How is reality insulting? Nothing I've said isn't true and there's nothing wrong with embracing our differences. There are certain advantages a female athlete may have over a male and vice versa. As far as other attributes, yes, they're not going to be as strong either, among other things.
NBA Live is fighting an uphill battle trying to dethrone NBA 2k, I understand the need to do something they're not, but giving their Pro AM an unrealistic feel by having women balling like men isn't the right solution imo.