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  • cbgatorade0202
    Why Not?
    • Dec 2004
    • 4041

    #61
    Re: what a freaking day....

    Originally posted by dieselboy
    I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that killing is far worse than cheating on someone.

    Yea i'd have to say that is a little different , The day someone comes on here talkin about how they killed someone ..well that would be very strange

    I wish you lock FF with what you got coming ahead, One of my Dads friends went through the same exact thing not to long ago..She had cheated on him and such, and they tried to work it out but that never worked. He ended up actually getting Full Custody about 3 years ago but he had it changed not to long ago for 50/50. Good luck
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    • Clover
      Gr*y D*g S*ftw*r*
      • Feb 2004
      • 52

      #62
      Re: what a freaking day....

      There is nothing civil about cheating. And I never claimed your wife was not to blame in anyway. I actually made a point of saying I felt sorry for your daughter. And, that isn't to insinuate that you don't love her (your daughter). My post, was in response to what you had shared -not what you choose not to share, and not due to the fact that I am a woman - I happen to get that there are two sides to a story and someplace in between lies the truth. My post was to blatantly point out that, both men and women, don't learn from many mistakes or we wouldn't still be cheating when we have children we love, adore and want the best for. I stated, you were lucky to have had your HDTV left be. Why? Because people get pissed off, people get hurt, and as you want to admit, people make mistakes. I hope you get that it took two of you (and then your baby girl) to build up your life. Tearing down life sucks. And, somehow you have to assure that your daughter learns something positive from this.

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      • DueceDiggla
        MVP
        • Aug 2002
        • 4915

        #63
        Re: what a freaking day....

        Good luck FF.

        Hope everything works out for you.

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        • Victor99
          Living The Dream!
          • Mar 2005
          • 1230

          #64
          Re: what a freaking day....

          Like I said, take this as one of life's learning expierences and consider yourself lucky FF. Indeed we all have done some really dumb things in our lives, I know I sure have. But a mistake is never truly a mistake unless you don't learn from it. That is what we do, we learn from our mistakes. From your last post, it sounds like she's trying to be reasonable about this situation. You should do the same IMO. Let go of your anger and hate, it will only drag you down.
          How I wish, how I wish you were here. We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl year after year. Running over the same old ground. What have we found? The same old fears. Wish you were here.

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          • SoMiss2000
            Hall Of Fame
            • Oct 2002
            • 20499

            #65
            Re: what a freaking day....

            first off, i thought this was just FF's girlfriend. She wants you back FF, after you've cheated....like I said before, it's cheaper to keep her! Go ahead and make an honest woman out of her.
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            • Victor99
              Living The Dream!
              • Mar 2005
              • 1230

              #66
              Re: what a freaking day....

              I'm a little confused as well FF. Is she your girlfriend or your wife?
              How I wish, how I wish you were here. We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl year after year. Running over the same old ground. What have we found? The same old fears. Wish you were here.

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              • RoyalBoyle78
                Aka."Footballforever"
                • May 2003
                • 23918

                #67
                Re: what a freaking day....

                we were engaged, she was my GF for 7 years...Clover, i do undestand where your coming from, and thanks to all for your advice.
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                • Victor99
                  Living The Dream!
                  • Mar 2005
                  • 1230

                  #68
                  Re: what a freaking day....

                  Originally posted by FootballForever
                  we were engaged, she was my GF for 7 years...Clover, i do undestand where your coming from, and thanks to all for your advice.
                  Ah, I see.
                  How I wish, how I wish you were here. We're just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl year after year. Running over the same old ground. What have we found? The same old fears. Wish you were here.

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                  • soxboy7
                    MVP
                    • Aug 2002
                    • 1541

                    #69
                    Re: what a freaking day....

                    Just saw this thread now, sorry to hear all of this is going on for you FF. However it seems like you know what you need to do and I'm sure that as long as both of you stay reasonable about the issues you two can work things out...and that doesn't necessarily mean getting back together.

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                    • SoMiss2000
                      Hall Of Fame
                      • Oct 2002
                      • 20499

                      #70
                      Re: what a freaking day....

                      Originally posted by FootballForever
                      we were engaged, she was my GF for 7 years...Clover, i do undestand where your coming from, and thanks to all for your advice.
                      well, 7 years and no wedding...may as well **** or get off the toilet.
                      "Never trust a big butt and a smile."-Ricky Bell
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                      • EWRMETS
                        All Star
                        • Jul 2002
                        • 7491

                        #71
                        Re: what a freaking day....

                        Originally posted by Psyblast
                        Whether you were joking with this post or not....do you even believe some of the bull**** you post here?
                        What is wrong with the post I wrote? The guy cheats on his fiance and he deserves to have his stuff trashed and his daughter taken away? He didn't commit a crime, he just made a mistake.

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                        • BGarrett7
                          All Star
                          • Jul 2003
                          • 5890

                          #72
                          Re: what a freaking day....

                          Originally posted by EWRMETS
                          The guy cheats on his fiance and he deserves to have his stuff trashed and his daughter taken away?
                          I don't think anyone was saying he deserved what happened, more that something of that nature should be expected. Not to mention that it was pretty shady on his part coming on here, telling his side of the story, and missing a certain rather crucial point which, as you can see, was capable of completely swinging the tone of the thread.

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                          • EWRMETS
                            All Star
                            • Jul 2002
                            • 7491

                            #73
                            Re: what a freaking day....

                            Originally posted by BGarrett7
                            I don't think anyone was saying he deserved what happened, more that something of that nature should be expected. Not to mention that it was pretty shady on his part coming on here, telling his side of the story, and missing a certain rather crucial point which, as you can see, was capable of completely swinging the tone of the thread.
                            I can see your point but I think that with all that happened to him he doesn't need the Grey Dog software guy giving him a lecture or people saying they have no sympathy for him. That's just kicking a man when he's down.

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                            • BGarrett7
                              All Star
                              • Jul 2003
                              • 5890

                              #74
                              Re: what a freaking day....

                              Originally posted by EWRMETS
                              I can see your point but I think that with all that happened to him he doesn't need the Grey Dog software guy giving him a lecture or people saying they have no sympathy for him. That's just kicking a man when he's down.
                              Well, as has already been stated, you reap what you sow. He knew what he was getting himself into when (a) he cheated on his girl, and (b) he made this thread. Perhaps if he didn't want to be "kicked while he was down" he shouldn't have brought his personal problems to the board, especially when the brunt of what happened to him was because of his own mistake. Yeah, it's kinda low to beat on someone at their lowest point, but at the same time, not a lot of people take to kindly to giving someone sympathy when they have betrayed someone that they love.

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                              • Brandon13
                                All Star
                                • Oct 2005
                                • 8915

                                #75
                                Re: what a freaking day....

                                Originally posted by EWRMETS
                                Grey Dog software guy
                                Grey Dog software gal.

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