Small date ideas....

[Lintyfresh85]

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Co-sign on all accounts. There is no more morality.

No doubt...I'm sure after reading my note on Facebook you know I think exactly like you do Matrix. Regardless, I'm sure this thread will provide some fun moments for the OS crew.

[Graphik]

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My rule of thumb, if this person has someone else already and you do win the over, what's going to make you think they won't do the same to you? It's pointless to try to "talk" to someone who already has a boyfriend. I wouldn't trust her.

Bingo.

I wouldn't do it.

[Graphik]

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I know its a bad way to view things, but dont most attractive women already have boyfriends or dudes on the side anyway? From my experiences it seems that way, and hell anyone who remembers my ex, knows she left me for someone else.

No they all dont. There are tons of single good looking women out there to find. Just because you may have had a streak of bad luck doesn't mean every good looking chick is taken. Keep searching.

[MagicBucsWsoxFan]

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wtf... how in the hell can you even be thinking about going with this chick magic? She has a guy...

Honestly, do people even care about commitment anymore? Oh she's got a boyfriend... no problem, I'll just get her to cheat on him with me!

I hate society.

Dude if you do go through with this, only bad things will come from it. So I say go for it... I can't wait till you post what happens in a few weeks!

Well lets not label me the evil villian yet. Sure I asked her out, and she accepted, but it was her approach first. Im not saying its right by any means, but its not like im going around hitting on women with boyfriends. She might just be looking for a friend. I dont know her boyfriend, or their situation other than the few negitive tidbits shes told me about him. I am NOT the type of guy to make any moves on someone in a relationship, so im just going to play it cool and let her figure out what she needs to figure out. So far I have not hung out with her, havent even called her yet. So im still uncertain of the situation exactly. As I mentioned it caught me off guard. I was just killing time with my cousin from out of town before going to see a movie over the weekend and out of nowhere I start getting hit on by an attractive girl, who is have rough times in a long relationship, so im a little confused. Im trying to read signs ive gotten so far, but im not the greatest at that. If anything im already being put into the friendszone.

Now with this all in mind...yes she is very attractive, and if she was single and we were going out id probably be doing backflips, so part of me is wishing there was a way to win her over, but thats just the normal and for now I have little to no expectations.

[Graphik]

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Most hilarious picture I've seen in a while. I'd definitely love to know what happened to that dog......and his balls....from a humane view of course.



Don't think that way. The few ruin it for the many. There are a lot of people out there that stay clear even when they are in a bad situation. I have a suggestion that hasn't been thrown around. You might have been the first person that she could turn to in that emotional time because she needed someone to talk to. The way you reacted without making it a sexual thing might have turned her on by you. She may just need a male friend that she could confide in. As you get older, you get more of those. Might not want them, but they sure do help to sharpen your mental capacity when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex. You could be like her guardian angel....keeping her away from the guys that might cause her to fall in her relationship. Just be her friend and keep doing what you do. Male-female relationships don't always have to be about everything below the neck.......

So in other words, you want him to be a cuddle-bitch.


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[Heelfan71]

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and for the record, this isn't a "DATE". You might think it is, but it isn't.

[Husker_OS]

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Man the best piece of advice you can take and follow is to quit looking for a girlfriend. If you are looking for one, girls know it. And they'll either a)take advantage of you or b) avoid you because they don't want one.

Just chill for awhile. You'd be amazed at what can happen if you don't seek a girl. Most the girls I've dated I didn't seek out until it was blatantly obvious they were interested.

[Graphik]

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Well lets not label me the evil villian yet. Sure I asked her out, and she accepted, but it was her approach first. Im not saying its right by any means, but its not like im going around hitting on women with boyfriends. She might just be looking for a friend. I dont know her boyfriend, or their situation other than the few negitive tidbits shes told me about him. I am NOT the type of guy to make any moves on someone in a relationship, so im just going to play it cool and let her figure out what she needs to figure out. So far I have not hung out with her, havent even called her yet. So im still uncertain of the situation exactly. As I mentioned it caught me off guard. I was just killing time with my cousin from out of town before going to see a movie over the weekend and out of nowhere I start getting hit on by an attractive girl, who is have rough times in a long relationship, so im a little confused. Im trying to read signs ive gotten so far, but im not the greatest at that. If anything im already being put into the friendszone.

Now with this all in mind...yes she is very attractive, and if she was single and we were going out id probably be doing backflips, so part of me is wishing there was a way to win her over, but thats just the normal and for now I have little to no expectations.

Look man, I'll tell you straight up right now. If you've barely spoken with this girl and she's already dropped her baggage at your door. (Baggage, meaning her boyfriend beef) All she is doing is getting back at her man by being interested in someone else. She told you two negative things about her man which should of been a red flag from the jump. That means she wants someone to fill the void for her actual boyfriends shortcomings. Which in turn, she's suggesting to you what type of man she would currently like in her life. And like a idiot, you took the bait and are willing to fill that void.

Second of all, I noticed in your back story, she refrenced her guy to being a "a-hole". Most women do indeed love *******s. *******s are confident, sometimes stubborn and in some cases, arrogant and self centered. A large majority of women(especially in your age group) love *******s because they love the challenge in trying to tame this type of guy. I'm not saying become a prick to women, learn to balance the role of being a nice guy and being a tad bit of an ******* when it comes to courting the opposite sex.


Last but not least, she already mentioned that she wont break up with the guy so something should of clicked in your head that she's using you for something. If you play your cards right, it could lead to something sexual. If not, you will simply end up as a good friend...aka, cuddle-bitch. Dont be a cuddle bitch dawg, please. You're approacing the situation like you normally would by playing the nice role. I wouldn't really suggest this because it aint my style tryna bang other guys chicks but in your case, it could be the confidence booster you need. I say try to get the panties for the simple fact that she's throwing them your way. Although, IMO, she's just looking for a cuddle-bitch. If I were you, I'd pursue something sexual and if she doesn't bite, throw her back in the river. Dont spend much time with this one because she's already involved in a relationship.

[MagicBucsWsoxFan]

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Look man, I'll tell you straight up right now. If you've barely spoken with this girl and she's already dropped her baggage at your door. (Baggage, meaning her boyfriend beef) All she is doing is getting back at her man by being interested in someone else. She told you two negative things about her man which should of been a red flag from the jump. That means she wants someone to fill the void for her actual boyfriends shortcomings. Which in turn, she's suggesting to you what type of man she would currently like in her life. And like a idiot, you took the bait and are willing to fill that void.

Second of all, I noticed in your back story, she refrenced her guy to being a "a-hole". Most women do indeed love *******s. *******s are confident, sometimes stubborn and in some cases, arrogant and self centered. A large majority of women(especially in your age group) love *******s because they love the challenge in trying to tame this type of guy. I'm not saying become a prick to women, learn to balance the role of being a nice guy and being a tad bit of an ******* when it comes to courting the opposite sex.


Last but not least, she already mentioned that she wont break up with the guy so something should of clicked in your head that she's using you for something. If you play your cards right, it could lead to something sexual. If not, you will simply end up as a good friend...aka, cuddle-bitch. Dont be a cuddle bitch dawg, please. You're approacing the situation like you normally would by playing the nice role. I wouldn't really suggest this because it aint my style tryna bang other guys chicks but in your case, it could be the confidence booster you need. I say try to get the panties for the simple fact that she's throwing them your way. Although, IMO, she's just looking for a cuddle-bitch. If I were you, I'd pursue something sexual and if she doesn't bite, throw her back in the river. Dont spend much time with this one because she's already involved in a relationship.

Pretty much confirmed what ive been thinking inside my head, but wasnt ready to admit. Im definatly not going to be the nice guy and give her the strings thats for sure. If anything ill play hard to get and if she decides to try harder, great, and if she doesnt want to waste the time then its better off for me in the long run anyway.

[MagicBucsWsoxFan]

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I cant help but think of this song, haha.

"Let me know that I've done wrong
When I've known this all along
I go around a time or two
Just to waste my time with you

Tell me all that you've thrown away
Find out games you don't wanna play
You are the only one that needs to know

I'll keep you my dirty little secret
(Dirty little secret)
Don't tell anyone or you'll be just another regret
(Just another regret, hope that you can keep it)
My dirty little secret"

[cbgatorade0202]

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Wow, Like Superstar said what is wrong with people now a days?>

Hopefully in a few weeks you are tellin us how you got ur *** kicked for trying to get with a girl that has a boyfriend, Sorry if thats harsh.

[MagicBucsWsoxFan]

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I love how I get hit on, and all of a sudden im getting bashed for moving in on someones girlfriend. Plus NOTHING has even happened yet. This could all turn into nothing.

[Graphik]

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Pretty much confirmed what ive been thinking inside my head, but wasnt ready to admit. Im definatly not going to be the nice guy and give her the strings thats for sure. If anything ill play hard to get and if she decides to try harder, great, and if she doesnt want to waste the time then its better off for me in the long run anyway.

Plus as dookie said, if she would have cheated on her boyfriend with you, whos to say she wont do the same thing with you if you two hooked up. If she did it once, she'll probably do it again.

[MassNole]

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Plus as dookie said, if she would have cheated on her boyfriend with you, whos to say she wont do the same thing with you if you two hooked up. If she did it once, she'll probably do it again.

From what he has posted, he seems to get that.

[Graphik]

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I love how I get hit on, and all of a sudden im getting bashed for moving in on someones girlfriend. Plus NOTHING has even happened yet. This could all turn into nothing.

Cause you are or did actually contemplate taking that guys girl. You mentioned it in your first few post. It really is morally wrong and I honestly cant stand guys who do. If a female says she has a boyfriend, a guy should just avoid that like the plague but there are many numnuts who take advantage of the situation and are successful at getting the girl to cheat because she may be emotionally vulnerable at the time.