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I agree. Looks like she did you a favor. Better now then after you both got married. Pretty damn selfish for her to be that way, her acting like that should have told you what was up.
The one that is for you wouldn't care.Comment
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Glad to see you got out of things before you tied the knot as you mentioned. I wish more people in this country would do the same so the divorce rate isn't so high."You make your name in the regular season, and your fame in the postseason." - Clyde Frazier
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Yeah, the fact that you ain't really caring says to me that maybe subconsciously, you knew it wasn't going to work out... I'm glad for you that you caught it early... I know a lot of dudes who got married "just because", and they're positively miserable.
I remember this one chick I broke up with, I had been with her for like three years, and I had invested a lot of time in the relationship. But her issues became too much for me to bear. I felt bad ending it, and even shed a few tears over it after I left her house. But then when I got back to NY (she lived in NJ), as I came out the tunnel, three of my favorite songs played on the radio back to back, and I immediately felt better. It was a move I shoulda made a long time before that, but I learned from it.
Good for you, mang...Comment
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Not only that but when it comes to divorces, in most states, the guy gets the ****ty end of the stick. So she cost her self and saved you some serious cashola.Comment
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Kind of sounds like you don't want to get married, or at least not to her. Engaged for 3 years? That's a pretty long time and I can see a lot of women thinking that's too long (and potentially giving an ultimatum. It does seem tactless of her to make that ultimatum in your current condition, but what was going on for the rest of the engagement that prevented you from actually getting married?) Not caring that you're not getting married now, feeling relieved of the "pressure" of getting married, accusing her of making excuses for not going to church when maybe she feels you've been making excuses for not getting married for the last 3 years (getting a degree), etc.My fiance of 3 years broke it off with me yesterday, because she wasn't willing to wait for me to get my degree, and to get my last of my surgeries done on my kidney. She wanted to get married this month or she was walking away. I said no way am I ready I have a friggin tube in my back draining my kidney until my surgery in March. Only things I can do is go to class *have to skip my pain meds till I get home which is a killer*, and go rent movies, or get some grub. Spend most of my time on my back on the laptop, or playing PS1, 360 *when I've had it to play*, and PS3. Funny thing is I'm normally tore up about break ups with chics especially ones that I deeply loved, but not this time. I felt better about it yesterday because now I don't have the pressure of getting married all over my back while trying to finish up my degree, and don't have to hear about all her work drama that she somehow brings me into. Sorry, but if she can respect me enough to just hold on for just a lil bit longer, and give me a ultimatum that girl is not for me. Not only that our we are now on two different paths as far as religion goes. She doesn't go to church with me anymore making any and ever excuse not to go, and I go whenever the door is open. I feel a lot more at ease, and happy. Just glad this happened before we took our vows. I only want to get married once.
I obviously don't know either of you, but there are always 2 sides and it's not likely you presented her side in your post, understandably. But just going by the wording in your post, I do get the impression you didn't really want to marry this girl, so it sounds like maybe it is best that it never get to that point.Last edited by born_bad; 01-16-2008, 11:39 AM.Comment
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See he should've said holler
Anyways that sucks about the girl. I think she was being way too insensitive about the situation so it's a good thing that she broke it off right now rather then being involved longterm and something else comes up.Member of the Official OS Bills Backers Club
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What an impatient woman. I can't believe somebody could be so insensitive to things going on in their significant other's life. If she's going to be that way, I don't want to imagine what marriage would have been like, bro.
Best of luck in the future, including your surgeries, your degree, and finding somebody new.Comment
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Like has been said, I'm happy for you bro! Any woman who gives you that sort of ultimatum doesn't truly love you, especially given the medical crap you've got going on. Be happy you didn't marry her and find out in a year that she's harboring some sort of resentment towards you. I've seen that happen to too many marriages and sucks to hear about the inevitable divorces later on.
Oh, another reason this is a good thing...Now you can concentrate on what truly matters to you and JUST JACK IT!!!!!!!!!
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kCc0TgUMK2E (I need to learn how to put videos in these posts...)
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