Prenuptial agreements

**Cebby** · 10-14-2009, 07:07 PM

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Anyone who doesn't get a prenup is either not the primary earner or stupid.

DC · 10-14-2009, 07:10 PM

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Originally posted by aholbert32

You have car insurance and health insurance, right? You dont get those because you want or know that you are going to get in an accident or get sick...you get them just in case **** happens you are covered. A prenup is just marriage insurance.

Thanks for explaining that.

DC · 10-14-2009, 07:11 PM

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Originally posted by Cebby

Anyone who doesn't get a prenup is either not the primary earner or stupid.

Or falls for the, "If you really love her you wouldn't do that to her" hype

**Cebby** · 10-14-2009, 07:42 PM

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Originally posted by DC

Or falls for the, "If you really love her you wouldn't do that to her" hype

I already covered that

**MassNole** · 10-14-2009, 07:46 PM

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Originally posted by YankeePride

I'm getting one even if I'm homeless and get married with the mop I find by the dumpster in the alley.

Mop lacks the capacity to enter into a prenuptial.

**jeremym480** · 10-14-2009, 08:35 PM

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Originally posted by TheLetterZ

She sounds very emotionally stable and mature. No wonder you guys are still married!

Oh.

Yeah, that's about right :wink:

It was one of those dumb mistakes people make when they're younger. I was 22 she was 21 and she wanted to get married so, we did. But, I guess that's what I got after marrying a chick that I only dated for 10 months or so.

But, the good thing is that I've learned from my mistakes

**CMH** · 10-14-2009, 11:16 PM

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Originally posted by MassNole

Mop lacks the capacity to enter into a prenuptial.

*shakes fist*

**Scottdau** · 10-15-2009, 01:32 AM

Re: Prenuptial agreements

Originally posted by aholbert32

You have car insurance and health insurance, right? You dont get those because you want or know that you are going to get in an accident or get sick...you get them just in case **** happens you are covered. A prenup is just marriage insurance.

I disagree, if you go into a marriage like that what does that say to the spouse. Unless they agree with that thinking too. The problem is people need to go into marriage with a better or worst thinking. But this is just my opinion on the subject, but I have been married for 13 years, so I must be doing something right and I have counseled married couples before when I was a pastor and have a degree in Biblical counseling. So I do have some knowledge on the matter.

**aholbert32** · 10-15-2009, 03:52 PM

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Originally posted by Scottdau

I disagree, if you go into a marriage like that what does that say to the spouse. Unless they agree with that thinking too. The problem is people need to go into marriage with a better or worst thinking. But this is just my opinion on the subject, but I have been married for 13 years, so I must be doing something right and I have counseled married couples before when I was a pastor and have a degree in Biblical counseling. So I do have some knowledge on the matter.

I'll never understand this line of thinking. You cant control your spouse. You cant guarantee that they will always love you. You cant guarantee that they wont cheat. You cant guarantee that they wont beat on you. You can hope they wont do those things. You can choose to believe that they wont do those things but you cant guarantee it. All a prenup does is protect you in case his/her promise to never leave you falls through. A women should want that protection too.

Its great that you have been married for 13 yrs but if your wife walks in the house today and says she wants to leave you....there goes 50% of what you own because you live in CA. You may have that "for better or worse" mentality but you cant guarantee that she does.

**Cebby** · 10-15-2009, 04:26 PM

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Originally posted by aholbert32

I'll never understand this line of thinking. You cant control your spouse. You cant guarantee that they will always love you. You cant guarantee that they wont cheat. You cant guarantee that they wont beat on you. You can hope they wont do those things. You can choose to believe that they wont do those things but you cant guarantee it. All a prenup does is protect you in case his/her promise to never leave you falls through. A women should want that protection too.

Its great that you have been married for 13 yrs but if your wife walks in the house today and says she wants to leave you....there goes 50% of what you own because you live in CA. You may have that "for better or worse" mentality but you cant guarantee that she does.

Exactly

For all he knows, his wife could be in a five year relationship with the mailman

DC · 10-15-2009, 05:03 PM

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Originally posted by aholbert32

I'll never understand this line of thinking. You cant control your spouse. You cant guarantee that they will always love you. You cant guarantee that they wont cheat. You cant guarantee that they wont beat on you. You can hope they wont do those things. You can choose to believe that they wont do those things but you cant guarantee it. All a prenup does is protect you in case his/her promise to never leave you falls through. A women should want that protection too.

Its great that you have been married for 13 yrs but if your wife walks in the house today and says she wants to leave you....there goes 50% of what you own because you live in CA. You may have that "for better or worse" mentality but you cant guarantee that she does.

Deep down inside, dude knows you are right. People and their, "If you really love someone you would do X" kill me

**Alliball** · 10-16-2009, 03:21 PM

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Originally posted by DC

Deep down inside, dude knows you are right. People and their, "If you really love someone you would do X" kill me

Are you married?

DC · 10-16-2009, 05:00 PM

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I actually have been married for 18 years. Next question?

**Cebby** · 10-16-2009, 07:44 PM

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Originally posted by DC

I actually have been married for 18 years. Next question?

Married to the game?

Or a female? Because if it's to a female, that would be a bigger shocker than Kash turning out to be Kobe

**Scottdau** · 10-16-2009, 08:57 PM

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Originally posted by aholbert32

I'll never understand this line of thinking. You cant control your spouse. You cant guarantee that they will always love you. You cant guarantee that they wont cheat. You cant guarantee that they wont beat on you. You can hope they wont do those things. You can choose to believe that they wont do those things but you cant guarantee it. All a prenup does is protect you in case his/her promise to never leave you falls through. A women should want that protection too.

Its great that you have been married for 13 yrs but if your wife walks in the house today and says she wants to leave you....there goes 50% of what you own because you live in CA. You may have that "for better or worse" mentality but you cant guarantee that she does.

I understand what you are saying and it is true, but when you really love someone I think people would not think this way. You think the best not the worst of what can happen. If she leaves oh well life goes on, but to think this before she leaves, I just disagree. I look at marriage as a gambler. You just never know what can happen, but you can't start your marriage of with this unless you both are agreeable than I guess it would be OK. I know my dad and step mom have one, but my step mom had more money than my dad. They have been married 22 years. So I guess it can work.

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