Anyone try online dating sites?

[TripleCrown9]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

As reference to the really cute chick that messaged me, here she is.

[Sandman42]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

Finally found a legitimately attractive girl but have no idea what to send as a first message. Any (serious) suggestions?

Wanna see some Dick pics?

http://media.salon.com/2009/12/lets_get_dick_cheney_on_facebook.jpg

[cubsfan203]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

Finally found a legitimately attractive girl but have no idea what to send as a first message. Any (serious) suggestions?

A short (like one or two sentences tops), witty message that mentions something about her.

[Macar91]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

Well I messaged her on Facebook, after I realized she had an OKC cupid that she hadn't been on since November.

Being on Facebook, I couldn't pick which route to go.

I should have just laid it all out, now I'll def look like a creep if I send her ANOTHER message after she didnt respond to the first one.

Do you have any close friends who are also friends with her? It may be a long-shot, but you could have someone discreetly put in a good word for you.

[SuperBowlNachos]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

Finally found a legitimately attractive girl but have no idea what to send as a first message. Any (serious) suggestions?

This worked for me last night

"Hey, I'm Kyle. I'm wanting to talk to you because you are attractive and like Dexter. It's late and I was up really early so I couldn't think of anything witty or creative to message you"

[jeremym480]

@jj

Anything, but "hey, what's up". Girls hate that

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[LowerWolf]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

I think I actually did better when I didn't even ask a question, but just made a comment about her profile.

[bravesfan1984]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

what seems to be the consensus on which dating site to use? preferably free

[cubsfan203]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

what seems to be the consensus on which dating site to use? preferably free

I've personally had better luck with POF, but OKCupid is good as well. I would just make one for each and figure out which one works for you. It also depends on which has more people around your area.

[Marino]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

Ironically, I sent a "Hey, what's up?" message to this girl that I am currently talking to on POF. I guess it worked for me.

[JODYE]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

Do you have any close friends who are also friends with her? It may be a long-shot, but you could have someone discreetly put in a good word for you.

Off the top of my head, I don't think so.

Just chalking it up as a loss I guess. Sucks. Maybe if I ever see her out and about I'll try that way.

[TMagic]

Found this to be interesting...

http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/th...file-pictures/

...show off those six packs fellas!!!

Edit:

And apparently the rate of reply for men is a mere 27% on there. So if you're doing better than 1/4, congrats. You're doing better than the average Joe.

[Noles4ever]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

I think I actually did better when I didn't even ask a question, but just made a comment about her profile.

Why waste your time IMO asking a bunch of questions and get no reply back, if a girl likes what she sees she'll reply back and that is when you can making it a Q&A message.

[TripleCrown9]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

Well I was up until almost 5 in the morning talking to a girl from PoF. She is so great. I don't think I've been this excited to talk to someone in a long time.

[WDOgF0reL1fe]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

Better Skype immediately to avoid anything down the road