Anyone try online dating sites?

[SuperBowlNachos]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

Well I was up until almost 5 in the morning talking to a girl from PoF. She is so great. I don't think I've been this excited to talk to someone in a long time.

Am I missing more details on POF? Seems like every profile doesn't have that much information and there is no question system like on OKC that I have come across.

[TripleCrown9]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

Am I missing more details on POF? Seems like every profile doesn't have that much information and there is no question system like on OKC that I have come across.

You're right, there aren't many details. You just have to ask them about something on their profile, and see where it goes. Luckily for me, all three girls I've communicated with I got their numbers within a few hours of messaging on the app, and the conversation just branches from there.

[Sandman42]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

Date last night went really well. Though I guess it says something that I was excited to text girl B when I was leaving girl A's place this morning. Girl B is dating 3 other guys though, so chances there are lower.

[SuperBowlNachos]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

I'm feeling a bit used right now. Been talking with that blond we was getting along great having long phone calls, which is a feat for me we would stay on the phone for hours. Friday night she invited me over so I went and ended up spending the night, ain't heard a word from her since. Oh well. I was really enjoying her though.

I wish I could be used.

[bravesfan1984]

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after doing a search for women around my area on pof, i'm kind of hesitant on signing up...yikes

[Dog]

Also here's a tip: if the girl's profile says "only want to make friends" or "meet new people", it means she has a boyfriend or at least dating someone.

Source? My ex girlfriend (and former OSer)

[JODYE]

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Yeah, don't understand being on a dating site, if you're dating someone, except maybe if it's an open relationship or you're not satisfied i guess.

Unless you can't make your profile inactive, then it makes sense too.

[cubsfan203]

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I need someone to slap some sense into me. Please?

I kept talking to that girl that kept getting on dating sites, which she deleted after giving me a whole pissy bitchfit about it. So here's the rundown. I've driven to see her probably 20-25 times. She's come to see me.....0. That's an hour and a half round trip and like $7-8 gas for me each time too. Including gas I've probably spent like $400-500, she's bought ice cream for us once and drives short distances occasionally. Now she's all bitchy because I wouldn't come see her on Saturday and is saying stupid things on facebook to try and make me look bad. Something about how apparently I don't appreciate her and go out of my way to make her happy. This chick isn't even technically my girlfriend!

Someone please tell me why the hell I'm still wasting my time? It's not even looks because I could do much better in that department.

I finally am coming to my senses and getting back into the game. Browsed through POF and this girl messaged me...

Spoiler

[Happy29]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

TMagic I'm taking a few of your lines for my new profile, you got some good stuff.

[TMagic]

TMagic I'm taking a few of your lines for my new profile, you got some good stuff.

Really? Haha.

Go right ahead. I dont think its that great. Still find myself trying to figure out ways to improve it. Lol

[TMagic]

And done...

[JODYE]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

I need someone to slap some sense into me. Please?

I kept talking to that girl that kept getting on dating sites, which she deleted after giving me a whole pissy bitchfit about it. So here's the rundown. I've driven to see her probably 20-25 times. She's come to see me.....0. That's an hour and a half round trip and like $7-8 gas for me each time too. Including gas I've probably spent like $400-500, she's bought ice cream for us once and drives short distances occasionally. Now she's all bitchy because I wouldn't come see her on Saturday and is saying stupid things on facebook to try and make me look bad. Something about how apparently I don't appreciate her and go out of my way to make her happy. This chick isn't even technically my girlfriend!

Someone please tell me why the hell I'm still wasting my time? It's not even looks because I could do much better in that department.

I finally am coming to my senses and getting back into the game. Browsed through POF and this girl messaged me...

Spoiler

You shouldn't be.

She sounds like a self absorbed needy bitch. If she is not willing to give an effort now, and you keep bending over and driving to her, she is never going to extend herself, because she knows she can just whine her way into you being the good guy and have you go out of your way for her.

Time to drop her *** and move on to the next one. No question.

[bichettehappens]

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Time to drop her *** and move on to the next one. No question.

This. I've jumped ship on the idea of continuing to see her while also pursuing others. Forget her, not worth your time.

[Fresh Tendrils]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

I need someone to slap some sense into me. Please?

I kept talking to that girl that kept getting on dating sites, which she deleted after giving me a whole pissy bitchfit about it. So here's the rundown. I've driven to see her probably 20-25 times. She's come to see me.....0. That's an hour and a half round trip and like $7-8 gas for me each time too. Including gas I've probably spent like $400-500, she's bought ice cream for us once and drives short distances occasionally. Now she's all bitchy because I wouldn't come see her on Saturday and is saying stupid things on facebook to try and make me look bad. Something about how apparently I don't appreciate her and go out of my way to make her happy. This chick isn't even technically my girlfriend!

Someone please tell me why the hell I'm still wasting my time? It's not even looks because I could do much better in that department.

I finally am coming to my senses and getting back into the game. Browsed through POF and this girl messaged me...

Spoiler

So, ya'll hanging out about 30 times and 1) She's not your g/f and 2) She's trashing you on facebook.


I'm not sure what else needs to be done.

[shugknight]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

I need someone to slap some sense into me. Please?

I kept talking to that girl that kept getting on dating sites, which she deleted after giving me a whole pissy bitchfit about it. So here's the rundown. I've driven to see her probably 20-25 times. She's come to see me.....0. That's an hour and a half round trip and like $7-8 gas for me each time too. Including gas I've probably spent like $400-500, she's bought ice cream for us once and drives short distances occasionally. Now she's all bitchy because I wouldn't come see her on Saturday and is saying stupid things on facebook to try and make me look bad. Something about how apparently I don't appreciate her and go out of my way to make her happy. This chick isn't even technically my girlfriend!

Someone please tell me why the hell I'm still wasting my time? It's not even looks because I could do much better in that department.

I finally am coming to my senses and getting back into the game. Browsed through POF and this girl messaged me...

Spoiler

I see the problem. You're a Cubs fan. You are waiting for something great to happen, but it never will. Whether its the Cubs or this girl, you're only setting yourself up for disappointment.