Do You Buy Females Drinks In The Club?

[NoleFan]

Re: Do You Buy Females Drinks In The Club?

I also hate clubs so I don't go to them. I only like bars. And I don't buy girls drinks there either.

Now this is me as well. I ONLY do bars...primarily sports bars save for this little jazz spot down the street.

[trobinson97]

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Nah.

[Thrasha]

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It just depends on what your goal is.

I was at a bar with a few friends of mine Friday night and my friend who doesn't drink bought us a couple rounds of shots. If it's your friends and you're all out just having a good time, then definitely buy some drinks.

But if you're trying to run some game on a chick, buying her a drink does nothing but demonstrate lower value and lumps you in with the rest of the losers in the club fighting to get a chance to "buy her a drink".

Like Nivek said, the best thing is to go up to a chick and ask her to buy you a drink.

[JayBee74]

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But if you're trying to run some game on a chick, buying her a drink does nothing but demonstrate lower value and lumps you in with the rest of the losers in the club fighting to get a chance to "buy her a drink".

Like Nivek said, the best thing is to go up to a chick and ask her to buy you a drink.

I have to say Nivek& Thrasha, that I have never heard that line before and it would fall pretty flat with all but the most desperate women . You're just advertising the fact that you're either cheap or a jerk.That line exudes cockiness rather than confidence. There are a lot better ice breakers then that.

[Husker_OS]

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If she's really hot, no. Because she's only there to get free drinks.

[JayBee74]

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If she's really hot, no. Because she's only there to get free drinks.

Many times yes, and I'd just like to say I wasn't calling Nivek& Thrasha jerks or el cheapos, just questioning there choice of "line".

[Spectre]

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Hell no

It's expensive as hell to go out in the city.

I'll buy drinks for friends though

[tehova]

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Nah, I don't drink. And the sober guy buying girls drinks just looks suspect and creepy.

[McLite]

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I have to say Nivek& Thrasha, that I have never heard that line before and it would fall pretty flat with all but the most desperate women . You're just advertising the fact that you're either cheap or a jerk.That line exudes cockiness rather than confidence. There are a lot better ice breakers then that.

Come on man...didn't you watch these guys. You always have to demonstrate lower value!

http://blog.vh1.com/files/2007/09/the-pick-up-artist-438x2721.jpg

[stewaat]

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If I'm dating the girl I'll get her a drink or two.

If it's a stranger, no way.

[DC]

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Yeah, that's kinda what it boils down to if you ask me. It's kinda like buying a Rolex or something: stupid, moronic waste of money if you make 30K a year, but if you make 250K a year, it's not proportionately much more expensive than buying a Fossil or something. In turn, buying a drink for some random chick seems like throwing your money away if you've only got fifty bucks or something to spend, but if you have $300 to blow for the night, for example, buying lots of drinks for lots of people seems pretty on-point to me.

LOL If I "had" the $ I still wouldn't do it.

[thegoons21]

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I won't do it for randoms. I've never met anyone worthwhile in club/bar anyway. Just skanks for a one night ditty. Why pay for what I can get for free. Same theory applies to strip clubs.

If I was with a chick I was dating then yeah I'd buy some drinks. I know some bartenders here in DC so I can usually get a lot comped.

But I'm married and have to buy the drinks now....

[CMH]

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You sound like me.

Because I am you.

[Gibbz]

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Yeah, but I put a little something in the drinks first...




I kid, I kid.

[Nivek]

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I have to say Nivek& Thrasha, that I have never heard that line before and it would fall pretty flat with all but the most desperate women . You're just advertising the fact that you're either cheap or a jerk.That line exudes cockiness rather than confidence. There are a lot better ice breakers then that.

I hate to bump an old thread, but you totally missed the whole point of that "ice breaker." Women are used to men buying them drinks in order to start a conversation. A smart women recognizes this, they play along, get the drink and move the **** on to the next sucker. So when I change it up and ask them to buy me a drink, it breaks the ice and opens up a conversation, where I get her attention without ever opening up my wallet.

The intent isn't to get them to buy you a drink, it's to start a conversation or situation in which they've never encountered. Thus, they pay more attention or find you interesting. It takes 3 seconds for a guy to say, "can I buy you a drink?" and another three seconds for a women to say "thanks hun" and walk the **** away.

Try it before you knock it, you'll be amazed at the results. I'm not trying to say I'm a mack daddy or any **** like that, but all the guys that end up with Palmala Handerson at the end of the night all have something in common.

Be original, take risks and don't use money to chase women, it also doesn't hurt to be a gentlemen. Buying a girl a drink doesn't make you a gentlemen, it shows you need a reason for her to stay.