Corny Topic...How Do/Did You Know That You've Found The Right One?

[dickey1331]

Quote: Originally Posted by TMagic

Do you guys feel like her being able to make YOU laugh is important? Or is that more just a "perk"? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Yeah I think it's important. You have to be able to joke around with each other and that goes both ways.

[youvalss]

After a LONG LONG term relationship that was horrible...I finally came to my senses and ended it. I would have ended it so much earlier, but unfortunately I wasn't that smart back then. During the year and a half after that I went on lots of dates (a 2-month relationship was the longest one that came out of it).

Then came October 2005...and I met this nice girl online (I should say I met them all online...except for one that my dad set me up with...haha, yeah my dad). I sent her a message through some dating website and she replied and gave me here Messenger username (she actually got a message from another guy at the same time and was about to talk to him too...but he never went online...thank God!).

We then talked on the phone for a couple of hours and met 2 days later. It was so great, we both knew it right there that this was it (we didn't say it out, but it was obvious to both of us). It was so natural - no games (I actually never played games and never understood what it was good for), no pretending, no "I'll pretend I'm not that interested", nothing of this stuff, only sincerity.

We moved in together almost 8 months later, and got married after 2 years together. I don't think I ever actually proposed her in a formal way. It was just obvious that it would happen sooner or later. I'm pretty sure we were just talking and I said something like "so how about we get married?", and she said "sure". Maybe even more casual than that.

We've been married for 8.5 years. She's the best!



*** So....did this answer the original question of this thread? I'm not sure, but all I know is that it worked. TMagic, I don't think there's need to analyze it too much.

[Jr.]

Quote: Originally Posted by TMagic

Do you guys feel like her being able to make YOU laugh is important? Or is that more just a "perk"? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

I make myself laugh enough, so that would be a perk.

For me, it's that she offsets my weaknesses really well.

I'm terribly with money, she's great with it. I have a horrible memory, she remembers things for me. She's great with keeping in touch with family; I would rarely talk to any family members if it wasn't for her. I don't plan much for the future and that's her main focus.

Most of the areas I'm deficient in, she excels in, so we complement each other really well.

[RockinDaMike]

I'm just like you Jr, every single thing mentioned is one of my weaknesses and my girl is her strengths.

In my business right now I'm the guy who comes up with everything but she's the one executes better.

We make such a great team and we rely on each other when one of us is weak.

I can't tell you when you find the one, it's just something you know I guess.

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[seasprite]

If she's ok at looking at you when you have a gaming headset on and just in your underwear on the couch......she's the one

All kidding aside, I think "the one" is the one you think about more than yourself and someone who doesn't necessarily have all the same interests, but enjoys doing those things that interest you the most.


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[NYJets]

Quote: Originally Posted by TMagic

Do you guys feel like her being able to make YOU laugh is important? Or is that more just a "perk"? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Being able to make each other laugh is like the first thing I look for in girl. If I'm not laughing a lot on the first date there isn't going to be a 2nd.

[Speedy]

Quote: Originally Posted by daflyboys

This is all you need to know:

I lost it when he was talking about the danger zone/girls and said anyone named Tiffany.

[Ghost Of The Year]

Quote: Originally Posted by TMagic

How do/did you know that you've found the right one?

If you've seen the picture of Emma Stone eating a corndog, that's how you know.