Interesting. I've found that since the new patch the game seems to play somewhat similar to how you're describing. Again, I've tinkered with a lot of sliders based on AlTito's set, but I find that it's playing a lot better.
That being said, I'm only 5-6 games in, and have the goalie sliders bumped up a bunch, so that might be part of it as well.
Are you seeing many CPU shots from the point? That's one gripe that I keep having with my current set up (And it seems others are seeing the same issue...). The CPU comes in and controls the puck, but seems absolutely obsessed with getting to high scoring zones, and will typically only shoot from those areas.