive until first of the year. So in about a week or so, we will actually be divorced but there is nothing now to contest as we have agreed in writing to terms.
                  Last edited by countryboy; 02-15-2016, 07:26 PM.
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                  • ExtremeGamer
                    Extra Life 11/3/18
                    • Jul 2002
                    • 35299

                    #54
                    Re: 2016: Starting off with me getting divorced

                    Wait. You've been separated a year but was shocked she asked for a divorce a month ago? I'm even more confused now.


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                    • countryboy
                      Growing pains
                      • Sep 2003
                      • 52852

                      #55
                      Re: 2016: Starting off with me getting divorced

                      Originally posted by ExtremeGamer
                      Wait. You've been separated a year but was shocked she asked for a divorce a month ago? I'm even more confused now.


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                      Disregard what I typed. I was on my phone and in traffic. Message was sent unclear and unfinished and incorrectly. See above for what I was meaning to type out.
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                      I miss the old days of Operation Sports :(


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                      • steelerfan
                        MVP
                        • Jun 2003
                        • 4351

                        #56
                        Re: 2016: Starting off with me getting divorced

                        I hope that this will have nothing but positive resolution for you going forward. Best of luck and I hope that your child remains the most important part of your life but that you also take good care of yourself.

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                        • seasprite
                          Phenom
                          • Jul 2008
                          • 8984

                          #57
                          Re: 2016: Starting off with me getting divorced

                          Originally posted by countryboy
                          Signed the papers. Divorced finalized.

                          Not sure how to feel. Roller coaster of emotions at this point.
                          Well on the bright side, things can get messy and drawn out forever in divorces and it's a good thing you both could come to an agreement without it going to trial. Baby steps my man, you will come out of this a better man, I promise.






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                          • ExtremeGamer
                            Extra Life 11/3/18
                            • Jul 2002
                            • 35299

                            #58
                            Re: 2016: Starting off with me getting divorced

                            So since the papers are signed, what ended up with the custody stuff for your son? Are you at least getting to see him through the court?

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                            • countryboy
                              Growing pains
                              • Sep 2003
                              • 52852

                              #59
                              Re: 2016: Starting off with me getting divorced

                              Originally posted by ExtremeGamer
                              So since the papers are signed, what ended up with the custody stuff for your son? Are you at least getting to see him through the court?
                              Yes.

                              I see him every weekend.
                              I can't shave with my eyes closed, meaning each day I have to look at myself in the mirror and respect who I see.

                              I miss the old days of Operation Sports :(


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