What have I gotten myself into?!?

[Money99]

Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

Actually she wants me to meet her somewhere for an afterparty. Not sure if I wanna go but for the reason you stated above, I might be obliged to.

So what lie did you and your girlfriend have to use to explain why you're not going to the prom with her?

Homer - "How do we get out of this hole?"
Cheif Wiggum - "We'll dig our way out!"

[jake44np]

Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

Take my advice and do not go to any after prom parties. When my cousin was 21 he took a girl to the prom and then to an afterprom party. To make a long story short the cops showed up found beer and took the 3 people at the party that where over 21 to jail! I really dont think it is right but when you are over 21 you can not be around anyone under 21 that is drinking.
Another reason not to go is he almost got into like 3 fights at the after prom party. He said like 10 different guys where talking and making fun of him behind his back because he was a 21 year old loser who was at a HS prom. Kind of like the scene from Varsity Blues (I think it was Varsity Blues).

Just a quick question are there not any nice 25-30 year old women where you live? I am not making fun of you at all, but with the whole lying to the family thing she is embarressed of you age dude! I went through this whole thing when I was 24 and it ended badly. I still have to watch myself 10 years later. Her dad and brothers still to this day try to pick a fight with me anytime they see me out. Yes when I was 24 I dated a very hot very rich 17/18 year old. We told her parents the whole 2 years that we dated that I was 18. We ended up breaking up when her brother found out my real age. Her dad would not let her out of the house for like 6 months (I am not kidding). She has 7 brothers, 4 of them played div. 1 football, anyway like I said they still hate me to this day and still give me a hard time. I did not go out to any local bars by myself for like 3 years because they where out looking my me.

[MC Fatigue]

Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

I haven't read all of this - but the most ****ed up thing you did was lie to her parents already... That was a BAD idea.

[GenoG]

Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

Post some pictures and then we can decide if the risk is worth it

[Graphik]

Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

So what lie did you and your girlfriend have to use to explain why you're not going to the prom with her?

Homer - "How do we get out of this hole?"
Cheif Wiggum - "We'll dig our way out!"

No lies. She filled me in on the checking of IDs right around the time i was looking for a suit. Another funny thing was I was reading the paper one day and I saw that a Denver HS were going to use breathalizers before and after the prom and i was joking with her about it. A week later, her school is doing the same thing. LOL.

I really did want to go to her prom. I met and kicked it with a few of her classmates, they're a cool bunch.

[Graphik]

Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

[QUOTE=jake44np;3130718]Take my advice and do not go to any after prom parties. When my cousin was 21 he took a girl to the prom and then to an afterprom party. To make a long story short the cops showed up found beer and took the 3 people at the party that where over 21 to jail! I really dont think it is right but when you are over 21 you can not be around anyone under 21 that is drinking.
Another reason not to go is he almost got into like 3 fights at the after prom party. He said like 10 different guys where talking and making fun of him behind his back because he was a 21 year old loser who was at a HS prom. Kind of like the scene from Varsity Blues (I think it was Varsity Blues).

I'm fully aware of what could happen but not to concerned about it. I'm not driving so that would make my penalty lesser if we do happen to get pulled over. Besides, I've rode around with people who've had enough stuff to get me locked up for some years. Drugs, guns, you name it. Its always a chance you take when you ride dirty anyway. I've been locked up once before briefly, it sucks but depending on your charge, you dont have much to worry about. Besides your bond.

Just a quick question are there not any nice 25-30 year old women where you live? I am not making fun of you at all, but with the whole lying to the family thing she is embarressed of you age dude! I went through this whole thing when I was 24 and it ended badly. I still have to watch myself 10 years later. Her dad and brothers still to this day try to pick a fight with me anytime they see me out. Yes when I was 24 I dated a very hot very rich 17/18 year old. We told her parents the whole 2 years that we dated that I was 18. We ended up breaking up when her brother found out my real age. Her dad would not let her out of the house for like 6 months (I am not kidding). She has 7 brothers, 4 of them played div. 1 football, anyway like I said they still hate me to this day and still give me a hard time. I did not go out to any local bars by myself for like 3 years because they where out looking my me.

I stay in the hood right now. Nothing but hood rats and scallywags over there. My girl is kinda like a diamond in the rough. I mean overall personality combined with looks. I work downtown and I basically see models everywhere I go. My current financial status wouldn't be able to hold on to one of those fine chicks. Its definitely not my esteem, I got a lil game. You cant poor pimp your way into no fine cooch where I'm at. These chicks are so stuck up in the Chi.

And believe me, my scenario is rampant where I'm from. I know of or have heard plenty of stories of older guys getting with young chicks. Its almost normal where I'm at. My situation is a lil diffrent because we actually are somewhat of a couple instead of me using her or her using me. She knows she can go out and find some older 20-something to use as a sugar daddy. I can easily rod young chicks if that was my aim but it really aint. But there are plenty of males and females doing just that.

[Graphik]

Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

I haven't read all of this - but the most ****ed up thing you did was lie to her parents already... That was a BAD idea.

Not really worried about the moms or her side of the family. Her moms is already in the wrong for letting some stud spend the night with her daughter all the time wether I was 19 or 32. It dont matter. She aint stupid, she knows what goes on when she's asleep. I'd be damned if my daughter ever gets it that easy. She seems cool with the whole relationship. My age may come as a shock but she's a female as well. She was a cheerleader, popular and all that mess. She knows what its like to date older dudes. Trust me. Her pops on the other hand.....not so sure of him. Plus he might arrest me off G.P. He frightens me.

[Graphik]

Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

Post some pictures and then we can decide if the risk is worth it

Seriously I would but not so sure she'd like the idea of me posting her pic to a group of strangers while discussing our relationship behind her back. If I were in her shoes, I'd get mad if I saw her do it. I visit OS every once in while while at her crib. I'd hate for her to run into this thread although I wouldn't mind because I haven't said a damn thing bad about her this whole time. But you know how these relationships go, a third party can always be a negative influence to a relationship. You guys are definitely a third party. She probably wouldn't understand that I've known alot of yall way before I knew her.

Edit: matter of fact, I tell you what. After her prom I'll post some pics. As long as I've known her she's really anal about her pics. At prom, she'll be dolled up so I know she wouldn't mind then.

[BigTigLSU]

Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

[QUOTE=Graphik;3134919]

Take my advice and do not go to any after prom parties. When my cousin was 21 he took a girl to the prom and then to an afterprom party. To make a long story short the cops showed up found beer and took the 3 people at the party that where over 21 to jail! I really dont think it is right but when you are over 21 you can not be around anyone under 21 that is drinking.
Another reason not to go is he almost got into like 3 fights at the after prom party. He said like 10 different guys where talking and making fun of him behind his back because he was a 21 year old loser who was at a HS prom. Kind of like the scene from Varsity Blues (I think it was Varsity Blues).

I'm fully aware of what could happen but not to concerned about it. I'm not driving so that would make my penalty lesser if we do happen to get pulled over. Besides, I've rode around with people who've had enough stuff to get me locked up for some years. Drugs, guns, you name it. Its always a chance you take when you ride dirty anyway. I've been locked up once before briefly, it sucks but depending on your charge, you dont have much to worry about. Besides your bond.

Just a quick question are there not any nice 25-30 year old women where you live? I am not making fun of you at all, but with the whole lying to the family thing she is embarressed of you age dude! I went through this whole thing when I was 24 and it ended badly. I still have to watch myself 10 years later. Her dad and brothers still to this day try to pick a fight with me anytime they see me out. Yes when I was 24 I dated a very hot very rich 17/18 year old. We told her parents the whole 2 years that we dated that I was 18. We ended up breaking up when her brother found out my real age. Her dad would not let her out of the house for like 6 months (I am not kidding). She has 7 brothers, 4 of them played div. 1 football, anyway like I said they still hate me to this day and still give me a hard time. I did not go out to any local bars by myself for like 3 years because they where out looking my me.

I stay in the hood right now. Nothing but hood rats and scallywags over there. My girl is kinda like a diamond in the rough. I mean overall personality combined with looks. I work downtown and I basically see models everywhere I go. My current financial status wouldn't be able to hold on to one of those fine chicks. Its definitely not my esteem, I got a lil game. You cant poor pimp your way into no fine cooch where I'm at. These chicks are so stuck up in the Chi.

And believe me, my scenario is rampant where I'm from. I know of or have heard plenty of stories of older guys getting with young chicks. Its almost normal where I'm at. My situation is a lil diffrent because we actually are somewhat of a couple instead of me using her or her using me. She knows she can go out and find some older 20-something to use as a sugar daddy. I can easily rod young chicks if that was my aim but it really aint. But there are plenty of males and females doing just that.

Graphik I hear you about dealing with supposed top notch females.... its not really a confidence thing ....its like lame guys have no ability to talk to these women in a normal conversation so they blow these female's heads up and offer all these things just to get next to them so when a regular guy wants to just say hello some of them are so stuck up you cant even do that. Guys who spend money aka "a trick" are like a plague on the earth for normal guys just with any decent amount of game or small ability to converse with the oppisite sex without having to resort to "pick up lines" or just spending cash. It turns a female who at might be at best a 6 or 7 and gives them the delusion that they are 9s and 10s

[the_future420]

Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

Post some pictures and then we can decide if the risk is worth it

Seriously man. She's gotta have facebook, myspace or somthing. Hook it up Graphik!


On a completely related note, I just started talking to a 17 yr old chick that I met off the PL(Graphik and other chicago peeps may know what I'm talking about:wink: ) and myspace. She is cool to talk to, but I don't see myself setting up anything too serious with her anytime soon.

[Graphik]

Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

[QUOTE=BigTigLSU;3134947]

Graphik I hear you about dealing with supposed top notch females.... its not really a confidence thing ....its like lame guys have no ability to talk to these women in a normal conversation so they blow these female's heads up and offer all these things just to get next to them so when a regular guy wants to just say hello some of them are so stuck up you cant even do that. Guys who spend money aka "a trick" are like a plague on the earth for normal guys just with any decent amount of game or small ability to converse with the oppisite sex without having to resort to "pick up lines" or just spending cash. It turns a female who at might be at best a 6 or 7 and gives them the delusion that they are 9s and 10s

This was simply the best post ever right there. Really ish you ever wrote.

[the_future420]

Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

[QUOTE=BigTigLSU;3134947]

Graphik I hear you about dealing with supposed top notch females.... its not really a confidence thing ....its like lame guys have no ability to talk to these women in a normal conversation so they blow these female's heads up and offer all these things just to get next to them so when a regular guy wants to just say hello some of them are so stuck up you cant even do that. Guys who spend money aka "a trick" are like a plague on the earth for normal guys just with any decent amount of game or small ability to converse with the oppisite sex without having to resort to "pick up lines" or just spending cash. It turns a female who at might be at best a 6 or 7 and gives them the delusion that they are 9s and 10s

Chuuuuuuuch!!!!




And another thing Graphik, I feel you on what you are saying about the chicks in the Chi. You can basically forget about hollering at some of the bougie chicks unless you look like you got lots of paper. I just turned 22, and my financial status is pretty good for my age/school accomplished, but too many of these chicks have their head blown up from cats just throwing money at them and talking about all the ish that they will buy them. I work downtown too man, I've seen it first hand.

I still mess with some of the younger chicks (17-22), just because I look young and thats what I tend to attract combined with the fact that I'm not ballin, yet. You can still pull some nice ones at clubs if you putting out a good vibe, but if you see that same chick on the street its usually a different story.

[bkrich83]

Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

This is the best thread I have ever read. No joke.

[MagicBucsWsoxFan]

Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

hahaha this is awesome. Ive just started going out with a 17 year old girl too (im 20, turning 21 in a month) He parents flipped out apparently that she even went out with a guy alone without their approval first. They are very strict and very religous. Anywho, this weekend shes going up to a friends house in the city and her friend is going to a party and have given us permission to hang out by ourselfs at her apartment. Should be a nice little night tomorrow.

[BoA]

Re: What have I gotten myself into?!?

hahaha this is awesome. Ive just started going out with a 17 year old girl too (im 20, turning 21 in a month) He parents flipped out apparently that she even went out with a guy alone without their approval first. They are very strict and very religous. Anywho, this weekend shes going up to a friends house in the city and her friend is going to a party and have given us permission to hang out by ourselfs at her apartment. Should be a nice little night tomorrow.

It was only a matter of time before you injected yourself into a thread like this.

Nonetheless, best of luck with this chick.