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  • TMagic
    G.O.A.T.
    • Apr 2007
    • 7550

    #16
    Re: Need help on not being offensive to someone who has the hots for you...

    I say you do your thing with him. But be really bad. REALLY bad.

    After that, he'll lose all interest in you because its a fact that nobody likes a bad lay.

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    • dan_457
      MVP
      • Jan 2010
      • 4106

      #17
      Re: Need help on not being offensive to someone who has the hots for you...

      Shouldn't you just treat this as if you were turning down a female who had the hots for you, but your not interested?
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      • EnigmaNemesis
        Animal Liberation
        • Apr 2006
        • 12216

        #18
        Re: Need help on not being offensive to someone who has the hots for you...

        Originally posted by dan_457
        Shouldn't you just treat this as if you were turning down a female who had the hots for you, but your not interested?
        Oh, if that was only so simple...

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        • AUChase
          Hall Of Fame
          • Jul 2008
          • 19403

          #19
          Re: Need help on not being offensive to someone who has the hots for you...

          Originally posted by Dayman
          Phrasing!
          First thing that came to mind..

          <iframe width="560" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/VS4QGEQaclk" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>

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          • dan_457
            MVP
            • Jan 2010
            • 4106

            #20
            Re: Need help on not being offensive to someone who has the hots for you...

            Originally posted by EnigmaNemesis
            Oh, if that was only so simple...



            But why isn't it though? It's more awkward for you, I'm sure. The but the process shouldn't need to change much, should it?
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            • EnigmaNemesis
              Animal Liberation
              • Apr 2006
              • 12216

              #21
              Re: Need help on not being offensive to someone who has the hots for you...

              Originally posted by dan_457


              But why isn't it though? It's more awkward for you, I'm sure. The but the process shouldn't need to change much, should it?
              Well, I do not live in San Fran, it is accepted here, but not as openly as a place like San Fran... so I do not want him to be so offended or made very uncomfortable where he gets all vindictive with my lady prospects.

              Having a gay guy on your side who pulls the hot girls as friends is a gem, one who does the same in that group, but hates on you... look out!
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              • dan_457
                MVP
                • Jan 2010
                • 4106

                #22
                Re: Need help on not being offensive to someone who has the hots for you...

                Originally posted by EnigmaNemesis
                Well, I do not live in San Fran, it is accepted here, but not as openly as a place like San Fran... so I do not want him to be so offended or made very uncomfortable where he gets all vindictive with my lady prospects.

                Having a gay guy on your side who pulls the hot girls as friends is a gem, one who does the same in that group, but hates on you... look out!
                I get where you coming from now, but still not sure why would he get offended though. I guess that's why you're handling this differently. He might just be kind throwing it out there though, to test the waters, so to speak.
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                • snepp
                  We'll waste him too.
                  • Apr 2003
                  • 10007

                  #23
                  Re: Need help on not being offensive to someone who has the hots for you...

                  Maybe he thinks that he's picking up on a bi-curious vibe. Been sending out the wrong signals?


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                  • EnigmaNemesis
                    Animal Liberation
                    • Apr 2006
                    • 12216

                    #24
                    Re: Need help on not being offensive to someone who has the hots for you...

                    Originally posted by snepp
                    Maybe he thinks that he's picking up on a bi-curious vibe. Been sending out the wrong signals?






                    Um no, definitely not. I am nice, he knows I do not judge and accept anyone into a group. But he is really ummm, flamboyant. So idk.

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                    • Beantown
                      #DoYourJob
                      • Feb 2005
                      • 31523

                      #25
                      Re: Need help on not being offensive to someone who has the hots for you...

                      Apparently (according to girls that I know, that is) if a straight guy can get a gay guy to compliment him/be attracted to him, it's an incredibly good thing.

                      Only reason this conversation has come up is a flamboyant type at work gave me a compliment one time, I had a very similar reaction to you, but all of the girls there said it's a good thing.


                      Still, though. Tell the dude you don't like frank 'n beans and move on.

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                      • EnigmaNemesis
                        Animal Liberation
                        • Apr 2006
                        • 12216

                        #26
                        Re: Need help on not being offensive to someone who has the hots for you...

                        Originally posted by Beantown
                        Apparently (according to girls that I know, that is) if a straight guy can get a gay guy to compliment him/be attracted to him, it's an incredibly good thing.

                        Only reason this conversation has come up is a flamboyant type at work gave me a compliment one time, I had a very similar reaction to you, but all of the girls there said it's a good thing.


                        Still, though. Tell the dude you don't like frank 'n beans and move on.

                        You know I heard that before too...

                        I actually already messaged him back a bit ago, I was just enjoying people's responses...

                        I will post a pic of the convo...
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                        • EnigmaNemesis
                          Animal Liberation
                          • Apr 2006
                          • 12216

                          #27
                          Re: Need help on not being offensive to someone who has the hots for you...

                          Here is the convo...



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                          • Fresh Tendrils
                            Strike Hard and Fade Away
                            • Jul 2002
                            • 36131

                            #28
                            Re: Need help on not being offensive to someone who has the hots for you...

                            Legendary.



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                            • AUChase
                              Hall Of Fame
                              • Jul 2008
                              • 19403

                              #29
                              Re: Need help on not being offensive to someone who has the hots for you...

                              Stealing a hug...

                              Hilarious.

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                              • ScoobySnax
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                                • Mar 2009
                                • 7624

                                #30
                                Re: Need help on not being offensive to someone who has the hots for you...

                                This thread just went to an even higher level of awesomeness.
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