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  • Coach Bryant
    Roll Tide!
    • May 2003
    • 4372

    #46
    Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

    Many of the guys I work with are cheating on their wives-kids (I know for a fact their wives don't condone it!), and I have jumped in their **** over it. I have taking a strong stance against it, and wouldn't fate have it that Jezebel would enter into my life!
    Last edited by Coach Bryant; 03-13-2008, 06:25 PM.
    ‎"What I would like for every football team to do that we play is to sit there and say, I hate playing against these guys." -Nick Saban

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    • 23
      yellow
      • Sep 2002
      • 66469

      #47
      Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

      Yes he is, but he also deserves a warning. I don't think he realizes how bad it can really become. That's something to really re-evaluate.

      You can say what you want, but a bond with a someone of the opposite sex doesn't just go away because you're married.

      Everybody's married will be tried. Decisions you make could affect the rest of your life, and to throw away years over someone thrid party is not worth the pain it can cause.

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      • ex carrabba fan
        I'll thank him for you
        • Oct 2004
        • 32744

        #48
        Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

        Originally posted by MassNole
        Fair enough, I know some people will find it strange. Then again at the end of the day we've been married 5+ years and fall more in love by the day. Basically, it's a Get Out of Jail Free card that we give one another. To specify, if I or my wife were off sleeping with other people on a nightly basis it would be different, but the gist is that a one time fling won't end our marriage and we know that. If either of us ever acts on it, I guess time will tell.
        I consider myself liberal and an exception from the usual, but damn that doesn't seem productive or conducive for a marriage. You can't just sleep with another person while married and not want to keep going back for more, or get emotionally wrapped up with that other person. Not just that, but if you ever do bang another woman, I'm almost certain your appetite would not be quenched, and you'd target other women resulting in a snowball effect. And that's not even mentioning what I would feel if my partner was out doing this stuff.

        I mean how would that conversation even look since you guys would talk about it I'm assuming.

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        • Flyboy
          Daydream Believer
          • Jun 2003
          • 11352

          #49
          Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

          Obviously pornography is at fault here.

          Naughty Office imo.
          Originally posted by EWRMETS
          Maybe the best post in OS's history. If you don't think Tony Romo is a Hall of Famer, you support al Qaeda.

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          • aholbert32
            (aka Alberto)
            • Jul 2002
            • 33106

            #50
            Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

            Originally posted by Flyboy
            Obviously pornography is at fault here.

            Naughty Office imo.
            LOL

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            • ballerzinc
              T*mpl* *wls
              • Feb 2004
              • 1831

              #51
              Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

              How is MassNole's situation really different from couples who swing. It's not normal, but its not wrong or anything. Everyone has a different set of morals.

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              • ex carrabba fan
                I'll thank him for you
                • Oct 2004
                • 32744

                #52
                Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

                Originally posted by Flyboy
                Obviously pornography is at fault here.

                Naughty Office imo.
                SMH

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                • Coach Bryant
                  Roll Tide!
                  • May 2003
                  • 4372

                  #53
                  Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

                  Originally posted by Flyboy
                  Obviously pornography is at fault here.

                  Naughty Office imo.
                  Probably!
                  ‎"What I would like for every football team to do that we play is to sit there and say, I hate playing against these guys." -Nick Saban

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                  • ex carrabba fan
                    I'll thank him for you
                    • Oct 2004
                    • 32744

                    #54
                    Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

                    Originally posted by ballerzinc
                    How is MassNole's situation really different from couples who swing. It's not normal, but its not wrong or anything. Everyone has a different set of morals.
                    I don't think anyone said it was wrong. I for one don't think it's "wrong", just question how you could maintain a functional marriage while you have this lingering agreement on the table where you're allowed to cheat.

                    Swingers, I would love to hear from them and to hear about their marriages. Marriages are already doomed from the start moreso than not anyway, swinging just doesn't seem like it'd be productive. But I don't know of anyone married involved in that sort of thing so who knows.

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                      yellow
                      • Sep 2002
                      • 66469

                      #55
                      Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

                      It is wrong. Don't sit here and sugarcoat it man. That's the problem with our society and how it got all screwed up in the first place.

                      If it was okay there would be no reason to have a covenant in the first place. No vows, no commiment, nothing.

                      Just be real and say you probably want to have sex with other people, and admit you probably aren't mature as you thought you were.

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                      • MassNole
                        Banned
                        • Mar 2006
                        • 18848

                        #56
                        Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

                        Originally posted by ex carrabba fan
                        I don't think anyone said it was wrong. I for one don't think it's "wrong", just question how you could maintain a functional marriage while you have this lingering agreement on the table where you're allowed to cheat.

                        Swingers, I would love to hear from them and to hear about their marriages. Marriages are already doomed from the start moreso than not anyway, swinging just doesn't seem like it'd be productive. But I don't know of anyone married involved in that sort of thing so who knows.
                        It's not so much as that though. The odds are likely I'd never take up my wife's allowance, and vice versa. It is more that we both know something like a one time occurrence won't end our marriage.

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                        • Psyblast
                          2023 National Champions
                          • Jun 2003
                          • 42582

                          #57
                          Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

                          Originally posted by Flyboy
                          Obviously pornography is at fault here.

                          Naughty Office imo.



                          "I've Got a Wife"

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                          • Flyboy
                            Daydream Believer
                            • Jun 2003
                            • 11352

                            #58
                            Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

                            Originally posted by Psyblast
                            "I've Got a Wife"


                            Oh man, that one got me.
                            Originally posted by EWRMETS
                            Maybe the best post in OS's history. If you don't think Tony Romo is a Hall of Famer, you support al Qaeda.

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                            • Flyboy
                              Daydream Believer
                              • Jun 2003
                              • 11352

                              #59
                              Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

                              Originally posted by KDRE_OS
                              It is wrong. Don't sit here and sugarcoat it man. That's the problem with our society and how it got all screwed up in the first place.

                              If it was okay there would be no reason to have a covenant in the first place. No vows, no commiment, nothing.

                              Just be real and say you probably want to have sex with other people, and admit you probably aren't mature as you thought you were.
                              Damn. That was....

                              COOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLD-BLOOOOODED~!
                              Originally posted by EWRMETS
                              Maybe the best post in OS's history. If you don't think Tony Romo is a Hall of Famer, you support al Qaeda.

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                              • dieselboy
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                                • Dec 2002
                                • 18040

                                #60
                                Re: Tempted by the fruits of another....

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