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  • mgoblue
    Go Wings!
    • Jul 2002
    • 25477

    #151
    Re: In Need Of Some Serious Advice (Yes. Relationship Issues)

    Originally posted by Jr.
    I don't think it's just that it was the Bahamas. It's the fact that you went on a vacation with an ex you haven't seen in a long time. It could've been to Bismarck, North Dakota and it still would've been strange
    Yeah, I get that it was cheaper, but IMO that's still a lot of money to be spending to see a old ex. If I was single and the woman I was dating did what you did then I'd cut bait figuring she's hopelessly hooked on her ex. I don't think I could trust that she wouldn't run back to him in the future, you know?

    Just wouldn't sit well with me...
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    • VTPack919
      We Go Again
      • Jun 2003
      • 9708

      #152
      Re: In Need Of Some Serious Advice (Yes. Relationship Issues)

      YNWA

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      • NDAlum
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        • Jun 2010
        • 11453

        #153
        Re: In Need Of Some Serious Advice (Yes. Relationship Issues)

        Just be the next bachelor and what you did is notmal


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        • Phobia
          Hall Of Fame
          • Jan 2008
          • 11623

          #154
          Re: In Need Of Some Serious Advice (Yes. Relationship Issues)

          Most bizarre string of events.

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          • slickdtc
            Grayscale
            • Aug 2004
            • 17125

            #155
            In Need Of Some Serious Advice (Yes. Relationship Issues)

            Originally posted by VTPack919
            Wow this is greatness. Absolutely perfect

            I'm interested in how this whole thing turns out. Keep us posted!
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            • Fresh Tendrils
              Strike Hard and Fade Away
              • Jul 2002
              • 36131

              #156
              Re: In Need Of Some Serious Advice (Yes. Relationship Issues)

              I feel like we need Sally Jessy Raphael or Maury to mediate through this mess.



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              • wwharton
                *ll St*r
                • Aug 2002
                • 26949

                #157
                Re: In Need Of Some Serious Advice (Yes. Relationship Issues)

                Originally posted by TMagic
                I know the Bahamas thing seems crazy.

                But honestly it was cheaper than other options.

                She doesnt live here. She lives all the way in Florida. And to me, it would have felt rather silly to have her come all this way, spend 600 on a plane ticket, and we just grab some Starbucks to get to know each other.

                So I started thinking maybe a trip to San Diego/Vegas. Looked at hotel prices, and it would have been about 400 to stay for three nights. Then I would still be paying for food and any entertainment.

                Thats when the idea of a cruise popped into my head. Room, entertainment, all food, and a trip to the Bahamas. Fpr cheaper? Figured that would be the best and most cost efficient option.
                She lives in Florida so I'm guessing you took a cruise out of Miami or somewhere down there. Even if you got lunch with her somewhere in Florida I would wonder WTF you're thinking. She's been reaching out to reconnect with you. The logical thing would be for her to fly out to you, stay in a hotel and you two can decide from there how much happens. Maybe just lunch, maybe spending all day together, maybe spending all weekend together with you staying with her in her room. But considering where you left off before, this was supposed to be just "feeling things out".

                I don't really care but I kind of feel like you presented yourself as more righteous going into all of this than you really are/were. It's fine bc things aren't ever as black and white as people on the outside want to believe, but be real with yourself if not with us. If you look back, it's clear you weren't going into this process. At least try to be before going after your recent ex again.

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                • GAMEC0CK2002
                  Stayin Alive
                  • Aug 2002
                  • 10384

                  #158
                  Re: In Need Of Some Serious Advice (Yes. Relationship Issues)

                  I still can't decide what is the biggest swerve:
                  1) Dumping the current gf and then taking the "ole' ex to the Bahamas
                  2) Returning from said trip wanting the "new" ex back

                  Gotta believe both women should be thinking WTF
                  1) You take me to the Bahamas and then want to go back to your ex
                  AND
                  2) You break up with me, take your ex on vacation, then want to get back together

                  I hope you're not EVAN'ing us because this %&% sounds CRAZY.

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                  • areobee401
                    Hall Of Fame
                    • Apr 2006
                    • 16771

                    #159
                    Re: In Need Of Some Serious Advice (Yes. Relationship Issues)

                    I see no issue with stringing either ex along. We have no clue as to who they were seeing during their relationship hiatus. Dating is a messy game, and he honestly owes neither of them anything since no commitment was made.

                    What I can't wrap my head around is the all expenses paid Bahamas trip. Certainly not something I would have done. There are plenty of cheaper, more sensible options available to reconnect for a weekend to feel things out.

                    But hey, we all approach things like this differently. Even if I don't agree with his approach, he is going to do what he fells need to be done.

                    I won't even begin to add my two cents because OP is going to do what he wants to do. All I can do is wish him good luck with however all this plays out.
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                    • mgoblue
                      Go Wings!
                      • Jul 2002
                      • 25477

                      #160
                      Re: In Need Of Some Serious Advice (Yes. Relationship Issues)

                      Originally posted by wwharton
                      She lives in Florida so I'm guessing you took a cruise out of Miami or somewhere down there. Even if you got lunch with her somewhere in Florida I would wonder WTF you're thinking. She's been reaching out to reconnect with you. The logical thing would be for her to fly out to you, stay in a hotel and you two can decide from there how much happens. Maybe just lunch, maybe spending all day together, maybe spending all weekend together with you staying with her in her room. But considering where you left off before, this was supposed to be just "feeling things out".

                      I don't really care but I kind of feel like you presented yourself as more righteous going into all of this than you really are/were. It's fine bc things aren't ever as black and white as people on the outside want to believe, but be real with yourself if not with us. If you look back, it's clear you weren't going into this process. At least try to be before going after your recent ex again.
                      Yeah, if some woman did this to a poster here we'd all be yelling for him to GTFO...

                      At least now he understands what he wants more though...
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                      • AUChase
                        Hall Of Fame
                        • Jul 2008
                        • 19403

                        #161
                        Re: In Need Of Some Serious Advice (Yes. Relationship Issues)

                        T, is this why you aren't playing Battlefield ?

                        I don't even know you anymore.

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                        • TMagic
                          G.O.A.T.
                          • Apr 2007
                          • 7550

                          #162
                          Re: In Need Of Some Serious Advice (Yes. Relationship Issues)

                          Originally posted by AUChase
                          T, is this why you aren't playing Battlefield ?



                          I don't even know you anymore.

                          How can I expect to be the awesome soldier that I am, kicking a** and taking tags, if I cant even get my mind together in dealing with my love life? Smh.

                          I'd be useless on the battlefield. Lol
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                          • SidVish
                            2010,13,15,16 CHAMPS!
                            • Apr 2003
                            • 11743

                            #163
                            Re: In Need Of Some Serious Advice (Yes. Relationship Issues)

                            My man Tmagic is out here getting away with **** that even Clooney couldn't manage to pull. I'm not one to judge and love is a really ****ed up game so good luck. Hope you find what you're looking for and end up happy.
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