Time To Come Clean! What's Your Biggest Flaw?

[jetercanoturn2]

Re: Time To Come Clean! What's Your Biggest Flaw?

My Unpredictability: I'm 20 year's old and I still haven't figured myself out. I'm a procrastinator and lazy, and it seems like I can't help it, it's just strange, I hit points in my life where I'm just like **** everything, I'm just gonna put off the bills, I don't really wanna go out today, I'll eat later, I think I'll just play the Show all day. Then other day's I feel like I'm gonna die of boredom if I don't get out of the house and play ball and work out and holler at some girls and just be productive. But I'm just so damn unpredictable.

I'll get really motivated if I want something. When I'm angry and motivated I can do anything, it's really strange everything just becomes easier for me when I'm at the top of my motivation. I work out like I feel nothing, I push myself like crazy, I care about everything, I want to be the best at everything, I have all the confidence in the world, Flirting with girl's becomes so simple. Everything is right at my fingertips when I'm motivated and then I become satisfied, It becomes too easy, and I just let down, I lose my motivation, I showed everyone what I can do, now I'm satisfied, I wish I was never satisfied with myself and I always had that hunger, but I always let it fade, then I'll just go back to being unproductive.

Best way to describe me: I'm still figuring things out, I have all the potential and talent in the world, but a family tragedy and just "Me" in general is preventing me from elevating myself to new height's. Which is sad...

[USF11]

Re: Time To Come Clean! What's Your Biggest Flaw?

Pride & Ambition.

[duke776]

Re: Time To Come Clean! What's Your Biggest Flaw?

Mine would be not taking anything seriously. I don't have any big worries about life, or whatever I would like to do someday. I'm not even sure how I ever passed high school(got a 3.0 to boot), and I did just about nothing from my sophmore year to the end of senior year. A lot of my friends tell me I'm the most laid back person they know. I'm always relaxed whatever I'm doing. I don't really have any problem with me being care free, but I'd like to at least start taking school seriously so I can have a choice of doing something I wish to do in the future(but there's nothing I wish to do, heh). I'll be in college next year, so hopefully I will get motivated and start taking it seriously.

There are two exceptions to this though, I do take sports and working out seriously. Honestly, my only goal in life is to never become fat. I've never been fat, and have always made it a point to continually work out so I never will be, but it's pretty sad that it's my only goal. I'm the only one that can change that though, I've just never wanted to really.

I see a lot of people put procrastination, but honestly what I wouldn't give to be a "procrastinator" because that would imply I eventually get whatever it is I needed to do done

No doubt, same here. I used to be a procrastinator years ago, but now I rarely even bother to finish whatever it is I'm supposed to.

[Marino]

Re: Time To Come Clean! What's Your Biggest Flaw?

I let little things I cant control bother me so much.

I dont let big things bother me so I cant get motivated for them until the last minute.

I tend to get a bit clingy with girls to where I push them away. (If anyone can help me with that please do. I have a really good girl right now and dont want to push her away but I think I am)

I am very lazy.

I worry way too much.

I don't have very high self esteem at times and really kills any mojo.

I am too hard on myself, I blame myself for everything. It really ruins my mood/day and is very noticeable.

I dont step up and say how i feel which leads to friend zone.

[z Revis]

Re: Time To Come Clean! What's Your Biggest Flaw?

I let little things I cant control bother me so much.

I dont let big things bother me so I cant get motivated for them until the last minute.

I tend to get a bit clingy with girls to where I push them away. (If anyone can help me with that please do. I have a really good girl right now and dont want to push her away but I think I am)

I am very lazy.

I worry way too much.

I don't have very high self esteem at times and really kills any mojo.

I am too hard on myself, I blame myself for everything. It really ruins my mood/day and is very noticeable.

I dont step up and say how i feel which leads to friend zone.

The ones I bolded are problems I have as well. The one I hate the most is how I worry so much about things. It affects me to the point where I can't sleep sometimes.

The self esteem thing, usually isn't a problem. I'm a confident person and I know I can do anything if I really put in the effort. But often times if I'm not in a comfortable situation, I tend to get really down on myself. Job interviews for example, I hate them and I get really nervous and they're really uncomfortable for me. I hate it as I don't act like myself when I'm interviewing and I try too hard. If I'm in a comfort zone though, I'm perfectly fine.

Lazy, well not much to say there. I get lazy sometimes which leads to procrastination.

The last thing, very true for me. I have a problem saying how I feel. I'm usually quiet about things that bother me and don't step up about it. Unless it's something that REALLY bothers me, I'll say something, but most things I just let go.

[SPTO]

Re: Time To Come Clean! What's Your Biggest Flaw?

Lack of assertiveness and motivation. I'm trying to address these issues though.

[CreatineKasey]

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My worst flaw however is feeling like, no matter how happy I am or how hard I try and just relax, I ALWAYS feel like I am stressed about something. Be it bills, things needing to get done around the house, etc. I hate it, because I always really look forward to getting out of work and doing something fun/productive, but as soon as I get home, I get this lingering sense of stress over basically nothing. Honestly, it's usually a financial issue, like trying to figure out exactly how much money we will have at the end of each month. Something stupid like that will ruin my day.

I'm a lot like this, too. I know why. It's because my mom is like that. She can suck the life out of any joy by finding problems to talk about. For example, when I first told her I got hired for my first legitimate career position, she immediately starts talking about costs and problems. There was little joy to be shared. That habit sticks with you when you grow up around it. I'm trying to get away from that knowing that it's simply because I was brought up that way.

Now, it's not all bad. I mean, keeping the downsides of things in mind is a good way to lead a responsible life, but not to the point that it weighs you down. I feel like I'm doing something wrong every day that I don't have a big challenge in front of me, as if I need one. It's weird. Almost a mindset of, "either you're going forwards or backwards". I can't just sit still without feeling bad.

[ODogg]

Re: Time To Come Clean! What's Your Biggest Flaw?

Non-physical flaw: My need to control and plan everything. I hold grudges for a long time and do whatever I can do to get revenge. I find that I often don't want to socialize because people are shallow and not intelligent enough to converse with about anything meaningful.

Physical flaw: obviously my weight but that's getting better, other than that my nose probably, it's a bit too big and too curved upward.

[ScoobySnax]

Re: Time To Come Clean! What's Your Biggest Flaw?

Non-physical flaw: My need to control and plan everything. I hold grudges for a long time and do whatever I can do to get revenge. I find that I often don't want to socialize because people are shallow and not intelligent enough to converse with about anything meaningful.

Physical flaw: obviously my weight but that's getting better, other than that my nose probably, it's a bit too big and too curved upward.

Damn LOL. Does revenge feel worthwhile after you've gotten it?

[ODogg]

Re: Time To Come Clean! What's Your Biggest Flaw?

Well I rarely get it, LOL...but oh yeah, it does!

[Vikes1]

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I have a minor degree of OCD.

I believe I've had it since childhood...and it's progressively gotten worse as I've gotten older. It's no where near being debilitating...but at times I kinda drive myself nuts with it. I'm able to control the symptoms pretty well in public. But at home, at times, I find myself wasting too much time with "Rituals" I've developed over time. A place for everything...and everything in it's place. That type of thing.

[CWSapp757]

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Man, this has been such an interesting thread. I'm used to working with people who never admit that they have any flaws so it's refreshing to see people own up to and talk about their flaws. Anyway, my biggest flaw.....

My impatience when it comes to resolving an issue. This for me is really bad. Like for example, if my supervisor calls me while I'm on vacation and says, "I want to talk to you when you come back from vacation", I'll go out of my way to try to see what it is she wants to talk about immediately. If she doesn't tell me, it'll ruin my vacation because I'll assume that it's a problem or something I ****** up at work. For all I know, I could be getting a raise but I never think like that. The worse is when I know someone is upset with me. It bothers me to no end until I get the opportunity to talk with them and see just how mad they are and if it is possible to resolve the issue immediately. I really try to have the "I don't give a **** attitude about it, but I'm just lying to myself.

[spacefunk]

Re: Time To Come Clean! What's Your Biggest Flaw?

My legs hurt

[pw_1016]

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I am an extremely sensitive person. If someone mocks how I talk (whether they are joking or not) , I get pretty upset.

I have been told I am not very enthusiastic and I often talk like it. I try to be more high energy and enthusiastic when I talk but sometimes it sounds sooooo fake, lol. I have often been told I sound timid.

It takes alot for me to speak my mind about something. By the time I speak up, I am so upset when I talk that I can hardly breathe. REALLY tryin to work on this one.

I dont have very high self esteem. (LOL I had someone tell me---"why do you have low self esteem? You're not fat!"). It has to do with my childhood, where my dad always told me that in order to be happy in life that I have to fit in with everyone else. He still tells me that as an adult.

I have ALOT of trouble trying to block out negative thoughts about the problems in my life and they often ruin good days.

[USF11]

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I dont have very high self esteem. (LOL I had someone tell me---"why do you have low self esteem? You're not fat!"). It has to do with my childhood, where my dad always told me that in order to be happy in life that I have to fit in with everyone else. He still tells me that as an adult.

If my dad said that to me, "We would goto blows".