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  • MagicBucsWsoxFan
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    • Mar 2003
    • 4294

    #1

    Small date ideas....

    I say small date as something simple, maybe short, but also fun. Its not a full date because we just just met, and as a kicker....she has a boyfriend. I am however kind of wanting to win her over. I feel bad doing so, but the whole situation is kind of foggy. We just met and she accepted my proposal to hang out sometime. She seems interested in me from what I can tell, but on the flip side also seems emotionally attached to her current bf. By the sounds of it though its mostly because of comfort since they have dated for 2+ years. Not based on the fact that shes completly happy in the relationship. The hard part is she mentioned she wouldnt break up with him, but with women mind games and mind changing always have to be kept in mind.
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  • Skerik
    Living in this tube
    • Mar 2004
    • 5215

    #2
    Re: Small date ideas....

    Even for you, this is pretty great.

    Ask to tag along on her next date with her boyfriend. Then you don't have to worry about planning anything.
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    • Brandon13
      All Star
      • Oct 2005
      • 8915

      #3
      Re: Small date ideas....

      So is this thread for date ideas or do you want reassurance on trying to steal the guy's girlfriend away?

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      • Herbsinator
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        • Sep 2003
        • 4573

        #4
        Re: Small date ideas....

        This is going to end in disaster.

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        • Stu
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          • Jun 2004
          • 7924

          #5
          Re: Small date ideas....

          Haven't we been down this road before?
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          • GP Mercy
            Pro
            • Jun 2006
            • 839

            #6
            Re: Small date ideas....

            Originally posted by Skerik
            Even for you, this is pretty great.

            Ask to tag along on her next date with her boyfriend. Then you don't have to worry about planning anything.


            "Hey man, um.. I'm just some random person that wants to kick it with you any time you go out. Just give me a call and make sure your girl comes."

            Then comes the punch in the face...

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            • MassNole
              Banned
              • Mar 2006
              • 18848

              #7
              Re: Small date ideas....

              Mini-golf is always good for a good quasi-date type thing. Going to dinner at a place like Applebee's or Chile's works well too.

              That being said, I don't see how this can possibly end well, but I wish you the best of luck.

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              • MagicBucsWsoxFan
                MVP
                • Mar 2003
                • 4294

                #8
                Re: Small date ideas....

                Originally posted by Brandon13
                So is this thread for date ideas or do you want reassurance on trying to steal the guy's girlfriend away?
                Well it was just about small dates, but you guys know me and I tend to love to give backstories, so im sure this will now boarder a lockage, but here it goes.

                I have to start off by mentioning that she approached me to start a conversation this past saturday. I explained to my friend in details of what happened and he said she was interested based on his judgement of the situation and that I should back and ask to take her out. Which is what I did yesterday and she accepted and gave me her number. Im thinking on calling tomorrow.

                The hard part is, her boyfriend got brought up (on saturday when we first met) in a negitive way. I was at the mall and she works at a store in the mall and I told her i was just killing time before going to see blades of glory. She mentioned her boyfriend was supose to take her to see it, but never did and that hes an "ahole" thats all he got mentioned in the first altercation. Then yesterday when I went back we talked for maybe 15 or 20 minutes, and she brought up her bf again negitivly talking about how jealous he is, and she seemed unhappy, but would reassure herself as well as me that she wasnt going to break up with him and that eventhough they fight way too much, they always work things out.

                So yea, kind of in a crossroad.
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                • MagicBucsWsoxFan
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                  • Mar 2003
                  • 4294

                  #9
                  Re: Small date ideas....

                  Originally posted by MassNole
                  Mini-golf is always good for a good quasi-date type thing. Going to dinner at a place like Applebee's or Chile's works well too.

                  That being said, I don't see how this can possibly end well, but I wish you the best of luck.
                  Mini-golf should be good this time of year, but for some reason it looks like a blizzard outside. Im considering bowling, but im not a big fan of it.
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                  • MassNole
                    Banned
                    • Mar 2006
                    • 18848

                    #10
                    Re: Small date ideas....

                    Originally posted by MagicBucsWsoxFan
                    Well it was just about small dates, but you guys know me and I tend to love to give backstories, so im sure this will now boarder a lockage, but here it goes.

                    I have to start off by mentioning that she approached me to start a conversation this past saturday. I explained to my friend in details of what happened and he said she was interested based on his judgement of the situation and that I should back and ask to take her out. Which is what I did yesterday and she accepted and gave me her number. Im thinking on calling tomorrow.

                    The hard part is, her boyfriend got brought up (on saturday when we first met) in a negitive way. I was at the mall and she works at a store in the mall and I told her i was just killing time before going to see blades of glory. She mentioned her boyfriend was supose to take her to see it, but never did and that hes an "ahole" thats all he got mentioned in the first altercation. Then yesterday when I went back we talked for maybe 15 or 20 minutes, and she brought up her bf again negitivly talking about how jealous he is, and she seemed unhappy, but would reassure herself as well as me that she wasnt going to break up with him and that eventhough they fight way too much, they always work things out.

                    So yea, kind of in a crossroad.
                    From what you just posted it really looks like she is using you to get back at him for something. But you're young, so have some fun.

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                    • Rodster
                      Banned
                      • Mar 2003
                      • 5709

                      #11
                      Re: Small date ideas....

                      Originally posted by MagicBucsWsoxFan
                      Well it was just about small dates, but you guys know me and I tend to love to give backstories, so im sure this will now boarder a lockage, but here it goes.

                      I have to start off by mentioning that she approached me to start a conversation this past saturday. I explained to my friend in details of what happened and he said she was interested based on his judgement of the situation and that I should back and ask to take her out. Which is what I did yesterday and she accepted and gave me her number. Im thinking on calling tomorrow.

                      The hard part is, her boyfriend got brought up (on saturday when we first met) in a negitive way. I was at the mall and she works at a store in the mall and I told her i was just killing time before going to see blades of glory. She mentioned her boyfriend was supose to take her to see it, but never did and that hes an "ahole" thats all he got mentioned in the first altercation. Then yesterday when I went back we talked for maybe 15 or 20 minutes, and she brought up her bf again negitivly talking about how jealous he is, and she seemed unhappy, but would reassure herself as well as me that she wasnt going to break up with him and that eventhough they fight way too much, they always work things out.

                      So yea, kind of in a crossroad.
                      If she started it then it can't be too serious with her boyfriend. I say go for it.

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                      • MagicBucsWsoxFan
                        MVP
                        • Mar 2003
                        • 4294

                        #12
                        Re: Small date ideas....

                        Originally posted by MassNole
                        From what you just posted it really looks like she is using you to get back at him for something. But you're young, so have some fun.
                        Well thats what I figure. Shes only 18, im 20. What is there to really lose? Im not going to put any stock into a relationship considering the circumstances, but at the same time, I am attracted to her and have enjoy the small time we have spent talking to her. I could also see myself having fun with her if we do hang out. Im not the type to just look for a piece of *** and then bolt either, although I definatly wouldnt turn it down.
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                        • Husker_OS
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                          • Jun 2003
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                          #13
                          Re: Small date ideas....

                          I guess this is when going to a big college helps. There's always a party somewhere every night.

                          I say find a party to go to. You'll be surrounded by people and the atmosphere is very laid back. Who knows, you might even meet a girl at the party who's single...
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                          • MassNole
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                            • Mar 2006
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                            #14
                            Re: Small date ideas....

                            Originally posted by MagicBucsWsoxFan
                            Well thats what I figure. Shes only 18, im 20. What is there to really lose? Im not going to put any stock into a relationship considering the circumstances, but at the same time, I am attracted to her and have enjoy the small time we have spent talking to her. I could also see myself having fun with her if we do hang out. Im not the type to just look for a piece of *** and then bolt either, although I definatly wouldnt turn it down.
                            Well that certainly is the best attitude you can approach this with. I'd advise being hesitant if she really insists on going a certain place, because I'd be willing to bet there is a good chance her boyfriend will be there.

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                            • MagicBucsWsoxFan
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                              • Mar 2003
                              • 4294

                              #15
                              Re: Small date ideas....

                              Originally posted by Husker_OS
                              I guess this is when going to a big college helps. There's always a party somewhere every night.

                              I say find a party to go to. You'll be surrounded by people and the atmosphere is very laid back. Who knows, you might even meet a girl at the party who's single...
                              ive been into the house party scene for a few months now. Got into it after my latest break up. Ive meet some people, but there really hasnt been too many prospects as far as hooking up. Maybe once I turn 21 things will pick up, but in the mean time, its really going to be right place, right time.
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