Help me help myself

[TripleCrown9]

I haven't attempted anything yet, but if a girl says no, am I supposed to keep trying or what's the protocol?

[Marino]

Quote: Originally Posted by SwampStomper90

I haven't attempted anything yet, but if a girl says no, am I supposed to keep trying or what's the protocol?

If she says no, move on.

[jeremym480]

Quote: Originally Posted by ANDROMADA 1

I would just add, say something funny. Keep em laughing.

This and I'll add always leave them wanting more. If your actually talking to a girl in a bar situation make small talk, be funny and listen. Also, remember sometimes it's just about "planting seeds" and by the law of averages you want to plant as many seeds as possible. If you're making small talk with a chick and you've seen her at that bar before then make contact and if you sense and awkward lull in the conversation then, move on. You'll likely see her again. You have to remember to always leave them wanting more. If there is no awkwardness then, you can work towards the next step of getting those digits.

- A few things I'd suggest is to try your best to forget about meeting women and just go out to have fun. If you go out just to try to get laid, then you will appear desperate. Seriously, women have some sort of sixth sense about picking up on that.
- Don't be a "wall flower". There's a hundred guys out there just like you. There's only one way to stand out and that's by actually speaking to them.
- Also, if you go out with a group of your friends then hang out with them but, also distant yourself from them at times. Shy girls are less likely to approach you if your in a group.
- When your at the bar or moving around smile at women. Hell, say" hello" or "how you doing?". Anything to break the ice. Breaking the ice is half the battle. Again talk to everyone. What's the worst that can happen?

That's all I've got for now. If you want anymore advice I'm going to have to start charging.

[TripleCrown9]

Well step 1 down. I shaved down from a full somewhat scraggly beard to a reasonable goatee.

[jeremym480]

Quote: Originally Posted by SwampStomper90

Well step 1 down. I shaved down from a full somewhat scraggly beard to a reasonable goatee.

That's probably a good move. I find that facial hair is a bit of an acquired taste for most women.

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[Gotmadskillzson]

Yep it is the same thing for chest hair.......some women like it, some don't. Some women like full beards, some like no beards and some like goatees.

Some women like long hair, some like short hair, some like bald heads.