Chuck It: Everyone Deserves a Second Chance
By Charles Barkley
You know me. You know who I am and who I was. I’m a pro basketball player and, you know what, when we *uck up, it’s ALL over the news. My past career is a testament to this — I was loud. Hell, I still am. I made some poor choices, used some poor words, and I lost my way the last few years of my career.
Let’s get this out of the way right now: I wouldn’t have gotten this far without my wife, Mary. I wouldn’t be writing this without her either. My love, she wanted me to be myself, she wanted me to express myself — so let’s start with what’s on my mind.
Everyone — every damn person, short of some really stupid or horrible people — deserves a second chance. I ain’t talking about giving murders or rapists or anyone like that a second chance, no way in hell, but I’m talking about regular people; you, me, our spouses, our siblings … people deserve a second chance.
All season long I’ve heard two things, over and over.
“Chuck, it’s great to see you back in the NBA.”
“Chuck, you had your chance — why you taking opportunities away from young guys?”
For the people telling me the first thing, I thank you. You’ve helped me more than you could know.
To the people telling me the second thing, let me explain it to you simply: shut the hell up. I ain’t taking no one’s job, I’m not taking away an opportunity for a young guy. I may have had an NBA career before, true, but I ain’t finding someone in the league, killing them off, and replacing them. You make it sound like I’m robbing someone in broad daylight!
No, I went through a painful, hugely expensive treatment to get my body back — to give me a second chance — and there weren’t any guarantees it was gonna work. I could have died. I could still die. I could get hit by a bus tomorrow. I didn’t take the treatment and demand to be back in the league, I went through the damned draft — I could have been taken by the Kings! You think I wanted to play in Sacramento? You think anyone really does?
Hell no. I’m an NBA player, I ain’t taking drugs, I ain’t taking steroids, I haven’t become some sort of super-solider … I’m a fat guy who’s trying to stay in shape, an athlete who’s working every day with my team, my coach, and that work ain’t gonna stop.
I hear all these people telling me I’m wrong, that I’m doing an immoral thing, that I’m taking jobs away from young guys … and you know what? Those people are wrong.
I paid through the nose for this second chance and my money is going to go to making this available for everyone. In a few years, all those naysayers are gonna have their shot and you know what they’re gonna do? They’re gonna take it.
Everyone deserves a second chance. Even dumb*sses.