Small date ideas....

[MagicBucsWsoxFan]

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Magic,

How old are both you and your love interest?

im 20, shes 18, and its not a love interest.

I will say though, Im just not quite sure exactly where it went wrong. We went bowling, ate at chilies, and then just talked in the car for a good hour before kissing a little bit. I thought things went about as well as they could have considering the situation. We got along great, laughed a lot, and both seemed to have more than enough to say in the sense that there wasnt really any awkward silences. I even got a text message after the date saying how much fun she had, and then bam, things change. I get a text saturday morning saying how much work sucks for her and I replied asking howcome, and I get nothing back. So I left it alone all saturday and sunday and still heard nothing. So yesterday morning I text messaged her saying hey, and we talked back and fourth for a few minutes, and even though its hard to tell by text messages, I felt a negitive type of vibe. Ive decided not to let it affect me though. Im just going to go along with my life as it was before I met her, and let her do the contacting if she wants. I might even the play the ignore game for a little bit if she tries to get in touch with me. Im assuming shes either back, or is trying to get back with her original boyfriend. Either way no matter what happens, it was a nice little experience that I can learn from.

[MassNole]

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im 20, shes 18, and its not a love interest.

I will say though, Im just not quite sure exactly where it went wrong. We went bowling, ate at chilies, and then just talked in the car for a good hour before kissing a little bit. I thought things went about as well as they could have considering the situation. We got along great, laughed a lot, and both seemed to have more than enough to say in the sense that there wasnt really any awkward silences. I even got a text message after the date saying how much fun she had, and then bam, things change. I get a text saturday morning saying how much work sucks for her and I replied asking howcome, and I get nothing back. So I left it alone all saturday and sunday and still heard nothing. So yesterday morning I text messaged her saying hey, and we talked back and fourth for a few minutes, and even though its hard to tell by text messages, I felt a negitive type of vibe. Ive decided not to let it affect me though. Im just going to go along with my life as it was before I met her, and let her do the contacting if she wants. I might even the play the ignore game for a little bit if she tries to get in touch with me. Im assuming shes either back, or is trying to get back with her original boyfriend. Either way no matter what happens, it was a nice little experience that I can learn from.

Good to see this ended in a pretty good way for you.

[MagicBucsWsoxFan]

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Good to see this ended in a pretty good way for you.

Yea definatly had a great time. I have a feeling I might not have heard the last from her, but if I have, im not going to lose any sleep over it. Id probably hang out again because of how much fun I had, but it definatly was a lose/lose situation as far as any type of relationship or future goes.

[Money99]

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im 20, shes 18, and its not a love interest.

I will say though, Im just not quite sure exactly where it went wrong. We went bowling, ate at chilies, and then just talked in the car for a good hour before kissing a little bit. I thought things went about as well as they could have considering the situation. We got along great, laughed a lot, and both seemed to have more than enough to say in the sense that there wasnt really any awkward silences. I even got a text message after the date saying how much fun she had, and then bam, things change. I get a text saturday morning saying how much work sucks for her and I replied asking howcome, and I get nothing back. So I left it alone all saturday and sunday and still heard nothing. So yesterday morning I text messaged her saying hey, and we talked back and fourth for a few minutes, and even though its hard to tell by text messages, I felt a negitive type of vibe. Ive decided not to let it affect me though. Im just going to go along with my life as it was before I met her, and let her do the contacting if she wants. I might even the play the ignore game for a little bit if she tries to get in touch with me. Im assuming shes either back, or is trying to get back with her original boyfriend. Either way no matter what happens, it was a nice little experience that I can learn from.

It's so obvious dude. She found out that she could have you and now she's not interested anymore. That's what chicks, under 25 are all about!

You should have gave her a Donkey Punch, kicked her *** out of the car and then laughed as you burned rubber and splashed mud in her face. That's what real men do.

[MagicBucsWsoxFan]

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It's so obvious dude. She found out that she could have you and now she's not interested anymore. That's what chicks, under 25 are all about!

You should have gave her a Donkey Punch, kicked her *** out of the car and then laughed as you burned rubber and splashed mud in her face. That's what real men do.

I agree, but thats why im gonna play the ignore game if she decides to try to contact me after a few days.

[Husker_OS]

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whatever happened to meeting a single girl and going on dates with her and then potentially beginning a relationship with her? Magic, you definitely need to go to a party this weekend and become "social". Meet a girl who is single and get her number. call her after a few days and set something up. If she turns into a sketchball after the first date, move on to the next piece.

[MagicBucsWsoxFan]

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whatever happened to meeting a single girl and going on dates with her and then potentially beginning a relationship with her? Magic, you definitely need to go to a party this weekend and become "social". Meet a girl who is single and get her number. call her after a few days and set something up. If she turns into a sketchball after the first date, move on to the next piece.

Its harder than advertized man. I go to house parties ALL the time since im not 21 yet. I was at one this past saturday actually. The bad thing is theres usually the same group of about 10-15 girls and I already know all of them since were all kind of a close knit group of friends who have these "parties" nearly on a weekly basis.

I just need the right timing with meeting someone. Thats what im waiting for, and is my best bet. Something similar to what happen with this girl, just without the baggage.

[PdiddyPop]

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Even for you, this is pretty great.

Ask to tag along on her next date with her boyfriend. Then you don't have to worry about planning anything.

Who knows he might even get a date.......but just not with the one he was looking for!

[MagicBucsWsoxFan]

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Who knows he might even get a date.......but just not with the one he was looking for!

umm guys the date has already come and gone.

[PdiddyPop]

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umm guys the date has already come and gone.

Knowing you another one will be on the horizon. I've never heard a guy get into so much messes with girls than you.

[MagicBucsWsoxFan]

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Knowing you another one will be on the horizon. I've never heard a guy get into so much messes with girls than you.

Its because I look like id be an "ahole" (ive actually been told that by 3 different girls ive dated) but then once they actually get to know me, im like the nicest guy in the world. They have never admitted it, but It turns them off im sure. I hate the preception and im trying to change. So I attract all the bad girls with my look, and then I run them off because im too nice. I have confidence, but I fall so easily that I always get myself into a mess.

[The C]

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Knowing you another one will be on the horizon. I've never heard a guy get into so much messes with girls than you.

Shawn Kemp.

[PdiddyPop]

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Shawn Kemp.

He's not a guy he's a kid machine.


If the world rested on Shawn Kemp's shoulders to help reprouduce the human race he would have that done in about 3 months time.

[MagicBucsWsoxFan]

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Yea im the opposite of Kemp. Ive dated around, but ive actually only slept with 2 different people.

[The C]

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He's not a guy he's a kid machine.


If the world rested on Shawn Kemp's shoulders to help reprouduce the human race he would have that done in about 3 months time.

Depends on how many all you can eat buffets were open.

I don't know if the man liked sexin' women more or eating.