what a freaking day....

[VanCitySportsGuy]

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After knowing more of the story, I got zero sympathy for you FF.

You're not stupid FF, you knew by cheating on your GF and the mother of your daughter, you were going to mess up the relationships with the two people that you probably loved/love.

You were thinking with the wrong head and as a result, you find yourself in an extremely difficult position now.

Your GF did the right thing by leaving and taking away her daughter from your house. You should consider yourself lucky that the 360 and HDTV wasn't smashed into pieces.

Your daughter did nothing to deserve being caught in the middle now. How is she suppose to respect Daddy after he cheated on her Mother?

As someone that studied law, assuming your GF is stable emotionally and financially, I would be shocked if there was 50-50 custody.

For the sake of all the parties involved, and yes that does include you FF, I hope this situation gets resolved in a peaceful manner that pleases all parties involved. I wish you the best.

[SidVish]

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Hey FF, you reap what you sow. What you sow in life has a direct relationship to what you'll receive in your life. In other words, your actions all have consequences. Good actions result in good consequences, and bad actions result in bad consequences. You're just going to have to deal with the consequences now.

[EWRMETS]

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You guys give no sympathy to my man FF. You talk about him like he killed someone or robbed a bank. People cheat everyday. I wouldn't do it, but there are worse things you can do in the world. Well FF, at least you root for the New York Football Giants!

[BGarrett7]

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Hey FF, you reap what you sow. What you sow in life has a direct relationship to what you'll receive in your life. In other words, your actions all have consequences. Good actions result in good consequences, and bad actions result in bad consequences. You're just going to have to deal with the consequences now.

You could have just said "karma" and saved yourself about two minutes worth of typing.

[Psyblast]

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You guys give no sympathy to my man FF. You talk about him like he killed someone or robbed a bank. People cheat everyday. I wouldn't do it, but there are worse things you can do in the world. Well FF, at least you root for the New York Football Giants!

Whether you were joking with this post or not....do you even believe some of the bull**** you post here?

[BGarrett7]

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You talk about him like he killed someone or robbed a bank. People cheat everyday.

People kill and rob, as well, what makes them any different from cheating?

[SPTO]

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Poor FF, he's getting lynched by his own peers. As I said later my opinion was lowered after finding out more facts but let's not bury the guy so much. He probably feels 10x worse then how you're going on about it.

"walk a mile in a man's shoes before you condemn"

At least he realizes what he's done wrong and hasn't denied his culpability in this.

[dieselboy]

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People kill and rob, as well, what makes them any different from cheating?

I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that killing is far worse than cheating on someone.

[Vince]

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People kill and rob, as well, what makes them any different from cheating?

[dkgojackets]

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I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that killing is far worse than cheating on someone.

I think thats exactly the point BGarrett is making. EWRMETS seemed to be defending cheating by saying it happens everyday, yet killing and robbing happen everyday as well. Therefore thats not a viable excuse.

[BGarrett7]

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I think thats exactly the point BGarrett is making. EWRMETS seemed to be defending cheating by saying it happens everyday, yet killing and robbing happen everyday as well. Therefore thats not a viable excuse.

Exactly. In no way was I even remotely comparing murder, robbery and cheating. It could have been something completely arbitrary like "eating Doritos" or "farting in public" and the point would remain the same.

[jerk]

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you didn't have to cheat on your girl just because you were unhappy dude...no offense man, but i feel thats whats wrong with most relationships these days. People are too worried about themselves and not the other person, ESPECIALLY when you got a little girl you have to think about the situation alot....

Sorry to hear your stuff got ruined..

[RoyalBoyle78]

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First off, I'm not asking for sympathy from anyone here, I was just posting what hade happened to me, thats all. Clover, I never spoke fully about what went on, and that because I really don't want to go in full detail, but I never tucked my tail and ran anywhere, I tried doing this the civil way, and she didn't. She had a place to go and she would not let me keep my daghter, so I never through her out on the street and said fen for yourself, I would never do that, and I will take care of my daughter no matter what, I will alyways be her father and she will always be my daughter...My realationship was bad for sometime now, and she was well aware of this too....It is what it is, and Clover no offense, but your a women and I would expect that type of comment from a women, no didn't and don't know the whole story, so ofcourse you would I'm completey at fault, and thats not the case.


So for anyone who's thinks I'm looking for sympathy, just put that back in your pocket, I'm not looking for that, I was just venting.....This is life and everything isn't perfect and peple make mistakes all the time...

By the way she called me today, telling me that she's not taking me to court and I'm going to picked up my daughter today, she said that she would never keep my daughter from me, and she is made and upset thats why she wouldn't let me see my little girl, but she said that she knows it's wrong to keep her from me...She also asked if I would give this realationship a second chance, now I'm in a bind.

[Beantown]

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Well, at least you get to see your daughter, man. It's good to hear that she's not going to keep her from you.

If you weren't happy the first time you were together, don't get back into it...but if you really think it could work, who knows.

[aukevin]

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By the way she called me today, telling me that she's not taking me to court and I'm going to picked up my daughter today, she said that she would never keep my daughter from me, and she is made and upset thats why she wouldn't let me see my little girl, but she said that she knows it's wrong to keep her from me...She also asked if I would give this realationship a second chance, now I'm in a bind.

Well, that's good to hear man. Sounds like if you guys can keep your tempers cool everything should work out. Good luck man!