Yeah, I don't mind ea taking charge of matchmaking but at least give people a start up screen where you immediately know what team, kit, dnf and name/number of opposing gamer.
So far for me online has been a mixed bag that I always see the loosing side of. I usually like to play manual because the games are so much better. Unfortunately searching for manual games is excruciating, often ending in no less than a dozen failed attempts. Even in manual you can meet the high pressure guys but there is comfort knowing passing and shooting is not a given for them.
I've been trying assisted games recently. I do occasionaly run across players that try to play realistic but far more often its people looking to take advantage or exploiting the ai. One shot that has been killing me is the lobbed through ball to an insanely fast striker. Everybody I play seems to have extremely fast teams.
What happens is they pitch the ball over everyone into the open field and then their strikers chases it down for a free look. It often seems like they are offside but must have timed it perfectly. I've tried to play the offside tactic but more often than not I don't get the call and am even more vulnerable.