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  • RAZRr1275
    All Star
    • Sep 2007
    • 9918

    #31
    Re: Being in love

    Originally posted by ZephyrSong
    I'm now 21 and have had four relationships in my life.

    For me, the saying that "you will always forever your first" is true. Boy, did I keep on coming back for more.

    It was an excellent relationship. I stepped up from being an introvert and now can proudly say is a people person. (Thanks to her.)

    Then it got rough. Maybe because she's quite popular, that's why I had troubles with men. I think she got bored after some 8 months and we broke off.

    The next two are irrelevant for me.

    My current one... Well I'd say I was in love with her... I don't know guys... I had to wait for like almost a year before she said her yes and it was cool but now after 1 year and 2 months I'm not feeling it anymore. Talks are getting serious and I want to have a baby too as early as possible because my dad's not getting any younger but still... its pretty boring nowadays...

    I'm just in love with my gym work right now.
    Just break up and start over. You don't want to have a baby with a woman that your not going to stay with.
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    • Heelfan71
      Hall Of Fame
      • Jul 2002
      • 19940

      #32
      Re: Being in love

      Originally posted by fishepa
      You also know you're in love when you accept your significant others' faults and they really don't bother you. That is love IMO.
      uh oh
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      • countryboy
        Growing pains
        • Sep 2003
        • 52720

        #33
        Re: Being in love

        Originally posted by DTX3
        I thought i was in love once, but i just pulled out and moved on.
        I can't shave with my eyes closed, meaning each day I have to look at myself in the mirror and respect who I see.

        I miss the old days of Operation Sports :(


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        • countryboy
          Growing pains
          • Sep 2003
          • 52720

          #34
          Re: Being in love

          Originally posted by Heelfan71
          uh oh
          I can't shave with my eyes closed, meaning each day I have to look at myself in the mirror and respect who I see.

          I miss the old days of Operation Sports :(


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          • countryboy
            Growing pains
            • Sep 2003
            • 52720

            #35
            Re: Being in love

            Originally posted by fishepa
            You also know you're in love when you accept your significant others' faults and they really don't bother you. That is love IMO.
            Amen
            I can't shave with my eyes closed, meaning each day I have to look at myself in the mirror and respect who I see.

            I miss the old days of Operation Sports :(


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            • CMH
              Making you famous
              • Oct 2002
              • 26203

              #36
              Re: Being in love

              Originally posted by mgoblue
              I feel sad for you...I can't imagine living life not believing in love. I'm sure it works for you, I just cannot imagine it...that'd be so depressing to me.
              It's not that I don't believe in the feelings you guys have for your significant other. It's that I don't believe they are what you think they are.

              I'm not going to get into it because it's only going to piss people off and I'm not interested in doing that.

              In short, I just don't believe it really exists the way we think it does. That's where I'll leave it.
              "It may well be that we spectators, who are not divinely gifted as athletes, are the only ones able to truly see, articulate and animate the experience of the gift we are denied. And that those who receive and act out the gift of athletic genius must, perforce, be blind and dumb about it -- and not because blindness and dumbness are the price of the gift, but because they are its essence." - David Foster Wallace

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              • CMH
                Making you famous
                • Oct 2002
                • 26203

                #37
                Re: Being in love

                Originally posted by bluengold34

                I always defined love as when you care more about that person, then you care about yourself...that says something
                I think that's a great way to describe it. If that's how you truly feel then I'm happy for you.
                "It may well be that we spectators, who are not divinely gifted as athletes, are the only ones able to truly see, articulate and animate the experience of the gift we are denied. And that those who receive and act out the gift of athletic genius must, perforce, be blind and dumb about it -- and not because blindness and dumbness are the price of the gift, but because they are its essence." - David Foster Wallace

                "You'll not find more penny-wise/pound-foolish behavior than in Major League Baseball." - Rob Neyer

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                • CMH
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                  • Oct 2002
                  • 26203

                  #38
                  Re: Being in love

                  Originally posted by youvalss
                  I once thought the same, but wonderful things happened and love became a part of my life. I really hope u'll find yours, don't lose hope!
                  I guess we'll see. I can't see myself wanting to give someone more than I give myself. Maybe it's because I'm already forced to give others more than I can give myself and I rarely get a chance to give myself attention. I just have no interest in giving back.

                  I'll give back to my girlfriend but I really hope she doesn't expect me to marry her someday. I don't see it happening.

                  I've decided that I'll just choose a woman to bear my child. You know, if a woman wants to have it.
                  "It may well be that we spectators, who are not divinely gifted as athletes, are the only ones able to truly see, articulate and animate the experience of the gift we are denied. And that those who receive and act out the gift of athletic genius must, perforce, be blind and dumb about it -- and not because blindness and dumbness are the price of the gift, but because they are its essence." - David Foster Wallace

                  "You'll not find more penny-wise/pound-foolish behavior than in Major League Baseball." - Rob Neyer

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                  • youvalss
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                    • Feb 2007
                    • 16600

                    #39
                    Re: Being in love

                    I didn't know that living in the Bronx can make u feel this way LOL...
                    Hey YankeePride, stop thinking and start feeling, dude!
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                    • CMH
                      Making you famous
                      • Oct 2002
                      • 26203

                      #40
                      Re: Being in love

                      Ha. I feel. I just don't see myself feeling for one person forever.

                      If someday I find that person that changes my opinion then awesome. I'll be happy.
                      "It may well be that we spectators, who are not divinely gifted as athletes, are the only ones able to truly see, articulate and animate the experience of the gift we are denied. And that those who receive and act out the gift of athletic genius must, perforce, be blind and dumb about it -- and not because blindness and dumbness are the price of the gift, but because they are its essence." - David Foster Wallace

                      "You'll not find more penny-wise/pound-foolish behavior than in Major League Baseball." - Rob Neyer

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                      • Blaxican8504
                        All Star
                        • Jul 2002
                        • 4150

                        #41
                        Re: Being in love

                        Originally posted by RAZRr1275
                        Just break up and start over. You don't want to have a baby with a woman that your not going to stay with.
                        Not to mention that he is only 21.

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                        • RAZRr1275
                          All Star
                          • Sep 2007
                          • 9918

                          #42
                          Re: Being in love

                          Originally posted by Blaxican8504
                          Not to mention that he is only 21.
                          Yeah. And I'm pretty sure that his father would be more happy if he got married after he died and it was a succesful marraige than if he married and had kids before he died but it didn't last long at all.
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                          • jmill703
                            Pro
                            • Jun 2003
                            • 524

                            #43
                            Re: Being in love

                            I don't see how dudes in their late teens and early 20's say their in love. They confuse love with lust. And wanna wife up the first girl that gives them head on a regular basis...
                            "Solutions rarely come from the same minds as people who cause the problems"

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                            • stewaat

                              #44
                              Re: Being in love

                              Originally posted by jmill703
                              I don't see how dudes in their late teens and early 20's say their in love. They confuse love with lust. And wanna wife up the first girl that gives them head on a regular basis...
                              Hahahahahhha

                              So true


                              I dont' think I have...I can never accept their faults. They annoy me then I want to go elsewhere.

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                              • Bighoff
                                The Bird is the word
                                • Jul 2002
                                • 5312

                                #45
                                Re: Being in love

                                Originally posted by jmill703
                                I don't see how dudes in their late teens and early 20's say their in love. They confuse love with lust. And wanna wife up the first girl that gives them head on a regular basis...
                                Very true, I had a friend in high school that ended up marrying the first and only piece that he ever had. They were married at 22 or 23 popped out a kid and were divorced 3 years later.

                                Last weekend after 5 years of knowing each other I made my girlfriend my fiancee. We're both over 30, accept each other for who we are, and know what we want. She was the first girl who I can say I actually love, every other one before her were just sex things.
                                I've heard this "patience is a virtue" junk all my life. I'm happy to say I have no virtue, no scruples, and no desire to wait too long for anything. In my humble opinion instant gratification takes too long!

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