Small date ideas....

[funky_chicken]

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Your still young so you don't need to find the "right one" any time soon. I'm 32 and have no intention of getting married any time soon. Single means you can come and go as you please and have money in your pocket. Most women are the same. They want to play games and f*** with you mind. I am not doing it any more. I have the attitude I don't give a s*** (and I really don't). It seems to attract them more. I say have fun and don't stress over the girl situation. You will find one when you least expect it.

[Graphik]

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im 20, shes 18, and its not a love interest.

I will say though, Im just not quite sure exactly where it went wrong. We went bowling, ate at chilies, and then just talked in the car for a good hour before kissing a little bit. I thought things went about as well as they could have considering the situation. We got along great, laughed a lot, and both seemed to have more than enough to say in the sense that there wasnt really any awkward silences. I even got a text message after the date saying how much fun she had, and then bam, things change. I get a text saturday morning saying how much work sucks for her and I replied asking howcome, and I get nothing back. So I left it alone all saturday and sunday and still heard nothing. So yesterday morning I text messaged her saying hey, and we talked back and fourth for a few minutes, and even though its hard to tell by text messages, I felt a negitive type of vibe. Ive decided not to let it affect me though. Im just going to go along with my life as it was before I met her, and let her do the contacting if she wants. I might even the play the ignore game for a little bit if she tries to get in touch with me. Im assuming shes either back, or is trying to get back with her original boyfriend. Either way no matter what happens, it was a nice little experience that I can learn from.

If you ask me she ethier A: felt guilty tricking off behind her boyfriends back or B: like Money said, lost interest if you wasn't much of a challenge. Hard to tell since I dont know much of the rest of the story. What type of negative vibe did you get with her text? Good thing you're not sweating it though.

[MagicBucsWsoxFan]

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If you ask me she ethier A: felt guilty tricking off behind her boyfriends back or B: like Money said, lost interest if you wasn't much of a challenge. Hard to tell since I dont know much of the rest of the story. What type of negative vibe did you get with her text? Good thing you're not sweating it though.

Just seemed disinterested. Text conversations would go back and fourth for a few minutes and then all a sudden a long lapses inbetween. Plus a few dropped conversations all together by her just not replying. Any advice to turn the tide? She text'ed me yesterday afternoon and I ignored it, and then I got another one last night asking if I saw sanjaya and I had to reply (lol) We went back and fourth a for about 5 minutes texting and then again she just stopped mid conversation.

[ExtremeGamer]

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Just seemed disinterested. Text conversations would go back and fourth for a few minutes and then all a sudden a long lapses inbetween. Plus a few dropped conversations all together by her just not replying. Any advice to turn the tide? She text'ed me yesterday afternoon and I ignored it, and then I got another one last night asking if I saw sanjaya and I had to reply (lol) We went back and fourth a for about 5 minutes texting and then again she just stopped mid conversation.

I thought you weren't going to talk to her again?

Are you looking into wedding chapel's today? When's the big date?

[Graphik]

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Just seemed disinterested. Text conversations would go back and fourth for a few minutes and then all a sudden a long lapses inbetween. Plus a few dropped conversations all together by her just not replying. Any advice to turn the tide? She text'ed me yesterday afternoon and I ignored it, and then I got another one last night asking if I saw sanjaya and I had to reply (lol) We went back and fourth a for about 5 minutes texting and then again she just stopped mid conversation.

Have you ever stopped to consider that maybe she got a phone call from someone else. Surely you cant be the only person in her life right now. You know damn well women like to talk on the phone. If I were you I'd call her after she responds to one of your text. Tell her you dont feel like texting and want to talk. Get to the point when you're texting her. Dont just keep small talk going.

[MagicBucsWsoxFan]

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Have you ever stopped to consider that maybe she got a phone call from someone else. Surely you cant be the only person in her life right now. You know damn well women like to talk on the phone. If I were you I'd call her after she responds to one of your text. Tell her you dont feel like texting and want to talk. Get to the point when you're texting her. Dont just keep small talk going.

I dont think its a phone call getting in the way(just a vibe) but I know what you mean with the small talk. Ill get more to the point, although lately its been her starting the text chats because ive been laying back to see if shes even interested. I havent been sending the first ones because I dont want to seem desperate or unbusy.

[Money99]

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Buddy, this is so obvious. She lost interest once she knew she could have you. So you ignore her for a few days. She sends a text message which you ignore. Then she sends another one shortly after. You reply back like a hungry dog and then, bam! She cuts off communication.

If you really want her, don't talk to her for a week. Then when you do respond, be a complete prick to her. Chicks love that. Tell her that she's fat and she'd be lucky if any guy would even look at her twice. But since you're in a giving mood, you'll let her eat ice cream off your sack. Then while she's doing that, tell her how disgusting she is and she should wear a bag over her head. She should be feeling horrible about herself at this point. That's when you give her the Donkey Punch.
Oh how I love young romance. Nothings more pure and innocent.

[Heelfan71]

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Just seemed disinterested. Text conversations would go back and fourth for a few minutes and then all a sudden a long lapses inbetween. Plus a few dropped conversations all together by her just not replying. Any advice to turn the tide? She text'ed me yesterday afternoon and I ignored it, and then I got another one last night asking if I saw sanjaya and I had to reply (lol) We went back and fourth a for about 5 minutes texting and then again she just stopped mid conversation.

her boyfriend probably came over to lay it to her.

[ExtremeGamer]

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her boyfriend probably came over to lay it to her.

The irony if it's the same boyfriend that stole his last g/f away.

[Graphik]

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The irony if it's the same boyfriend that stole his last g/f away.

You guys are cruel. lol.

[Graphik]

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Buddy, this is so obvious. She lost interest once she knew she could have you. So you ignore her for a few days. She sends a text message which you ignore. Then she sends another one shortly after. You reply back like a hungry dog and then, bam! She cuts off communication.

If you really want her, don't talk to her for a week. Then when you do respond, be a complete prick to her. Chicks love that. Tell her that she's fat and she'd be lucky if any guy would even look at her twice. But since you're in a giving mood, you'll let her eat ice cream off your sack. Then while she's doing that, tell her how disgusting she is and she should wear a bag over her head. She should be feeling horrible about herself at this point. That's when you give her the Donkey Punch.
Oh how I love young romance. Nothings more pure and innocent.

I dont think she lost interest in him. I dont know of any woman that would actually call/text a guy they have no interest in. Unless they are some type of tease and based off the info Magic gave us so far, I dont think thats the case. If he waits a week, then she may have very well moved on. Its not like she's actually pursuing a relationship since she has a boyfriend on hold. What he's doing so far seems to be right and thats by not replying so fast to her text and ignoring it every so often till she sends another one. Dont make it a habit though cause she may very well do the same to you in the future. Just keep things on a even keel till you get used to eachothers schedules. There could be a lot of reasons why she suddenly cuts the text-convo short and what I think, is that the texts thing bores her after a while. Calling her cant hurt if she seems to be in a talkative mood. If she cuts the convo short during a phone conversation, then we're talking something totally diffrent.

[MagicBucsWsoxFan]

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I dont think she lost interest in him. I dont know of any woman that would actually call/text a guy they have no interest in. Unless they are some type of tease and based off the info Magic gave us so far, I dont think thats the case. If he waits a week, then she may have very well moved on. Its not like she's actually pursuing a relationship since she has a boyfriend on hold. What he's doing so far seems to be right and thats by not replying so fast to her text and ignoring it every so often till she sends another one. Dont make it a habit though cause she may very well do the same to you in the future. Just keep things on a even keel till you get used to eachothers schedules. There could be a lot of reasons why she suddenly cuts the text-convo short and what I think, is that the texts thing bores her after a while. Calling her cant hurt if she seems to be in a talkative mood. If she cuts the convo short during a phone conversation, then we're talking something totally diffrent.

I have had issues in the past of wanting to speed things up. Im learning to slow down, and give it time. I agree, I dont think shes completely uninterested because as you mentioned she wouldnt be texting me pretty much everyday if that was the case. I guess im just caught off guard by her not replying mid conversation at times with hours and sometimes a day or so inbetween replies. It could easily be bordum like you said though. Im anxious to ask her to hang out this weekend, but I really dont want to come off as needy or clingy so ill probably wait on that thought.

[Money99]

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I have had issues in the past of wanting to speed things up. Im learning to slow down, and give it time. I agree, I dont think shes completely uninterested because as you mentioned she wouldnt be texting me pretty much everyday if that was the case. I guess im just caught off guard by her not replying mid conversation at times with hours and sometimes a day or so inbetween replies. It could easily be bordum like you said though. Im anxious to ask her to hang out this weekend, but I really dont want to come off as needy or clingy so ill probably wait on that thought.

If she was into you (as in the potential to date you and treat you like a boyfriend) she wouldn't wait that long to contact you. She's playing with you. She now has a boyfriend and another guy she can manipulate on the side for whatever her needs may be.

Dump this bitch and move on. You're 20 years old. Don't waste your youth hanging on girls like this. Go out, have fun and meet new people. I can guarentee you're going to regret wasting so much time and effort on this chick.

[MagicBucsWsoxFan]

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Im not waiting around man trust me. Im living my normal life just with the posibilities of this prospect.

[The GIGGAS]

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I guess this is when going to a big college helps. There's always a party somewhere every night.

I say find a party to go to. You'll be surrounded by people and the atmosphere is very laid back. Who knows, you might even meet a girl at the party who's single...

It doesn't even have to be a big college. Radford parties every night that I know.

Well I figured I should bring that one back from the first page apparently... didn't know this thread was 3 pages somehow...