Do You Buy Females Drinks In The Club?

[Nivek]

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I agree with the whole "Buy me a drink" line to hit a female with. That is original and it definitely will stand out in a girl's mind. While it might be hit or miss; it definitely will garner the most response out of a female.

Again, I don't think it is EVER right to buy a girl a drink. She has seen it before, 66,000 times; why would you even WANT to be placed in that same category as the rest of the fools that tried that same routine?

Again, women do not respect dudes that buy them drinks. Let me rephrase that; they do not respect that act. They view it simply as, "Oh this dude is trying to get me dronk so he can smash." They will gladly take it and not let you hit (which I don't blame them for).

I agree 100%, that's the point I'm trying to get across to Jaybee.

[savoie2006]

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Quality over quantity, my friend. When you're looking for some "p*ssy", your standards tend to nose dive.

Yes and finding a quality woman is like finding a needle in a hay stack.Same can be said of men.I happen to be very lucky and have found myself a keeper.I do agree with you that once you start looking for some,your standards lower.Thus my point of going to the club in the first place.

[DC]

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Yea finding a quality woman is VERY hard. That is why people settle and accept just about anything. (easy way out).

[KG]

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I always ask girls in the club to buy ME a drink, it's a great ice breaker. But seriously, if I'm going to a club, I only do bottle service because: a) it works out cheaper in a party of 6 or more b) line bypass c) chicks think you have money, because 90% of clubbers don't think about value.

So to answer the question, no I don't buy females drinks at the bar. But I'll let them hang out in my booth for a bit, most girls get starry eyed when their in the VIP section, and usually do some provocative things after a shot or two of Grey Goose..

Agree on all of the bottle service but only when u have a decent amount of people with you. I always come to the club a lil tipsy anyways.

Some of ya'll need to chill with all the "i will never buy a girl a drink in the bar/club"...

You mean to tell me that if you and your boys hit a club and u hit it off with some chick (dancing, conversing all night, etc...) you won't buy her a drink at some point in the night?

You will basically be like "I'll be right back" or "I'm gonna get a drink" and then when you come back you show up with a drink in your hand? That's some rude ish right there in my opinion. Depending on the girl she might or might not pull your card verbally but she will definately be thinking in her mind "Y didn't this guy even offer to get me a drink"

That could be the difference in going home solo or waking up the next morning with some new chick

[DC]

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I have NEVER bought a girl a drink in the club and I NEVER will. Don't see why it is so hard for you to believe that not everyone wines and dines these females out here.

Rude for not buying her a drink? How does the rude factor come into play man? Seriously where are you getting these ideas from? RUDE for not spending YOUR hard earned $ on a STRANGER? Yea ok.

[JayBee74]

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Like I said man, don't knock it until you've tried it. It's not canned, cheesy and it's definatley not lazy. I addressed you b/c you're calling me out as if I'm some *******, who treats women like ****. It's a conversation starter..nothing more, nothing less. You have to fill the blanks yourself, if you're capable to do so. But hey, feel free to waste your hard earned money on females who don't give a **** about you or your life story.

It's not even *******-ish, you act as if I'm crawling up to every chick using the same line...that wouldn't be original now would it.

First of all, I'm not calling you out as some *&*&** who treats women like **&^^%. I explained that in a follow up post. I DON"T LIKE THE LINE!! You and DCALLAMERICAN are equating that line with the HolyGrail Of Confidence And Manliness, and if I don't buy it I am using slobbering, desperate, kiss a$$, throwing money at women techniques. What's wrong with buying a girl a drink when you have basically sealed the deal?-throw your conquest a bone.

[JayBee74]

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I agree 100%, that's the point I'm trying to get across to Jaybee.

I think at some point we must agree to disagree and realize we are not too far apart.

[KG]

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I have NEVER bought a girl a drink in the club and I NEVER will. Don't see why it is so hard for you to believe that not everyone wines and dines these females out here.

Rude for not buying her a drink? How does the rude factor come into play man? Seriously where are you getting these ideas from? RUDE for not spending YOUR hard earned $ on a STRANGER? Yea ok.

Buying a girl 1 drink is not wining & dining. I threw out a hypothetical scenario that I think is very possible. In that scenario where you are rapping to that chick for good part of the night and you hit it off with the possibility of things escalating (1 night stand, getting a #, date,...whatever) you might go to the bar and get a drink. I didn't say rude for not buying her a drink, I just said offering her too. Maybe she's quality and says no but appreciated the notion. Not every girl is after your money.

[DC]

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Buying a girl 1 drink is not wining & dining..

Don't understand how it ISN'T but ok

In that scenario where you are rapping to that chick for good part of the night and you hit it off with the possibility of things escalating (1 night stand, getting a #, date,...whatever) you might go to the bar and get a drink. I didn't say rude for not buying her a drink, I just said offering her too. Maybe she's quality and says no but appreciated the notion. Not every girl is after your money.

1. Not under the impression that every girl was after my $ and that is definitely not the point I was trying to make.

2. Again I don't see how it is RUDE to NOT offer a COMPLETE STRANGER an opportunity to spend YOUR hard earned money on THEM. I don't know who taught you that logic but whoever did disrespected your mind.

3. LOL I don't give a damn if she is quality or not. She is NOT WORTH it. When you buy her a drink you become a TRICK. Do you understand that? Or is it ok with you to be a trick because it is just ONE drink.

Again this just further proves my point of behavior like this is accepted and EXPECTED in our community. Sad state that the world is in.

I throwing in the white flag here

[aholbert32]

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I have NEVER bought a girl a drink in the club and I NEVER will. Don't see why it is so hard for you to believe that not everyone wines and dines these females out here.

Rude for not buying her a drink? How does the rude factor come into play man? Seriously where are you getting these ideas from? RUDE for not spending YOUR hard earned $ on a STRANGER? Yea ok.

LOL. Buying a girl an 8-10 dollar drink is wining and dining? LOL.

I dont buy random girls drinks because I dont think its a smart play. Ive known too many girls that will accept the drink but have no intention of giving the guy the number. I have no problem buying drinks for girls I know or am cool with though.

[savoie2006]

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Don't understand how it ISN'T but ok


1. Not under the impression that every girl was after my $ and that is definitely not the point I was trying to make.

2. Again I don't see how it is RUDE to NOT offer a COMPLETE STRANGER an opportunity to spend YOUR hard earned money on THEM. I don't know who taught you that logic but whoever did disrespected your mind.

3. LOL I don't give a damn if she is quality or not. She is NOT WORTH it. When you buy her a drink you become a TRICK. Do you understand that? Or is it ok with you to be a trick because it is just ONE drink.

Again this just further proves my point of behavior like this is accepted and EXPECTED in our community. Sad state that the world is in.

I throwing in the white flag here

DC,would you buy one of the guys a drink,loan them money,or anything else generous?

[KG]

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Don't understand how it ISN'T but ok


1. Not under the impression that every girl was after my $ and that is definitely not the point I was trying to make.

2. Again I don't see how it is RUDE to NOT offer a COMPLETE STRANGER an opportunity to spend YOUR hard earned money on THEM. I don't know who taught you that logic but whoever did disrespected your mind.

3. LOL I don't give a damn if she is quality or not. She is NOT WORTH it. When you buy her a drink you become a TRICK. Do you understand that? Or is it ok with you to be a trick because it is just ONE drink.

Again this just further proves my point of behavior like this is accepted and EXPECTED in our community. Sad state that the world is in.

I throwing in the white flag here

1. Got ya

2. A complete stranger is someone you just approach off the break and try to spark a convo with with some line like "blah blah blah, do u want a drink?" In the scenario I wrote its someone you've been rapping to all night who is obviously feeling you and vice versa, someone you're trying to get to know better. Whether or not its just to hit that night, the next night, whatever. If that's the case then its almost an investment.

3. So basically any girl you would have to spend money on or hold their purse is not worth it?

[DC]

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DC,would you buy one of the guys a drink,loan them money,or anything else generous?

Drink? No. I don't even drink my damn self so that is the main reason why.

Loan them money yea. If it is a CLOSE friend (4 people).

But as I said before my relationship with my BOYS can't be compared to that of stranger type females.

I treat everyone different.

[DC]

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Any girl that YOU buy a drink for in the club off of X amount of time conversing (which still makes her a stranger) will not respect you. She views you as a TRICK. You might can SMASH yea. But how valuable is that honestly? Some dudes sell their morals/integrity for a piece of p*ssy. Happens WAY too often.

[Nivek]

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I think the disconnect is the fact that DC is relating this to a total stranger. I've bought females drinks who were associates of mine, that's a totally different argument. DC is trying to establish the fact that buying a female a drink, after a 30 second interaction is incredibly stupid. (I agree with him, it conveys the image that dudes wanna get them wasted)

On the topic of drinks, I was at a bar over the weekend and a girl asked me to go fetch her a drink.

What would most of the guys at OS do in this situation?

Typically, I laugh it of and say something like, "not until I get to know an interesting fact about yourself."

Does that make me an a-hole?