what a freaking day....

[CaptainZombie]

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it's cheaper to keep her!

sorry to hear this FF. I noticed that you haven't been around as much. I hope it works out for you!
ain't nothing worse than a woman scorned. hopefully she realizes by not letting you see your kid, she's only hurting the kid as well.

It's so sad that relationships are hard enough without kids, when you start adding kids the dynamics change and things get even tougher. I know at times things between my wife and I aren't the same because of our kids. We have 3 little kids ages of 4, 2 1/2, and 9 months. They have their bad days which then turns us into having bad days at times. I guess you have to just be willing to work through the sh*t.

I think that it's a crock of BS with what she's doing Football. I know what you are feeling about possibly losing your daughter for the short-term. It would pain any parent that cares and loves for their children.

Take Care bro.

[Briman123]

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Where is the moment we needed the most
You kick up the leaves and the magic is lost
They tell me your blue skies fade to gray
They tell me your passion's gone away
And I don't need no carryin' on

You stand in the line just to hit a new low
You're faking a smile with the coffee you go
You tell me your life's been way off line
You're falling to pieces every time
And I don't need no carryin' on

Because you had a bad day
You're taking one down
You sing a sad song just to turn it around
You say you don't know
You tell me don't lie
You work at a smile and you go for a ride
You had a bad day
The camera don't lie
You're coming back down and you really don't mind
You had a bad day
You had a bad day

Will you need a blue sky holiday?
The point is they laugh at what you say
And I don't need no carryin' on

You had a bad day
You're taking one down
You sing a sad song just to turn it around
You say you don't know
You tell me don't lie
You work at a smile and you go for a ride
You had a bad day
The camera don't lie
You're coming back down and you really don't mind
You had a bad day

(Oooh.. a holiday..)

Sometimes the system goes on the blink
And the whole thing turns out wrong
You might not make it back and you know
That you could be well oh that strong
And I'm not wrong

(yeah...)

So where is the passion when you need it the most
Oh you and I
You kick up the leaves and the magic is lost

Cause you had a bad day
You're taking one down
You sing a sad song just to turn it around
You say you don't know
You tell me don't lie
You work at a smile and you go for a ride
You had a bad day
You've seen what you like
And how does it feel for one more time
You had a bad day
You had a bad day

[ExtremeGamer]

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Aggghhh I feel like it's American Idol all over again!

[Spectre]

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yeah man, she had my daughter write crayon all over my rugs, she had my daughter write all over the walls with crayon, I'm not 100% it was even my daughter who did it, she had her whole sicko famliy helping her.. who ever was help her move drank beer and left the bottles all over the kitchen, they through pizza all over my kitchen, the bi*ch took almost everything in my apartment, accept my HDTV and my 360, she know I would have gone after her for that...

I called the police and they came, and guess what, they said there's nothing they can do, witch I think is bull*hi*. You this B**** even took the toilet paper, and when I got home I had to take a crap to bad, yo I just got raped today....I mean it was my fault she left, but that is besides the point.

thanks guys..

Make sure you keep track of these details FWIW- if this goes to court, you can use EVERY one of these examples as reasons she should not have your daughter.

[Dallasin2K3]

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This one goes out to you, FF.

http://www.sonymusic.com/clips/selec...1_full_100.asx


Good luck, man..

[SPTO]

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Hm I just saw this today and wow I feel bad for you FF.


HOWEVER


I don't know if you were delicately dropping hints to her before you told her to leave but if you didn't and just said that well....what she did was wrong but I can kinda see why she did it. As the old saying goes "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned".

Truthfully tho I wouldn't want to be involved with such an immature and psycho woman anyways so I guess it was the best thing to do in the long run. You shoulda told her that even tho the relationship is over you two still share a common bond and it's your daughter. No matter how much you hate each other that should NEVER EVER stand in the way of both of you raising your child to be a good and upstanding citizen of the world.

I feel for you bro and I hope the family court will see it your way but try not to be too vindictive in this. As easy as it is to get mad at your ex and treat her like crap you still have to remember she's the daughter of your only child.

I wish you luck in your endeavours and I will be thinking of you bro.

[Scottdau]

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I can't see how a judge can say she's sane enough to raise a child when she's doing something as immature as trashing your home.

Sorry to hear that.

Yeah, but good luck trying to get full custody. The mother always seem to win in cases like this! But if you can prove the kid is in danger living with the mom you never know! Any ways my prayers go out to you.

[SPTO]

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Yeah, but good luck trying to get full custody. The mother always seem to win in cases like this! But if you can prove the kid is in danger living with the mom you never know! Any ways my prayers go out to you.

If this was 30 years ago it'd be a slam dunk win for him. Nowadays it seems the only way the mother will lose custody is if she doesn't have a job, lives in a ranshackle house and does cocaine. Even then it's not a lock for the father to get custody.

That's where Womens Liberation in the 70s screwed things up. (but I won't get political just an opinion)

[Scottdau]

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She will get what's coming to her eventually. Call me crazy, but I believe in karma. Do bad things to people, and sooner or later it comes back to bite ya in the a$$. I've seen it happen time and time again. Round and round, what goes around comes around. Anyway, I hope you get your kid back. That is what's truly important.

Some one has been watching to much my name is Earl! The truth is you live life long enough something bad is going to happen to you! I feel your pain FF relationships are hard and to have a young kid doesn't make it any easier. But if I can say one thing, be respectful to this lady, I know that is hard, but your daughter might resent you if you are mean to her mother! And getting into a war with this lady is not good for your daughter. So good luck bro. Make sure you record all the crazy things she has done, so you can use it in court!

[Scottdau]

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If this was 30 years ago it'd be a slam dunk win for him. Nowadays it seems the only way the mother will lose custody is if she doesn't have a job, lives in a ranshackle house and does cocaine. Even then it's not a lock for the father to get custody.

That's where Womens Liberation in the 70s screwed things up. (but I won't get political just an opinion)

Yep, but even then it would be tough! The truth is the courts don't think Dads can do a good job raising the kids! Who knows! Maybe we can't!
Also if she is going to live with her family that will play a big part in the mothers favor.

[RoyalBoyle78]

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I'm filing for joint custody, I think I will be happy with that, I will be happy with my daughter a few days a week....Even though she was this way with me, she's a great mother, I always think a child should be with the mother anyway, but like I said i will be happy with joint custody.. I mean I asked here to leave because I did somthing bad to her...I don't blame here for hating my guts, but she should not do this with my daughter.

[funky_chicken]

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I'm filing for joint custody, I think I will be happy with that, I will be happy with my daughter a few days a week....Even though she was this way with me, she's a great mother, I always think a child should be with the mother anyway, but like I said i will be happy with joint custody.. I mean I asked here to leave because I did somthing bad to her...I don't blame here for hating my guts, but she should not do this with my daughter.

Even if you dogged her out that is not your daughter's fault. Your daughter should not have to suffer or be put in the middle because you and your ex don't get along. I wish you the best.

[RoyalBoyle78]

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Even if you dogged her out that is not your daughter's fault. Your daughter should not have to suffer or be put in the middle because you and your ex don't get along. I wish you the best.

I know, thanks man.

[davehughes14]

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Wish you the best with this FF.

[Scottdau]

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I'm filing for joint custody, I think I will be happy with that, I will be happy with my daughter a few days a week....Even though she was this way with me, she's a great mother, I always think a child should be with the mother anyway, but like I said i will be happy with joint custody.. I mean I asked here to leave because I did somthing bad to her...I don't blame here for hating my guts, but she should not do this with my daughter.

That is cool to hear, joint would be great. Just watch out if she is mad at you she might use the kid! Hopefully not.