ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

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  • forensicd
    MVP
    • Mar 2003
    • 1565

    #16
    Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

    Thats terrible to hear, especially in front of your daughter. Totally classless on her part. Actually, its down right disgusting. This was between you and her, not your daughter.

    I cant even begin to imagine what you are going through. I dont know what I would do if my wife said that to me. Its ok to feel down and out for awhile, and things will turn out for the better in the end, as there is no need to be with a woman that feels this way. The hardest part is your daughter, and how things will go down with her. She is of the utmost importance now.
    "Basketball may have been born in Massachusetts, but it grew up in Indiana." - James Naismith

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    • SPTO
      binging
      • Feb 2003
      • 68046

      #17
      Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

      Originally posted by tommyboy
      Well just to tell you my 11 year old was sitting between me and my wife when the wife gave me the news. My 11 year old was very upset thinking she was going to be an orphan. I calmed her down and told her that she will always have a mom and dad.I did not see it coming wish the wife had waited till later!
      WTF?!

      Wow your wife really needs to learn that there's a time and place for everything and that DEFINATELY was not the time nor the place.

      Personally i'd have kicked her out but seeing there's a child inviolved that's not nearly as feasible.
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      "Baseball is the most important thing that doesn't matter at all" - Robert B. Parker

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      • Graphik
        Pr*s*n*r#70460649
        • Oct 2002
        • 10582

        #18
        Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

        Originally posted by Clay_OS
        Since this is a Sports Gaming board and NCAA launch day... maybe you should trying lowering your wife's difficulty to All-American and adjust her sliders???

        Holy mother of gawd, I never laughed so hard in my life. I could'nt even use internet lingo to describe how hard a fell out of my chair.
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        • Psyblast
          2023 National Champions
          • Jun 2003
          • 42584

          #19
          Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

          Good lord...if I was married and my wife said all that in front of my kid, I'd snap. Seriously, steam would be billowing from my ears.

          Sorry to hear about all this dude...I hope things turn out alright for you.

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          • Scottdau
            Banned
            • Feb 2003
            • 32580

            #20
            Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

            Originally posted by tommyboy
            Last nite my wife of 13 years told me that Im not the guy.She said you know how that special one lights up the room, its not me.She told me that hearing my voice on the telephone does not do anything for her either.She says that she stays at work to avoid coming home early.We were not fighting she came home and I asked her what was on her mind.Im 42 and we have a 11 year old girl.She is very worried about things and thinks she will be an orphan.I tried to find out what this all meant she told me it was 1000 percent her fault.Then after she said that, she proceeded to tell me 100 things I did wrong in 13 years.Im very confused and did not see this coming.I know this is a great sports board, Im hoping for advice.I should say that we have not cheated on each other.Im laying low in NY state.
            Wow that is heavey! That is what I am talking about all this you aren't the one crap! Your wife made a comitment. Try to see if you did these things she said and correct it! I know some times women use this a pitty party, but the fact is you must have done soemthing to make her resent you. You need to be bold and try to save your marriage or some other guy will take her away!! Fight for your wife that would be my advice!

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            • ehh
              Hall Of Fame
              • Mar 2003
              • 28962

              #21
              Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

              Damn, that seriously is my worst fear in life.

              Sorry man.
              "You make your name in the regular season, and your fame in the postseason." - Clyde Frazier

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              • backbreaker
                Banned
                • Jul 2002
                • 3991

                #22
                Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

                Their are 3 sides to a story, his, hers and the truth. I would love to hear your wife side of the story. Until then tough break, pay attention to your woman and she will take care of you.

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                • cbgatorade0202
                  Why Not?
                  • Dec 2004
                  • 4041

                  #23
                  Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

                  Originally posted by backbreaker
                  Their are 3 sides to a story, his, hers and the truth. I would love to hear your wife side of the story. Until then tough break, pay attention to your woman and she will take care of you.

                  Hmmmm...I've noticed you always like to go another way with something just to be Different.

                  Why not give his wife a call buddy and Ask for her story if you wanna go into details with it


                  I wish you luck man with whatz going on with ur family, Hopefully things get fixed
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                  • CaptainZombie
                    Brains
                    • Jul 2003
                    • 37851

                    #24
                    Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

                    I hope that you can get your problems resolved and hopefully you can rekindle your love for each other. Like one of the previous posters said, marriage is something that you have to work with on a consistant basis.

                    After 11 years, that's a long time. I think people these days don't care anymore and they find the easy way out, not saying that this is you or your wife.
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                    • backbreaker
                      Banned
                      • Jul 2002
                      • 3991

                      #25
                      Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

                      Originally posted by cbgatorade0202
                      Hmmmm...I've noticed you always like to go another way with something just to be Different.

                      Why not give his wife a call buddy and Ask for her story if you wanna go into details with it


                      I wish you luck man with whatz going on with ur family, Hopefully things get fixed
                      Hmmmm...I've noticed you always like to go another way with something just to be Different.

                      This is my first time ever responding to anything like this. Its the same thing I tell my friends, your side of the story tells me nothing, so I take it with a grain of salt until I hear the other side.

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                      • aiahopeful
                        Unofficial OS Prodigy
                        • May 2005
                        • 84

                        #26
                        Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

                        Quite frankly if my wife of 13 years said something like that to me out of the blue, I wouldn't be so sure I would want to rekindle the relationship. My parents got divorced when I was about the same age as your daughter but they both handled it much differently than your wife did. My only advice is to sit down and think about what relationship if any you want to continue to have with your wife, and how you can give your daughter the best life she can have. Good Luck

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                        • CaptainZombie
                          Brains
                          • Jul 2003
                          • 37851

                          #27
                          Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

                          Sad thing here is that the kids are the ones that get screwed up one way or another. That is what pains me.
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                          • pk500
                            All Star
                            • Jul 2002
                            • 8062

                            #28
                            Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

                            Originally posted by tommyboy
                            Well just to tell you my 11 year old was sitting between me and my wife when the wife gave me the news. My 11 year old was very upset thinking she was going to be an orphan. I calmed her down and told her that she will always have a mom and dad.I did not see it coming wish the wife had waited till later!
                            If that's the case, then your wife is a classless twat who puts herself above her child. I'd fight like hell to get custody, man.

                            Take care,
                            PK
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                            • Scottdau
                              Banned
                              • Feb 2003
                              • 32580

                              #29
                              Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

                              Originally posted by backbreaker
                              Hmmmm...I've noticed you always like to go another way with something just to be Different.

                              This is my first time ever responding to anything like this. Its the same thing I tell my friends, your side of the story tells me nothing, so I take it with a grain of salt until I hear the other side.
                              You were right with that comment! There is always three sides. That is why I say you need to examine your part and owe up to it and then you can both work on it! That is what I had to do with my wife and she did too! She would always blame me. That pissed me off. Finally she sees her part in some of the problems we had! That is what you have to do with your wife. And listen to her and not get pissed with what she has to say! I pretty sure this is something that is really bothering her to just blurt it out in front of her kids! Fight for your marriage trust me it will be the best thing you did! Or you can take the easy way out and be a *****! Be a man and save your marriage! That goes for any one! Now don't get me wrong if you are cheating on her all time or vice versa then you need to think about you being in this relationship, but really try, good luck bro!

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                              • Scottdau
                                Banned
                                • Feb 2003
                                • 32580

                                #30
                                Re: ANOTHER BAD DAY!!!

                                Originally posted by pk500
                                If that's the case, then your wife is a classless twat who puts herself above her child. I'd fight like hell to get custody, man.

                                Take care,
                                PK
                                I disagree PK! When someone get to that boiling point no one is safe! It is just how we humans are! Sure they are your kids, but people say dumb things in front of their kids all the time! I am pretty sure she reach her boiling point!

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