Small date ideas....

[Skerik]

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From what you just posted it really looks like she is using you to get back at him for something.

Speaking from past experience, a big co-sign to this. Avoid, avoid, avoid.

[MagicBucsWsoxFan]

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Well that certainly is the best attitude you can approach this with. I'd advise being hesitant if she really insists on going a certain place, because I'd be willing to bet there is a good chance her boyfriend will be there.

Ill keep that in mind. Thatd be pretty messed up, but I definatly didnt get that vibe from her. I know not to put anything past women though. Some really are crazy like that.

Im just really torn because I hate to jump in the middle of this. Im trying to think of the positives though. Firstly that nothing has officially even happened yet. Second, that she came up to me and according to my friend, gave me all the signs and signals to do what I did, by asking her out. Third,I know in my heart im not a bad guy in terms of a human being. And fourth, unlike most guys, im not just looking for a chance to hit it and ditch it.

Im just a little caught off guard, but im just going to go with the flow on this one. My life has been pretty drama free with women for a good two or three months so I could use a little bit of this.

I read an essay thats very "hitch-like" about confidence and ways to get girls and everything so im trying my best to use it as a guide and going to play the situation out with this girl as the article I read would suggest.

[ndeezlo]

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Speaking from past experience, a big co-sign to this. Avoid, avoid, avoid.

Or take complete advantage...

[Brandwin]

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My rule of thumb, if this person has someone else already and you do win the over, what's going to make you think they won't do the same to you? It's pointless to try to "talk" to someone who already has a boyfriend. I wouldn't trust her.

[dkgojackets]

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[Heelfan71]

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ummm, do your self a favor and run far away from this chic right now. You are setting your self up for big problems. Then we all have to hear about it here about how much you love this girl but she just wants to be friends yadda yadda yadda.

[Sandman42]

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ummm, do your self a favor and run far away from this chic right now. You are setting your self up for big problems. Then we all have to hear about it here about how much you love this girl but she just wants to be friends yadda yadda yadda.

Co-sign. Most likely she is just using you to make her boyfriend mad and nothing good will turn of it.

[Dallasin2K3]

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ummm, do your self a favor and run far away from this chic right now. You are setting your self up for big problems. Then we all have to hear about it here about how much you love this girl but she just wants to be friends yadda yadda yadda.

I would say do whatever you feel like, but view the relationship they way it is and not the way you want it to be. That's how people get hurt is viewing things for something other than what they are. So be sure you find out what that is and be honest with yourself.

[funky_chicken]

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I say treat her like a stamp. Lick her, stick her then send her on her way.

[MagicBucsWsoxFan]

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I know its a bad way to view things, but dont most attractive women already have boyfriends or dudes on the side anyway? From my experiences it seems that way, and hell anyone who remembers my ex, knows she left me for someone else.

[MagicBucsWsoxFan]

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I would say do whatever you feel like, but view the relationship they way it is and not the way you want it to be. That's how people get hurt is viewing things for something other than what they are. So be sure you find out what that is and be honest with yourself.

Yea thats pretty much my plan.Im gonna start out small and kind of "hard to get" to see how she reacts. It aint gonna effect me all that much because ill still be going to the gym a few nights a week, and the magic hopefully will make the playoffs and baseball season just got underway and the draft is around the corner so I have a lot of other stuff to keep my mind on.

[luv_mist]

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Most hilarious picture I've seen in a while. I'd definitely love to know what happened to that dog......and his balls....from a humane view of course.

I know its a bad way to view things, but dont most attractive women already have boyfriends or dudes on the side anyway? From my experiences it seems that way, and hell anyone who remembers my ex, knows she left me for someone else.

Don't think that way. The few ruin it for the many. There are a lot of people out there that stay clear even when they are in a bad situation. I have a suggestion that hasn't been thrown around. You might have been the first person that she could turn to in that emotional time because she needed someone to talk to. The way you reacted without making it a sexual thing might have turned her on by you. She may just need a male friend that she could confide in. As you get older, you get more of those. Might not want them, but they sure do help to sharpen your mental capacity when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex. You could be like her guardian angel....keeping her away from the guys that might cause her to fall in her relationship. Just be her friend and keep doing what you do. Male-female relationships don't always have to be about everything below the neck.......

[skitch]

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Cosign.

Run away, dude. Then make sure not to tell us about it.

[Lintyfresh85]

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wtf... how in the hell can you even be thinking about going with this chick magic? She has a guy...

Honestly, do people even care about commitment anymore? Oh she's got a boyfriend... no problem, I'll just get her to cheat on him with me!

I hate society.

Dude if you do go through with this, only bad things will come from it. So I say go for it... I can't wait till you post what happens in a few weeks!

[TheMatrix31]

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wtf... how in the hell can you even be thinking about going with this chick magic? She has a guy...

Honestly, do people even care about commitment anymore? Oh she's got a boyfriend... no problem, I'll just get her to cheat on him with me!

I hate society.

Dude if you do go through with this, only bad things will come from it. So I say go for it... I can't wait till you post what happens in a few weeks!

Co-sign on all accounts. There is no more morality.